Why are women so quick to jump in relationships?

[Tha Killa]

Bwahaha at that other bay area nigga dry snitchin' on threadstarter tho. Aint nothin' wrong wit' bein' a aint shit nigga outchea.

 

[Tha Killa]

All jokes aside tho, I came to the thread mad late. I'm doin' laundry and ironing my clothes for work tomorrow and the whole 9. So excuse me if it's been answered already, but what exactly were you getting at with your original post Doc?

 

[Dr.Chemix]

All jokes aside tho, I came to the thread mad late. I'm doin' laundry and ironing my clothes for work tomorrow and the whole 9. So excuse me if it's been answered already, but what exactly were you getting at with your original post Doc?

long story yo...

Short story??

Chicky wants a commitment after a yr. Doc doesn't want commitment and feels that time tables put on "talkin phases" are so old school. Doc feels it should come natural...basically the doc was trying to go against the grain knowing after a year spent with somebody if you not playing house together, its pretty much a done deal...

Chicky: 1

Doc: 0

 

[Tha Killa]

long story yo...

Short story??

Chicky wants a commitment after a yr. Doc doesn't want commitment and feels that time tables put on "talkin phases" are so old school. Doc feels it should come natural...basically the doc was trying to go against the grain knowing after a year spent with somebody if you not playing house together, its pretty much a done deal...

Chicky: 1

Doc: 0

Why didn't you tell her from jump street that you weren't looking for a relationship though? Had she known that, she prolly wouldn't have messed with you past a few months. What's the pros and cons of this chick?

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Why didn't you tell her from jump street that you weren't looking for a relationship though? Had she known that, she prolly wouldn't have messed with you past a few months. What's the pros and cons of this chick?

naw I told her...I told her exactly what was up with me...and she was still down

we got some similarities, sex game is crazy nice and cook game is proper...

but she's fiesty as hell, got a mouth on her, and she wants a relationship yesterday...

It's all good for her but I don't do that...so we parted ways...

 

[Tha Killa]

naw I told her...I told her exactly what was up with me...and she was still down

we got some similarities, sex game is crazy nice and cook game is proper...

but she's fiesty as hell, got a mouth on her, and she wants a relationship yesterday...

It's all good for her but I don't do that...so we parted ways...

Sounds like one of the chicks I spent my 21st birthday with a while back. She doesn't hate me yet, I don't think, but she kept tryna change my mind about relationships.

The thing about most females is that I think they want the feeling of being possessed. Both as somebody's girl (like "She's mine") and to be consumed by that person. Relationships are the highest form of intimacy and tend to stick so a lot of chicks see them as stability and feel that a man either is, or can be conducive to their growth as a person.

I say fuck all that shit altogether tho. Outside of feeling like I can trust a chick and the raw fuckin', there isn't too much I miss about being in a relationship.

 

[Black Boy King]

To love a woman is to roll the dice. them "afraid to commit" ass niggas are jus afraid to get they little hearts broken.

I'm really picky when it comes to wifin a chick but it don't take me long to realize if she's a good candidate or not.

 

[noirwar]

A year son??? 12 months? Christmas, Valentines Day and Thanksgiving? Cuffing Season and Smut Summer.

That's a relationship cuzzin. You wasting her time playing those games. Obviously you aint keeping it real with the "fuck buddy" situation otherwise she wouldn't be expecting anything more.

Fall Winter Spring and" Summerization" right here

 

[Bussy_Getta]

you the worst best boyfriend i ever had

 

[TX5GIN]

well a relationship aint for everybody.. thats why these hoes cant be trusted lol.. but i guess some of us aint making things easy for them too

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Sounds like one of the chicks I spent my 21st birthday with a while back. She doesn't hate me yet, I don't think, but she kept tryna change my mind about relationships.

The thing about most females is that I think they want the feeling of being possessed. Both as somebody's girl (like "She's mine") and to be consumed by that person. Relationships are the highest form of intimacy and tend to stick so a lot of chicks see them as stability and feel that a man either is, or can be conducive to their growth as a person.

I say fuck all that shit altogether tho. Outside of feeling like I can trust a chick and the raw fuckin', there isn't too much I miss about being in a relationship.

true dat...I'm not going forward till I'm ready...

Fall Winter Spring and" Summerization" right here

He's actually way off. Actually it displays my game is on point...but thats another thread...

you the worst best boyfriend i ever had

Pico, why did you just put me on blast??? You know how the IC is...smh

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

it's funny,..cuz guys seem to have a better grasp of the concept of compatability than women do...

cuz it's not mystey that most people just aren't compatable with eachother...

there may be many things they find attractive about eachother...but that doesn't neccesarily mean they should be in a relationship...because if they're not two people who mesh well together, all the attraction in the world ain't gonna make that shit work...

but for some reason, a large bulk of women think attraction + time spent together=it's gonna work.....

while men can be wildly attracted to a female... like tons of things about..spend crazy time with her.... but depe down inside..jsut know being in a relationship with her just isn't a good look....

it's like we can sense potential disasters....

now lots of niggaz ignore this for the sake of good sex.... but a lotta niggaz get the "afraid of commitment tag" unfairly...they jsut knew shit wasn't gonna work...

cuz every single time witout fail..women be having that salty face when they see their ex all boo'd up with a chick he knew for a few months while they put years of work in and got nothing...

Very well said post.

 

[BelovedAfeni]

nothing to it but to do it

 

[thecomebacklegend]

ts got fake cuffs for hoes

 

[Bussy_Getta]

cause im salty like that :-(

 

[bless the child]

Ah, Scorpio, no wonder why it so complex. I'm a Scorpio too and I approach relationships in a complex way myself. Not to the extent that you have though.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

ts got fake cuffs for hoes

lol!!

Ah, Scorpio, no wonder why it so complex. I'm a Scorpio too and I approach relationships in a complex way myself. Not to the extent that you have though.

yea I know...something new I was trying...I do admit my requests were rather peculiar, for lack of a better term

 

[haute]

ts got fake cuffs for hoes

Lmao!

.....

 

[yanniiiee]

I wouldn't be quick to jump in a relationship.. But I'm def not having sex with anybody I'm not at least dating. So i guess that's that.

 

[desertrain10]

I wouldn't be quick to jump in a relationship.. But I'm def not having sex with anybody I'm not at least dating. So i guess that's that.

yea i'm kinda the same way...

seems like theres a lot of men who want all the benefits of a monogamous relationship such as steady sex... but they don't want to feel inhibited.... yet the minute they find out their "jump" or "friend w/benefits" are messing around with other people then they want to cuff or put the girl under the impression that he is looking for a relationship to keep her around. lol...

which leads me to ask the question why are so many people especially men so quick to have sex with someone they barely know?

ok yea people should never jump into a committed relationship but wouldn't it also be just as smart and logical to practice the same prudency when it comes to sex?

i get it sex feels good and we all make mistakes, but as everyone knows sex can quickly over complicate things especially no strings attached sex. than you have to factor in the risk of getting burned or getting pregnant with someone you barely know .... i hear horror stories all the time about slashed tires or keyed doors all the time because a nigga manipulated a female into thinking he wanted more than just sex from her... and it funny cus men know most women get emotionally attached after sex... so its like is all the stress really worth it?

and this is kinda common sense but may be both men and women should start making better decisions when it comes to the opposite sex and start being more cautious with whom they chose to associate with, whether it be sexually or romantically.

...*ends rant* lol

also relationship sex>>>>>>