Why Are People So Selfish?!?! (the ho thread)

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Thats why i fuck with libertine women.

No money involved

No hypocrisy

We all know why we re here for. We both make sure that all the precaution are taken.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Also i do think that youre a hoe too when you use anything aside of your personality and physic to have some sex.

 

[Cunt_Lyfe]

This thread spawned because of the side chick thread. I saw women who talked bad about the whole concept of the thread, which is understandable.

While I have been guilty of this in the past primarily due to my youth, niggas to promote ho activity. They damn near worship the actions of hoes when it benefits them in some way. But have the nerve to talk down on the woman who is conducting herself as a "ho" would. Because women who portray themselves in this manner get so much attention, women who crave attention will mold themselves into this image, and niggas flock.

Both sexes are are at fault here. And ultimately, dues to selfish reasons such as inflating egos, or benefiting sexually or monetarily.

Discuss.

I have no problem with men promoting hoe activity, as I don't necessarily think there is anything wrong with a woman being a hoe if she so chooses. The reason men probably shit on hoes is that they don't know how to embrace their own sexual desires, so the hostility is projected onto the promiscuous women they're fucking/want to fuck.

 

[Crude_]

I like chicks who like sex.

I still believe that chicks who fuck for material things are ho's.

* shrugs *

so if she is fucking u and 3 other dudes too....she just a chick who likes sex?

There's a difference between being promiscuous and liking sex.

Niggaz be tryin' to shame bitches from fucking.

u didn't answer the question bruh.....

I like chicks who like sex.

I still believe that chicks who fuck for material things are ho's.

* shrugs *

so if she is fucking u and 3 other dudes too....she just a chick who likes sex?

The answer is "she's promiscuous". Some might refer to her as a slut / ho, but she really ain't a ho unless she fuckin' for come-ups.

with that said....would u wife a "promiscuous" woman?

Niggaz do it everyday and don't even realize it.

I stay seeing broads that got ran through here that move west across state lines or to another little town in the area and end up getting wifed by some other nigga.

Let me rephrase the question...

Would you knowingly marry a promiscuous women? Meaning a women who would have multiple sexual partners (2+) casually and think nothing of it?

Nah my ego probably wouldn't let me ever be comfortable with sharing my woman on a continuous basis with numerous different men.

With that said I don't knock women that do do that.

As long as you protecting yourself and not having dozens of chaps the government is going to have to take care of do you.

so u condone the actions with stipulations...what about when thats not being followed, and they are having children like that?

A lot of u niggas complain about the state of black people and social issues that plague our communities. And yet refuse to see how personal actions add fuel to the fire. This is bigger than the issue being discussed in this thread. Then niggas wonder why their sons and daughter grow up and act the way some of these kids do on worldstar do smh....

I do condone the actions if it wasn't for hoes a lot of niggaz would never get pussy I been saying that for years.

I understand how you are trying to tie whorish behavior to problems in our community but that's a bit of a reach to a degree.

There are plenty of hoes in the White community that don't get pregnant or have a lot of the social issues that plague their Black counterparts.

Promiscuous women been around since the beginning of time, but somewhere here at the turn off the last 3 out 4 decades social desensitized itself and a lot of women started flaunting being a hoe almost as a term of endearment.

The problem with Black society doesn't necessarily come from hoes, but rather unprotected sex and many young adults having kids before their really mentally ready to raise them because many have still yet to mature themselves.

@MansaMusa67

its not a reach....and im mobile posting so excuse me not being able to quote properly...but in ur post u are agreeing with my statement indirectly...

I don't even think u realize it.

U said hoeish or promiscuous. Behavior has become almost excepted. That is something i addressed in the op. Ad then said the problem comes from unprotected sex and kids having kids. But why is this such an issue? Where are the kids learning this from? Why are innocent children growing up in our communities becoming narcissistic sex crazed adults?

We have to address the root problems. And this honestly is a branch on a tree of issues.

You not going to stop people from having sex it's an urge that will always be present and its going to happen.

What you can do is educate people to make better decisions if or rather when they decide to do it.

You can go to any university campus and I will guarantee you won't see nearly as many women that have kids.

Why do you think that is? Well let me tell you why that is and its that people who are educated and make educated decisions tend to make better decisions for their long term well being than those that aren't.

This is not to say educated folks don't do dumb shit because a lot of them do, but I can tell you you won't see nearly as much dumb shit out of someone educated about their choices as you will see out of someone not as educated and very likely living in poverty.

Look around you will very seldom see educated career women having multiple babies by different men.

 

[Cunt_Lyfe]

If a female only had sex with 2 guys in her lifetime but she do it for a career motive or scandalous reason, she's a hoe imo, because it's really about the motive.. if a female have sex with multiple partners same time shes hoeing.. but if she had a couple of sexual partners who she had relationships or serious connections with and moved on for personal reasons, shes having a relationship issue.

