Why it seem like half the chicks I run into are single mothers?

[ar1134]

because we have a surplus of single mothers in the black community. especially these youngins- fuckin raw like its kissin.

 

[Tupacfan]

Keep looking, I'm sure you'll find someone that meets ur standards and ya'll can start a happy family together an do the child bearing together...

Good luck!

 

[GrizTitan]

its a virus

Its reality. The older you get it gets to a point that its rare meeting a chick that doesnt have a child.

 

[shadb33]

My preferences are black and latina women. Unfortunately these are the two most common races that have women who wanna have kids while their young. My advice to you is to go to places where women are most likely to NOT have a child already i.e. 4 year college campuses , higher income communities, etc. There are still women 18-25 years old that don't have a child but like others have said it's getting worse.

 

[J-GUTTA]

Wow. She most be one self-entitled woman.

I'm not dating any woman with kids. But for woman to want a man without kids when she has is just... unbelievable.

Me and my Sister in law had this conversation (she already had a son when she met my brother) and the way she explained it was because she couldn't be priority to that man in his life, and of course I told her that sh!t contradicts itself. What makes sense in a lot of womens minds is some only in my world sh!t.

 

[junegemini]

because its the growing trend...duh

not saying they not out there, but its becoming rare these days to find a woman w/out kids

*woman with no kids post*

 

[dj expanium]

What about the other half?

 

[King Erauno]

because if youre in your upper 20's 9 out of 10 women have had a kid with a dude they thought they would have been married to

 

[shadb33]

because if youre in your upper 20's 9 out of 10 women have had a kid with a dude they thought they would have been married to

instead of marrying him first...black women be doin shit backwards sometimes...

 

[hummingbird]

because if youre in your upper 20's 9 out of 10 women have had a kid with a dude they thought they would have been married to

or were married to.

Just keep looking, dont settle. You'll either find what your looking for or die old and alone. But never the less keep up the good fight :tu

 

[Ace Boon]

Umm do you go to college? It's plenty of broads there with no kids.

 

[bpt hustle]

Chicks with kids only get the "3 b's" Beat it up, Bang it up, And Bounce. the worst part is the chicks with kids with different fathers. who is gonna wife that?lmfao

 

[GrizTitan]

instead of marrying him first...black women be doin shit backwards sometimes...

Yeah you may have been around most the black women that are in the situation but its not just black women.

 

[Chillin&Postin]

get used to it
and know this
if you meet a chick with jus one kid,,that is now the equivalent to what used to be no kids
and if you meet a woman,doing good,with no kids....UNICORN

 

[VulcanRaven]

Your mistake was thinking that there were women out there that are better.Even if you find one without kids,she probably still won't be shit.Women who are worth marriage or commitment are a rare breed indeed.

 

[shadb33]

Yeah you may have been around most the black women that are in the situation but its not just black women.

according to them new stats that just dropped they take it to the extreme...

 

[Crude_]

Your mistake was thinking that there were women out there that are better.Even if you find one without kids,she probably still won't be shit.Women who are worth marriage or commitment are a rare breed indeed.

^^^ True statement. Most of these women in general are jaded and full of drama. Its look like I might still be doing this bachelor thing well into my 30s if ish doesn't change soon I will be 26 next month.

 

[Chillin&Postin]

And you won't know whether or not the women without kids have had any abortions or how many they've had unless they tell you.

Think you've got a good girl, get married, ready to start a family, and then find out she can't have kids because of complications from having too many abortions.

it happens...more often then you think

then they say the man is a bad guy cuz he regrets or wants out of his marriage

actually i think that is grounds for an annulment in alot of states,,so you can walk away but you cant replace the time lost to a lie or unspoken truth

 

[willhustle]

whatever you do do not compromise, and single childless women are out there.

This ^^^^ most important part

 

[dj expanium]

Overlooked post!!!!

whatever you do do not compromise, and single childless women are out there.

Best believe that and there are some black women as well!!!!