Why it seem like half the chicks I run into are single mothers?

[Dupac]

i should start a car seat business...

 

[Chillin&Postin]

i should start a car seat business...

and a foodstamp to cash ring

those folks make guap

 

[kevmic]

Wtf is this shit? Why does it seem like every other fine chick with a great personality I meet has a lil' nigglet at home? Am I wrong for wanting the experience of childbearing to be new to both of us? Who wants to be a rookie dealin' wit a six year veteran twat calling all the shots?

I have nothing against women who are single mothers. Nothing at all, but I would rather not have that bomb dropped on me damn near every time I mess wit' a chick. Why would I wanna meet yo son just to turn around and have to tell him: "I only wanted the puss, lil nigga" when he asks why I don't come around anymore? C'mon son.

I caint be the only nigga with this problem. I like older women, I'll admit it, but is it so hard to keep from gettin' nutted in between the ages of 18-24?

LMAO!!! good post. It's sad to say, but the majority of women between those ages are knocked up, because of stupid decisions.I get tired of women pretending like their child was such a blessing. God ain't blessing all these young women the same exact way!! Women find it harder to find a man, but won't recognize that them having kids before 25 make them seem like damaged goods to a guy who don't have any kids.

 

[ceothachosen1]

if a chick look good someone gonna try they best to put a kid in her

 

[jbrooks229]

Wtf is this shit? Why does it seem like every other fine chick with a great personality I meet has a lil' nigglet at home? Am I wrong for wanting the experience of childbearing to be new to both of us? Who wants to be a rookie dealin' wit a six year veteran twat calling all the shots?

I have nothing against women who are single mothers. Nothing at all, but I would rather not have that bomb dropped on me damn near every time I mess wit' a chick. Why would I wanna meet yo son just to turn around and have to tell him: "I only wanted the puss, lil nigga" when he asks why I don't come around anymore? C'mon son.

I caint be the only nigga with this problem. I like older women, I'll admit it, but is it so hard to keep from gettin' nutted in between the ages of 18-24?

thats the main reason i havent made a lil me yet

 

[kevmic]

if a chick look good someone gonna try they best to put a kid in her

I always wondered about the logic some of these niggas have when they do get a chick pregnant. I mean, they like the girl. They like her enough to go raw. Get her pregnant. Then bounce and don't even take care of something that belongs to them?? Basically fucking it up for the chick and any nigga who comes in after them. But the father won't mess with the chick or their seed?? I don't get these niggas sometimes!!

 

[The BAPHOMET]

hold up theres alot of single mothers..........that would explain all these niggas that say they have kids when my female friends meet em, all this time I was tellin the ladies them niggas was lying

 

[ceothachosen1]

I always wondered about the logic some of these niggas have when they do get a chick pregnant. I mean, they like the girl. They like her enough to go raw. Get her pregnant. Then bounce and don't even take care of something that belongs to them?? Basically fucking it up for the chick and any nigga who comes in after them. But the father won't mess with the chick or their seed?? I don't get these niggas sometimes!!

lol I think the logic is that if a chick have a baby by you you always got 1 foot in the door. even if you not ready to settle down now, you can always come back later. Females always have this fantasy of being a family wit they baby father so the door is never completely closed

 

[CMac]

Well it seems like you just keep running into women with kids, I only ran into 2 that I remember, the rest are single without any kids.

 

[ceothachosen1]

putting a kid in a chick is like a dog pissing on a tree. you are marking your territory if another dog come around he still gotta smell your piss. you letting the world know you conquered this chick by sticking your flag in the ground

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Don't worry, it's equally as hard for women since for every single mother there's a baby daddy. Funny the men never get mentioned in this equation lol.

 

[Iheart~Cali]

hold up theres alot of single mothers..........that would explain all these niggas that say they have kids when my female friends meet em, all this time I was tellin the ladies them niggas was lying

Yup. There's hardly any men who don't have kids anymore. I just assume they do until they tell me they don't.

 

[El oh El]

Don't worry, it's equally as hard for women since for every single mother there's a baby daddy. Funny the men never get mentioned in this equation lol.

Typical Single mom post

T/S is a male looking for a female. Why should he be concerned with baby daddies?

 

[kevmic]

Don't worry, it's equally as hard for women since for every single mother there's a baby daddy. Funny the men never get mentioned in this equation lol.

Ok but let's be clear. The majority of men with kids, chances are don't have custody of them, so that means single women don't have to deal with the person they're dating expecting them to step in as another parent. Unlike with women who almost always have custody, any man she meets, after a few months of solid dating will automatically expect him to take on the role as new daddy. So yes for every woman there is a man with a kid, but not all men with kids even have custody so it's not like the women their dating have to build their relationship around the kid like most men has to.

 

[shadb33]

Yea there are a lotta dudes out here with kids too but the emphasize should be placed on the women since yall do have the final say on having the child. Most black women wanna get married so I dont understand why they would make it harder on themselves to have a kid outta wedlock before getting the ring.

 

[Gnawledgeable]

In a way it's bad that you don't wanna be with a woman who has a child though she has all the qualities you'll ever want.

I guess it's human nature that people don't want to clean up someone else's mess, do other people's work, etc. . . . .

 

[J-GUTTA]

Yea there are a lotta dudes out here with kids too but the emphasize should be placed on the women since yall do have the final say on having the child. Most black women wanna get married so I dont understand why they would make it harder on themselves to have a kid outta wedlock before getting the ring.

Because that's when they suddenly become religious.

edit

about abortion

 

[dj expanium]

I always wondered about the logic some of these niggas have when they do get a chick pregnant. I mean, they like the girl. They like her enough to go raw. Get her pregnant. Then bounce and don't even take care of something that belongs to them?? Basically fucking it up for the chick and any nigga who comes in after them. But the father won't mess with the chick or their seed?? I don't get these niggas sometimes!!

I don't understand the reasoning for those choices/decisions as well.

 

[politicalthug202]

Yeah you may have been around most the black women that are in the situation but its not just black women.

go to upscale night clubs stop checking for girls in the hood i live in chicago

and have never dealt with a chick with a kid. if you meet is baby mamas either

u broke nigga or u have no swag

 

[Tha Killa]

Is it only an abortion if you kill the kid before she shits it out?