thecomebacklegend
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give that ho back 2 the game
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Young-Ice;3509385 said:one year though?
that girl prolly eating a tub 'o' ice cream listening to this right now
[video=youtube;yY3CehyfUko]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yY3CehyfUko[/video]
nope...she keep it her body tight
she probably got her best on looking to get somebody...it is what it is
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Dr.Chemix;3509419 said:hinting at exclusive...
She's been wanting that with me since the second month...not my style...
OK so you don't think you can continue to get to know a person when in a relationship?
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Young-Ice;3509469 said:he's yet to disprove this
What is with you thinking a man should prove himself to anybody?
Who I am is of no concern for you and any other sherlock holmes poster.
I know the answer to my own questions but the thread was created to bring about a discussion...
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taeboo;3509473 said:OK so you don't think you can continue to get to know a person when in a relationship?
of course, it kind of goes without saying...thats the continued growth process...
But I believe there should be "basic knowledge" already learned before proceeding to a relationship
It seems that "basic knowledge" is still being learned while in a commitment, which brings about many misfires or doomed relationships...
Things that should have been learned in the dating phase were never properly acknowledged
Because we are too busy concerning ourselves about the inception of the relationship, not how we go about nurturing one
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Young-Ice;3509581 said:you're clearly insane or some dumb religious head.
even when talking sensible to you doesn't work...
you just socially inept...
putting you back on ignore because I can't slap you...
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Young-Ice;3509638 said:You asked why a man has to prove himself to anybody
dumbest question ever posted on the IC
only stupid people believe everything they hear without asking for proof
and only needy women would let themselves get dragged along for a year
smh...lol...I sware you're a faggot yo...
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[video=youtube;gt3QLI3XYtk]http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=gt3QLI3XYtk[/video]
yo its crazy cuz i had this converstaion with this girl i vibe with very well jus now, like a few hours ago, n i was jus talkin jus to talk sayin "theres fuckin n bein cool about it, remaining frieds, then theres relationships which im not willing to do inless i get to kno u for a long time" then she asked "what would i be to u?" i jus said "i dont want our long friendship to be ruined because emotions got too deep" i dont wanna be friends after either, but then she said sex for her is a big deal n she'd have to see wats up
then we changed the subject
yo its crazy cuz i had this converstaion with this girl i vibe with very well jus now, like a few hours ago, n i was jus talkin jus to talk sayin "theres fuckin n bein cool about it, remaining frieds, then theres relationships which im not willing to do inless i get to kno u for a long time" then she asked "what would i be to u?" i jus said "i dont want our long friendship to be ruined because emotions got too deep" i dont wanna be friends after either, but then she said sex for her is a big deal n she'd have to see wats up
then we changed the subject
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longmeat;3510114 said:Going through something similar. Been like 9 months with one chick.
She leep asking me what we are.
I keep telling her NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP.
She keep telling me she can't accept that.
I keep saying no doubt.
Rinse, repeat, etc.
That shit cray
I know...I was going through that cycle for a little bit. Telling the broad to just enjoy herself seems to go one ear and out the other...
blackdemo;3510177 said:[video=youtube;gt3QLI3XYtk]http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=gt3QLI3XYtk[/video]
yo its crazy cuz i had this converstaion with this girl i vibe with very well jus now, like a few hours ago, n i was jus talkin jus to talk sayin "theres fuckin n bein cool about it, remaining frieds, then theres relationships which im not willing to do inless i get to kno u for a long time" then she asked "what would i be to u?" i jus said "i dont want our long friendship to be ruined because emotions got too deep" i dont wanna be friends after either, but then she said sex for her is a big deal n she'd have to see wats up
then we changed the subject
You see, you mentioned something I want to speak on. See, there's a couple of women that I chill with that I enjoy. The problem is, if I did commit to them, I know it would burn faster than a friendship would. Even though people lie and say they're friends with their exes, the truth is you two become enemies. I'm cool with one of my exes. But its every now and then check up call...nothing that says friendship about it. Plenty posters think I'm in it to hit them skins. That's not the case. Hoes are cheaper than before and I can get several for my pleasure. But I'm into making something last if I go to the relationship route. And it seems people just do things for momentary pleasure. I rather not waste my time. Never mind what a woman's mouth says, 9 times out of 10 they will go the opposite way of what they have said. "Oh I will be yours and I will be there for you". What's truly the difference between that option and now? Just the title? Because if you are my woman, you will naturally take that place because you were born to do so. We not getting married so what's up with the formalities?
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fullfledged
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t/s has a good approach. time reveals alot about a person. you get to find out who they are, how they live, and what they are about. a year is nothing in the big scheme of things.
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5th Letter
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Dr.Chemix;3509373 said:lol, commit?! Yo, why does it have to be a now or never type thing though? It's like the gun is to the head. Why can't we just enjoy the cruise on the way there
I ain't saying that it's a now or never type thing. you just want your cake and eat it too, all the times y'all been hanging out etc I mean how much more is there to know about her? You must don't really wanna wife her.