I actually understood this point.

Interesting.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

This topic is always going like this cause we tend to Feminize the hoe character.

We live in materialistic society where the notions of CONSUMPTION, INTEREST , POSITION and POWER are championned. Aint no room for kindness cause you will be labeled soft , gay.

Men and women tend to get married less. Why? They want to consume each other. They like to change of partner like they like new pair of shoes ( for the most). Now when they think that they might not fit into this type of game anymore, they take the marriage route for SECURITY sake.

 

[S2J]

Its a test, duh.

We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')

And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...

A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta fuk them hoes just off GP...

this is true...but call a spade a spade...

It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g

A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.

You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.

As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.

You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.

u part of the problem bruh

I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?

Lol

But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.

There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

And disclaimer...im far from a woman basher. I thought of the topic because of another thread and women were being discussed. Both men and women are to blame.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

And disclaimer...im far from a woman basher. I thought of the topic because of another thread and women were being discussed. Both men and women are to blame.

Yeah. And the interraction of both creates that environment. Yet men tend to throw the fault on women. Its a deep psychological attitude tjat we have inherited from our ancestors worldwide. The women is the temptress , the biblical schemeress. We men are just FALLING into their traps.

Historically men are automatically forgives for their hoeness.

 

[S2J]

@mansamusa67

Dont lead this nggas astray:

"vowin to never turn sucker like these other dudes

misreadin signals, attachment issues

way too attached to the vagina lips

got homie searchin for relationships

she not tryin to hear it"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=gJpAR_YwrFU

Spitta aint neva lied.

 

[jono]

Who marrying prudes and virgins though?

Who gonna be that nigga to say he ain't marry someone else's jumpoff?

this planet big as fuck. chaste women exist...

...yeah somewhere on this planet, doesn't really help this conversation though.

With enough peer pressure and the right combination of liquor, drugs and opportunity that virginity is disappearing in the hood.

Who marrying prudes and virgins though?

Who gonna be that nigga to say he ain't marry someone else's jumpoff?

my husband cuz i've never been anyone's jumpoff

and lets not act like there aren't hoes out here who can't fuck for shit. promiscuity and sexual skill don't go hand in hand. you can be the biggest freak without being a hoe and not being a hoe doesn't automatically make you a prude

Oh I agree. I don't believe people should be prudes but I'm against wanton vulgarity as well.

When you have people whose concepts of sex come from pornos and overly raunchy music you have this problem.

Every nigga is "killin that pussy" and every bitch head game is "the bomb dot com" or whatever the fuck.

It's an issue of what is supposed to "attractive" or "sexy". The average nigga ain't out here checking for women in sensible shoes and pantsuits. They want big booty bitches that are damn near naked..and that is why we have the issue OP is talking about.

Even if she isn't a whore like that, she probably wears what Dave Chappelle called "a whore's uniform".

I don't blame guys though I think it's cyclical. There are a few naturally loose women, those women get a lot of attention and thus more women do what the loose women are doing to get attention because otherwise they wouldn't get any.

There used to be a concept that some things you didn't ask your wife to do you went to the "women of Ill repute" if you had fetishes or something, now the wife is expected to do everything and expected to do everything even before she gets the title of wife. So a woman now has not only got to buss it open for the husband but for the boyfriend because he might not get the title of wife without it, and now you gotta buss it open to get he girlfriend title etc it's a trickle down effect.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Its a test, duh.

We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')

And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...

A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta fuk them hoes just off GP...

this is true...but call a spade a spade...

It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g

A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.

You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.

As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.

You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.

u part of the problem bruh

I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?

Lol

But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.

There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'

i am that guy...and I dont have problem with it

All I said was treat women better and not like OBJECTS to fulfill selfish desires...and maybe these confused misguided women will change for the better. I didnt say smash on the hoe, and be nice to her...which seems to be ur issue...u wanna treaat a ho like a traditional hoe...smash her in private and then turn it nose up at her in public...which is ass backwards and detrimental to a society...

People keep talking about how hoeing been around forever....but whoees were not looked at as virtuous or desirable...like thy are today.

....

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Who marrying prudes and virgins though?

Who gonna be that nigga to say he ain't marry someone else's jumpoff?

this planet big as fuck. chaste women exist...

...yeah somewhere on this planet, doesn't really help this conversation though.

With enough peer pressure and the right combination of liquor, drugs and opportunity that virginity is disappearing in the hood.

Who marrying prudes and virgins though?

