whats more taboo to you, a single parent, or a divorcee?

[Copper]

Not planning doesn't necessarily mean a mistake.

And contrary to popular belief, two adults who consent to raw sex does not result in a "mistake."

mis·take   

[mi-steyk]

noun, verb,

–noun

1. an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge, etc.

2. a misunderstanding or misconception.

according to the definition of a mistake...yes it is!!

 

[fiat_money]

yes I read it, ...

Did you really? Where does it say anything about a girlfriend/boyfriend?

The thread I'm reading is centered around comparing a custodial parent with a childless divorcee.

 

[birdcall89]

given the choice of a single mother or a divorced woman with no kids? nigga thats a no brainer.

im not about to play daddy to a kid that isnt mine. and a divorced woman normally gets half of her husbands shit. that means birdcall dosnt have to be paying for shit.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

mis·take   
[mi-steyk]
noun, verb,
–noun
1. an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge, etc.
2. a misunderstanding or misconception.

according to the definition of a mistake...yes it is!!

The act-sexing raw-is the error. So technically, an unplanned child is the result of said error. The child itself is not the mistake

 

[blakfyahking]

Did you really? Where does it say anything about a girlfriend/boyfriend?

The thread I'm reading is centered around comparing a custodial parent with a childless divorcee.

Fiat........you are well versed with logic my son

what is the taboo of a divorcee if nobody on this board gives a damn about marriage?

I know mofos ain't looking down on a chick that was in a previous relationship before

 

[Copper]

The act-sexing raw-is the error. So technically, an unplanned child is the result of said error. The child itself is not the mistake

so if I mistakenly leave my car windows down and it rains, the leather interior getting drenced in my car was planned or on purpose??

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

so if I mistakenly leave my car windows down and it rains, the leather interior getting drenced in my car was planned or on purpose??

The result of your error is neither of the above.

 

[Copper]

The result of your error is neither of the above.

so what would be the result of that error??

 

[fiat_money]

Fiat........you are well versed with logic my son

what is the taboo of a divorcee if nobody on this board gives a damn about marriage?

I know mofos ain't looking down on a chick that was in a previous relationship before

So when you said, "what is the difference? both are just as taboo to a young ass mofo", you were comparing the level of taboo between ex girlfriends/boyfriends and divorcees? And in making this comparison you're asserting that on this site they are basically equal? If so, and "divorcee=ex significant other", then one can conclude the thread is asking "what's more taboo, a single parent or an ex s/o". Sure, that's a rather one-sided comparison, but not nonsensical.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

so what would be the result of that error??

Repercussion
The course of things...

The results of a mistake are not necessarily negative.

 

[Copper]

Repercussion

The course of things...

The results of a mistake are not necessarily negative.

re·per·cus·sion   

[ree-per-kuhsh-uhn, rep-er-]

–noun

1. an effect or result, often indirect or remote, of some event or action:

...and I never said a child was a negative thing...but often in the dating game it is...

 

[D-Marco]

given the choice of a single mother or a divorced woman with no kids? nigga thats a no brainer.

im not about to play daddy to a kid that isnt mine. and a divorced woman normally gets half of her husbands shit. that means birdcall dosnt have to be paying for shit.

This man knows. But its the baggage, period that would be the problem. I get what blak saying. Because there's broads wit emotional baggage thats never been married.

But outta the 2 choices id take the divorcee hands down..

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

re·per·cus·sion   
[ree-per-kuhsh-uhn, rep-er-]

–noun
1. an effect or result, often indirect or remote, of some event or action:

...and I never said a child was a negative thing...but often in the dating game it is...

re·per·cus·sion/ˌrēpərˈkəSHən/Noun
1. An unintended consequence occurring some time after an event or action, esp. an unwelcome one.

 

[D-Marco]

you 2 are really having the Battle of Semantics right now. tomato to-matoe

 

[Copper]

re·per·cus·sion/ˌrēpərˈkəSHən/Noun

1. An unintended consequence occurring some time after an event or action, esp. an unwelcome one.

which is the same as a result of an error...

 

[marie addams]

im pretty sure she cheated on her husband...how u just got a divorce and already dating and "in love" with someone else??
^^ off topic. I know

she probably did idk thats here nor there. i'm just saying yes their son is in her custody right now but the media is labeling her a single mother as if the father just isn't in the picture at all anymore and I know he is.
she's a divorcee and they're co-parenting.

 

[D-Marco]

she probably did idk thats here nor there. i'm just saying yes their son is in her custody right now but the media is labeling her a single mother as if the father just isn't in the picture at all anymore and I know he is.

she's a divorcee and they're co-parenting.

I never know if the term single mom is referencing thats she's single and a mom, or justa single parent without the other parent in the picture.

 

[Copper]

agreed I was just venting @ marie

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

you 2 are really having the Battle of Semantics right now. tomato to-matoe

Duh! I wouldn't say that, it's more so me being technical as heck down to the nitty gritty.
lol. I was aware this entire time dear.

which is the same as a result of an error...

Lol
Do you know you are arguing my initial point now? Did you forget that I been said that? Lol.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

I never know if the term single mom is referencing thats she's single and a mom, or justa single parent without the other parent in the picture.

A single mother is usually referred to as the sole and/or primary caregiver for the child.