Why it seem like half the chicks I run into are single mothers?

[TrueGodHS]

There are a lot of single mothers out here... Every girl in the world has kids it seems like.... but the key word is single mother... Some sad shit

 

[yallsostupid]

probably bumpin into my baby mommas

 

[DarcSkies]

Where you live at??? Most women I run into in L.A. is single with no babies..

L.A. stay winning in this category

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[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Wow. She most be one self-entitled woman.

I'm not dating any woman with kids. But for woman to want a man without kids when she has is just... unbelievable.

yeah i was kinda shocked by that myself

 

[Tha Killa]

.......................

Lies.

The Bay >>>>>

 

[Max.]

b cuz half of them think its ''cute'' or ''gods gift'' to have a kid at 17

 

[Tha Killa]

Is it only an abortion if you kill the kid before she shits it out?

I want answers niggas. Or is that what a "late term abortion is"?

 

[allreasoned_out]

Don't worry, it's equally as hard for women since for every single mother there's a baby daddy. Funny the men never get mentioned in this equation lol.

Not exactly. There can be more unmarried mothers than unmarried fathers. Why? Because the same one man can have children with more than one woman. We know that there are some dudes who don't get any action at all. So there probably are more unmarried mothers than unmarried fathers.

 

[Shizlansky]

Not exactly. There can be more unmarried mothers than unmarried fathers. Why? Because the same one man can have children with more than one woman. We know that there are some dudes who don't get any action at all. So there probably are more unmarried mothers than unmarried fathers.

Knowledge had just been dropped in this thread

*claps hand*

 

[letstrythisagain]

I always wondered about the logic some of these niggas have when they do get a chick pregnant. I mean, they like the girl. They like her enough to go raw. Get her pregnant. Then bounce and don't even take care of something that belongs to them?? Basically fucking it up for the chick and any nigga who comes in after them. But the father won't mess with the chick or their seed?? I don't get these niggas sometimes!!

lol i dont get that either. alotta men dont want to get serious with a girl who has kid(s). but then you have guys who, when they get with a girl who is supposedly "so fine", they want her to have his seed, but once she gets knocked up things change. and most, if not all the time, the guy doesnt want to be bothered with all that comes with having a kid or the girl aint handling pregnancy/motherhood very well, or BOTH. then they break up.

i always thought that was stupid. two people be together and shit looks real good for them. but once a baby comes in the picture they break up that shit doesnt make any sense lol

 

[letstrythisagain]

lol I think the logic is that if a chick have a baby by you you always got 1 foot in the door. even if you not ready to settle down now, you can always come back later. Females always have this fantasy of being a family wit they baby father so the door is never completely closed

yea but that kinda shit be sloppy as hell and it doesnt work well. not at all.

 

[ceothachosen1]

not saying it work just the thought process

 

[Coo Coo Cal's Beanie]

Women in LA got the highest standards in the world, if you can pull a classy chick here you can pull them anywhere

aint no classy bitches out here the fuck u mean?

 

[Tha Killa]

aint no classy bitches out here the fuck u mean?

I only been out there 5 times at most but I said the same shit when I saw that post.

 

[Intellectual_Liberal]

Wtf is this shit? Why does it seem like every other fine chick with a great personality I meet has a lil' nigglet at home? Am I wrong for wanting the experience of childbearing to be new to both of us? Who wants to be a rookie dealin' wit a six year veteran twat calling all the shots?

I have nothing against women who are single mothers. Nothing at all, but I would rather not have that bomb dropped on me damn near every time I mess wit' a chick. Why would I wanna meet yo son just to turn around and have to tell him: "I only wanted the puss, lil nigga" when he asks why I don't come around anymore? C'mon son.

I caint be the only nigga with this problem. I like older women, I'll admit it, but is it so hard to keep from gettin' nutted in between the ages of 18-24?

I seriously co-sign the hell out of everything you said. Before I met the woman I'm with now, for some reason, it seemed like the ONLY chicks approaching me were the ones who had at least one kid. This one chick who's only a year younger than me, had 4 kids, with a 5th on the way, came up to me at my job wanting to take me out for ice cream; WITH her four young boys...seriously??? I'm mean, she couldn't be serious now, could she?

 

[Intellectual_Liberal]

Where you live at??? Most women I run into in L.A. is single with no babies..

L.A. stay winning in this category

I'm originally from L.A. myself, and usually don't have that problem whenever I'm home. In the Air Force right now stationed in Northern Cali and everybody has kids up here it seems...

 

[kevmic]

lol i dont get that either. alotta men dont want to get serious with a girl who has kid(s). but then you have guys who, when they get with a girl who is supposedly "so fine", they want her to have his seed, but once she gets knocked up things change. and most, if not all the time, the guy doesnt want to be bothered with all that comes with having a kid or the girl aint handling pregnancy/motherhood very well, or BOTH. then they break up.

i always thought that was stupid. two people be together and shit looks real good for them. but once a baby comes in the picture they break up that shit doesnt make any sense lol

But here's the funniest part. The BD will have the nerve to get mad and cockblock any dude who starts kicking it with his BM. To the point you're like, okay so do you want to be with her and just don't want to man up and take care of your responsibility?? Or is it your really insecure about your shit, and can't just be a man and say you are scared to take on the responsibility of a kid?? I got female friends dealing with niggas like that, and I got a homeboy talking to a chick dealing with a lazy, jealous baby's dad right now. Hhe don't want to be with her and the baby, but he's beefin with my homie for sleeping with her!! Niggas can be hilarious at times.