Why You Should Always Have Sex On A First Date

[Dupac]

so either way you're going to eventually get let down.....

might as well get a nut outta the situation

If it was just a nut, I would agree....but if you get one STD, you're gonna have a hard time getting any nuts in the future

if you scared to get punched don't get into fights nigga

 

[Kat]

Lol..du why you trolling?

 

[Rasta.]

sex is what you make it.....

you can make a nigga wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??

just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....

sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top

it's not about that, well for me at least. i need to know a person a little bit before i'd feel comfortable enough to have sex with them.

you don't have to have sex with them from the jump to figure out what type of situation you are in. if anything not having sex right away would be more effective in weeding out those that just want sex, cuz they will not be willing to wait

that's such bs...

willingness to wait means absolutely nothing in the long run.....

because a dude could be willing to wait simply because all he wants to do is fuck.....everything he does is simply to gain more favor to smash....

so here a dude is doing his best to be the perfect guy, and you get all emotionally vested in him, cuz you think he's the perfect guy....and soon as he smashes he's like

and proceeds to act the fuck up immediately after....

at least if you fuck on the first date.....u know if he's solely there for the puss or if he's actually trying to hang around for a while

if i can't say "i love you" and have it reciprocated, i'm not having sex with you. no guy that just wants sex is gonna date me for months before that happens.

thank god i only date nice muslim guys, they reserve their hoe chasing for the non-muslim girls and don't pressure you into anything

also people like to pretend that they are having sex casually because they are so free and liberated while ignoring how often that is a symptom of deeper underlying emotional issues. using sex as a substitute for real emotional connections is not particularly healthy. and for every person having free, liberated sex there are 10 using it to fill the emotional hole in their lives

lets not even get started on how women and men differ hormonally, and how that makes it almost impossible for women to not grow attached to people they have sex with, whether they plan to or not. i save myself the trouble and get attached before i have sex

Damn really Kai?

lol, yes really. my now husband and i dated for like 6 months before we had sex

180 days of staring at your perky nips and not having a go at them? No wonder the man has a lot of leeway when it comes to matters of the carnal kind lmao

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Lmfao naa I'm not giving away my pussy power so quick

 

[blakfyahking]

Lmfao naa I'm not giving away my pussy power so quick

you saying the pussy is so mediocre that once dude smashes and finds out the truth

you'll basically no longer have any leverage?

say it ain't so young yella

 

[High Revolutionary]

Real shit.

Sexual chemistry is like one of the top 3(probably 2) most important things in a relationship.

Why waste time and money only to find out she fuck like takes sex tips from a Real doll.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Lmfao naa I'm not giving away my pussy power so quick

you saying the pussy is so mediocre that once dude smashes and finds out the truth

you'll basically no longer have any leverage?

say it ain't so young yella

I like you. You're very good at twisting words.

 

[Bazz-B]

y'all get mad when a girl has a high body count and yall want the girls to fuck on the first date.

 

[SixSickSins]

y'all get mad when a girl has a high body count and yall want the girls to fuck on the first date.

It's sad that you're younger than some of the fools in here and can easily point out their idiotic hypocrisy.

How do they go about endorsing the same behavior they shun in the next breath?

"Bitch better put out on the first date"

"I can't stand hoes, that's not what a lady would do...there are no respectable ladies left"

Some of the men on here are pitifully confused and just be posting to get "cool male points" on the IC.

"Ohh yeahhh, a thread about men & women getting more sex in a promiscuous manner, I better cosign this stupidity or I will be deemed a faggot!"

It's easy to discern whose mothers fucked every Dick, Dick, and Dick in town and fathers who thought the epitome of raising a good man was making sure he got his dick wet by no later than 16. Bad stock.

Children.

@mssouthern you know what to do.

 

[High Revolutionary]

y'all get mad when a girl has a high body count and yall want the girls to fuck on the first date.

Just because a girl fucks on the first date doesn't mean she has a high body count though.

She shouldn't necessarily be fucking every dude she goes on a date with.

The caveat is if she's saving herself for religious purposes/marriage that's one thing but if she's already fucking and will continue to fuck what's the point?

 

[Bazz-B]

y'all get mad when a girl has a high body count and yall want the girls to fuck on the first date.

Just because a girl fucks on the first date doesn't mean she has a high body count though.

If she she keep fucking on the first date, she eventually will.

 

[Bazz-B]

Let be honest 9 times of 10 if she fuck a dude on the first date, that nigga is gone by the next week he already got what he wanted.

 

[CP203]

my wife made me wait a year got damn i hated her during that time, but i be damned if i didn't have a nice team of jumps

 

[High Revolutionary]

y'all get mad when a girl has a high body count and yall want the girls to fuck on the first date.

Just because a girl fucks on the first date doesn't mean she has a high body count though.