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this is just poor communication on both sides
Idk why she waited more than 3 months to make it known that she wants a relationship
and idk why you would wait more than 3 weeks to make it perfectly clear that a relationship is no go, she probably would've kept fucking you regardless
unnecessary drama yo
Idk why she waited more than 3 months to make it known that she wants a relationship
and idk why you would wait more than 3 weeks to make it perfectly clear that a relationship is no go, she probably would've kept fucking you regardless
unnecessary drama yo
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jamacia;3511476 said:I ain't saying that it's a now or never type thing. you just want your cake and eat it too, all the times y'all been hanging out etc I mean how much more is there to know about her? You must don't really wanna wife her.
lol, yo it isn't that serious yo...I'm enjoying life. And there's plenty to know about her. C'mon when you meet someone, you meet their representative who can be in business for the first 6 months of a get together. And its not about me wanting my cake and eat it too. Fuck the cake. If you knew me from the streets you would know that. The thing is I prefer a natural co existence instead of putting worldy rules onto a unique situation that cannot be possibly explained to the masses because everybody thinks with the same train wreck mentality. I cannot say it enough. Everybody does the same thing with relationships and they crumble the same way. Why am I being knocked for wanting to extend the possibility of our union beyond what is comprehensible to the everyday love me hate me scenarios?
haute;3511571 said:this is just poor communication on both sides
Idk why she waited more than 3 months to make it known that she wants a relationship
and idk why you would wait more than 3 weeks to make it perfectly clear that a relationship is no go, she probably would've kept fucking you regardless
unnecessary drama yo
naw b, you wrong...I'm honest with my women. I let them know what's up so they always know their position. I told her my unique perspective on relationships in the very beginning and have continually reminded her when ever the discussion surfaced.
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BlackThor356
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personally, someone who does all they can to avoid "labels" is jus as deluded as someone who does anything for a "label"
but as far as the T/S is concerned, shortly obviously hasnt done enuff to earn his exclusivity so why shuld he give it? maybe she hasnt done enough, maybe he dont feel he know her well enough. yall acting like he said he spent 8 hours a day for a whole yr with this broad. i can know u for a year, but only fuck like a total of 5-7 times, and go on 5-7 dates, within that whole year. then what?? im i supposed to make u my chick then? jus cuz it happened to be a year since i met u?
but as far as the T/S is concerned, shortly obviously hasnt done enuff to earn his exclusivity so why shuld he give it? maybe she hasnt done enough, maybe he dont feel he know her well enough. yall acting like he said he spent 8 hours a day for a whole yr with this broad. i can know u for a year, but only fuck like a total of 5-7 times, and go on 5-7 dates, within that whole year. then what?? im i supposed to make u my chick then? jus cuz it happened to be a year since i met u?
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mryounggun
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A year is plenty of time to decide if you want to be with someone. If you do, make it official. If you don't, keep it casual. If the person wanting the relationship can handle it being casual and enjoying the ride, cool. If not, bounce.
Niggas (and by 'niggas', I mean women - in 99% of cases) be trying to make it more complicated. It's checkers. Not chess.
Niggas (and by 'niggas', I mean women - in 99% of cases) be trying to make it more complicated. It's checkers. Not chess.
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If you made it clear what it was
Then one or all has occurred
1. She's delusional and hears unicorns when you speak
2. You weren't as clear you thought you were
3. You were clear but your actions didnt quite match with what you said it was
I just find it hard to believe you were crystal clear about what you wanted and this chick was totally oblivious and waited a year to say where this going
There has to be two sides
There always is
Then one or all has occurred
1. She's delusional and hears unicorns when you speak
2. You weren't as clear you thought you were
3. You were clear but your actions didnt quite match with what you said it was
I just find it hard to believe you were crystal clear about what you wanted and this chick was totally oblivious and waited a year to say where this going
There has to be two sides
There always is
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mryounggun;3513833 said:A year is plenty of time to decide if you want to be with someone. If you do, make it official. If you don't, keep it casual. If the person wanting the relationship can handle it being casual and enjoying the ride, cool. If not, bounce.
Niggas (and by 'niggas', I mean women - in 99% of cases) be trying to make it more complicated. It's checkers. Not chess.
yo for real b, I dig shorty...
but I'm not trying to see that ugly side of the relationship with her...ya know...those questions "why you didn't answer my text?" "where were you last friday night" "Aren't you my man?" "well why my girl seen you down at Chauncey's the other night"
I'm not trying to see that yo...because once "yes" is said to the relationship question, shit gets way too serious. I do mean WAY serious. I got ladies who are my friends, leaving me comments on the FB, I like having my own time instead of being with a woman 24/7. I like my space. Peeps get in relationships and act like you gotta be next to each other like you giving each other mouth to mouth every waking second. Shit gets old fasts...
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haute;3513867 said:If you made it clear what it was
Then one or all has occurred
1. She's delusional and hears unicorns when you speak
2. You weren't as clear you thought you were
3. You were clear but your actions didnt quite match with what you said it was
I just find it hard to believe you were crystal clear about what you wanted and this chick was totally oblivious and waited a year to say where this going
There has to be two sides
There always is
How is not impossible? You're a female, explain this to me. How is it not impossible that I wasn't crystal clear with her? I'm not bullshitting, I told her. I even took the time to explain what lead me to that point, that form of understanding.
I don't play with women. Now hoes, yeah I will play my games. But I give respect to a woman and I'm up front with a woman so there's no confusion. Communication is important between two people and I made sure to express my thoughts and feelings...
And I told her I couldn't offer guarantees because I couldn't. I might wake up one day and decide a relationship is the move I want to make with her or I just might continue on with what we were sharing. I told her these things. Again, I wanted her to know how I viewed the union. I didn't string her along nor did I say things just to make her happy.
Even your response got me bugged because even though I laid it flat on the table you believe that either I wasn't clear as I thought I was or she's just a dummy. Which neither are the case. It's the same as with the girl in discussion. Even though I laid it flat, I still can't win.
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