Who gonna be that nigga to say he ain't marry someone else's jumpoff?

my husband cuz i've never been anyone's jumpoff

and lets not act like there aren't hoes out here who can't fuck for shit. promiscuity and sexual skill don't go hand in hand. you can be the biggest freak without being a hoe and not being a hoe doesn't automatically make you a prude

Oh I agree. I don't believe people should be prudes but I'm against wanton vulgarity as well.

When you have people whose concepts of sex come from pornos and overly raunchy music you have this problem.

Every nigga is "killin that pussy" and every bitch head game is "the bomb dot com" or whatever the fuck.

It's an issue of what is supposed to "attractive" or "sexy". The average nigga ain't out here checking for women in sensible shoes and pantsuits. They want big booty bitches that are damn near naked..and that is why we have the issue OP is talking about.

Even if she isn't a whore like that, she probably wears what Dave Chappelle called "a whore's uniform".

I don't blame guys though I think it's cyclical. There are a few naturally loose women, those women get a lot of attention and thus more women do what the loose women are doing to get attention because otherwise they wouldn't get any.

There used to be a concept that some things you didn't ask your wife to do you went to the "women of Ill repute" if you had fetishes or something, now the wife is expected to do everything and expected to do everything even before she gets the title of wife. So a woman now has not only got to buss it open for the husband but for the boyfriend because he might not get the title of wife without it, and now you gotta buss it open to get he girlfriend title etc it's a trickle down effect.

i couldn't have said it any better myself bruh.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

"the hood" shouldn't be the measuring stick for anything outside of pickup basketball...

 

[S2J]

Its a test, duh.

We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')

And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...

A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta fuk them hoes just off GP...

this is true...but call a spade a spade...

It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g

A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.

You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.

As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.

You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.

u part of the problem bruh

I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?

Lol

But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.

There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'

i am that guy...and I dont have problem with it

All I said was treat women better and not like OBJECTS to fulfill selfish desires...and maybe these confused misguided women will change for the better. I didnt say smash on the hoe, and be nice to her...which seems to be ur issue...u wanna treaat a ho like a traditional hoe...smash her in private and then turn it nose up at her in public...which is ass backwards and detrimental to a society...

People keep talking about how hoeing been around forever....but whoees were not looked at as virtuous or desirable...like thy are today.

....

 

[jono]

"the hood" shouldn't be the measuring stick for anything outside of pickup basketball...

Why even pickup basketball?

 

[aneed123]

Every man's worst fear used to be unknowingly marrying a ho... Shit done changed niggas now marry bitches cuz they look good.... That's it no moral standards not if they could be a good parent just the fact they look good or is a dime. From rappers to athletes to regular niggas

 

[playmaker88]

"the hood" shouldn't be the measuring stick for anything outside of pickup basketball...

Gets it.

*daps*

niggas letting a caricature define our whole being.. but thats another thread for a nother time

 

[powerman 5000]

virtuous, desirable whores, huh? SMH... This is 2014. Bitches like to fuck just as much as dudes to the point were they'll fuck another bitch if they feel like they're missing something. They aren't this delicate flower that needs over seeing, they'll cut you up in a second. They don't HAVE to have sex with a dude, they WANT to

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and I got about 8 2013 articles on marriage/divorce rates in the clip ready if you want it so, don't even start talking like they're the victims of shit. Talkin about treat them better... smh... Bitch better treat herself better. She gone fuck anyway so why not you; who cares what her reasons are. Why is that so hard to believe that bitches like to fuck?

Boy...niggas in here coppin pleas and catching feelings...kinda like the woken would if I had made a thread bashing them...

I said BOTH man and women are at fault...

Ladies and gentlemen... Don't let your kids grow up to be a fuck nigga like this one right here. Make sure they can stand on their own 2 feet..... When they themselves say "DISCUSS" and someone brings real life examples and current research..... MAKE SURE THEY CAN HOLD THEIR OWN AND HAVE MORE OF A COMEBACK THAN "HE CATCHING FEELINGS." The shit is tired and wack. So you have a crappy opinion.... Big deal, you live and learn. You ain't fuckin stupid until you're presented with legit evidence and won't even consider it and you run to the lame catchin feelins bs. Especially on matters of personal responsibility!!! Someone else is always to blame, huh? With that said. I hope you find your desirable whore and have all sorts of virtuous whore babies....... (lol at desirable whore... I couldn't make that up)

 

[Trillaaaaaa]

Are only females capable of being hoes?

Or can males be guilty of being a hoe?

So we just going to ignore these simple questions?

To answer the question...yes...

I was guilty at one point and I admit it. But I realized how selfish I was being and changed.

Did you have kids before or after you had yiur hoe revelation?

Its a test, duh.

We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')

And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...

A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta fuk them hoes just off GP...

this is true...but call a spade a spade...

It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g

A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.

You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.

As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.

You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.

u part of the problem bruh

I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?

Lol

But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.

There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'

I treat everybody with respect