If she she keep fucking on the first date, she eventually will.

Maybe if every dude is just hitting and quitting but if that's the case her decision making is lacking. Those dates should potentially be leading to relationships and maybe even marriage.

EDIT: and if all a dude is ever trying to do is hit and quit that's a character flaw in him as well.

 

[Dupac]

y'all get mad when a girl has a high body count and yall want the girls to fuck on the first date.

not I...

it's the younger cats that hate high body counts.....once you hit like 25.....

that shit dont' even matter anymore...

in fact, i'd prefer someone who has a masters in bedroom mechanics...can't have some shy timid, don't know what to do with her body ass chick....gimme a pro....

(but i'm married)

 

[twatgetta]

Typical...Broads got feelings.....Fellaz got love.

When will you women stop bullshittin' yourselves? you know damn well if his fuck game is suspect you ain't investing no more time so it's important that you drop trow before you commit. lyin asses. @kai I KNOW you had to give that lil petite ass up pronto, so did @kat...

Dick >>>>>>>>>Vibrator..nh...stop lyin @kat...God is watchin'..lol

 

[twatgetta]

http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/why-you-should-always-have-sex-on-a-first-date/

Ladies – we’ve all heard it before: every woman’s magazine, all your girlfriends and every dating site have always been adamant about one rule of dating – no sex on the first date. Even Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, is strict about the rule “no sex without monogamy.”

You know Patti Stanger is still single, right?

I’m here to tell you to ignore what everyone says and go ahead and bang him on the first date. How do I know? Well, nearly all my long-term relationships have stemmed from giving it up on date one – including my now husband.

Sexually compatible

From a girl who has slept with countless amounts of men, and a few ladies – I know from doing my research that it’s difficult to find a good lay nowadays. We are all into different things in bed, and if he has a really f*cked up fetish like symorophilia, mucophilia or plushophilia – trust me, you want to find this out straight away and get the f*ck out of there. And if you didn’t really have a good time on your date, but you find him really ridiculously hot, the sex might be amazing and boom: you’ve found yourself a new f*ck-buddy!

Penis size

I don’t know about you, but when I’m interested in a man, my mind usually goes towards the issue of size: the size of his wallet and also the size of his penis. Sure, every guy probably thinks that he’s huge, but ladies – we know that the majority of men are average at best. So, before you invest any of your valuable spare time in this man, it’s advantageous for you to meet his penis – and the sooner, the better.

How disappointed would you be if you dated this man for weeks, invested weekends where you forwent hanging out in the Hamptons with your girlfriends getting white girl wasted, only to discover that your potential boyfriend has a weird, bendy dick, is an uncircumcised sharpei, or has a penis the size of a cocktail wiener? Take my advice and investigate down south sooner rather than later.

Avoids Awkwardness

When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a climax? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.

If you bang him on the first date, you don’t really need to worry so much about the impression you’re giving off on the second date – feel free to show up in yoga pants and a tank top because – guess what? He’s already seen you naked! The jig is up. And all those games that you play on the first few dates can also be eradicated – not sure about who is going to pay the check? Feel free to push that bill right over to him because, guess what? You sucked his dick last week. He can at least pay for dinner.

Investment of time

We are all busy and time-poor in today’s hectic world. Dating is a huge endeavor that not only sucks up your free time, but sometimes it could end up costing you money; money that you can be spending on those new shoes, liposuction or Botox.

Sex, on the other hand, is a good gauge of whether all this effort is worth it, so why go through countless dates only to find out that hey – maybe you don’t want his penis in you? Alternatively, if you bang him right away, you can make an informed decision about whether you want to invest anymore of your valuable time and money into this man.

Let’s face it – we are busy ladies. F*ck being coy – go out and get laid. If it feels right, do it.

Good things comes to those who wait? I say wait too long and no one gets to come.

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[twatgetta]

Great topic @DuDu you opened a can of feelings that need to be dealt with. you've shaken up the status quo

 

[luke1733]

Don't ever like how a woman likes to make it seem as though sex from a woman is a privilege to a man that puts him in debt to a woman (Pac said it best you giving me pussy...well I'm giving you dick I don't owe you shhh), but she makes some interesting points on other stuff.

Personally, I fell in love with a woman I had sex with on the first date and that was my longest relationship to date. I remember thinking of the fact that it was the first date, but it had no impression on me as far as keeping her or leaving her. Actually on the point below the article made was right.She was the prettiest one and finest one I ever dated and it made me a little nervous to be with her that day until we had sex. After that, my nerves settled down forever and I could be normal with her.

Avoids Awkwardness

When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a climax? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

so either way you're going to eventually get let down.....

might as well get a nut outta the situation

If it was just a nut, I would agree....but if you get one STD, you're gonna have a hard time getting any nuts in the future

Stop bitching and man up.