What to do when your s/o lets themselves go?

[blacktux]

This dude @thirdeyefive be killing the reaction game LOL

 

[CapitalB]

@BOSSExcellence‌ do you get in monogamous relationships?

Are you married or in a long term relationship?

Yes

And you find that being honest isn't the best policy in your relationship?

Sometimes. The male ego is fragile as hell.

Interesting. Your man holds a grudge when you tell him something he doesn't want to hear?

Yep

Oh...well damn. Usually, it's the chick that has to have shit sugarcoated. I don't know what to say when it's the dude that acts that way. Maybe it's the way you tell him shit. Ya'll can be harsher than we could ever hope to be sometimes. lol

Yeah I'm overly blunt and what pops in my mind is said.

I know one damn thing he doesn't withhold dick.

Different set of circumstances. You being slick at the mouth doesn't or shouldn't make him want to fuck you any less.

Him no longer being physically attracted to you on the other hand would have that affect.

That said, withholding sex sounds like some shit a female would do to punish her man. I've never heard of guys doing some shit like that because they are unhappy with their wives. Wouldn't it just be easier to suggest a healthier lifestyle to her. Start going to the gym together and eating better. That should solve at least part of the problem, and it would make you closer in other ways too.

nah playa..

thats what the prize of any relationship would do..

jus so happens that for the most part niggas be puttin these bitches on a pedestal.. so of course the pussy would be the prize/reward...

but on the rare occasion u have niggas who know they worth.. and thats why we're considered the "chosen few"

jus sayin..

 

[gns]

lol chicks be coming on this site and diss the shit out of their men

 

[Chi Snow]

Is TS gonna cheat on his chick or nah?

 

[Westie]

lol chicks be coming on this site and diss the shit out of their men

I didn't diss him. I said he's a little light skinned. That's part of the reason I love him.

Don't make me get mushy on the IC. I aint here for these cuddly feelings.

 

[gns]

but u did though.

wtf does a little light skin even mean?

cat is overly sensitive?

+ my post had a double meaning anyway dont know if that part applies to u as well

 

[Westie]

I've explained myself too much already.

 

[ms.jones]

I got grimy with it... Told him he was getting thick as hell.. When I give him a bj, I push on his stomach and tell him I can't get the right angle with this shit in the way... He's starting to walk around the park now and cut back on the snacks.

Baby steps.

 

[Bazz-B]

Just let her know how you feel, but be tactful.simple

 

[lostsamuraisotaku2]

 

[nex gin]

You have 2 options my friend.

................and find you one who meets and keeps up w/ your physical requirements....

OR

Choose wisely.

 

[texas409]

Thats what happened to my ex...she didnt wanna hit the gym plus she got some wack frohawk nappy kind of haircut had her looking like Baby Huey I was so embarrassed being seen with her with that wackness on her head so plus she wasnt a very good person inside so I kicked her weird ass to the curb and been happy ever since

 

[mryounggun]

Thats what happened to my ex...she didnt wanna hit the gym plus she got some wack frohawk nappy kind of haircut had her looking like Baby Huey I was so embarrassed being seen with her with that wackness on her head so plus she wasnt a very good person inside so I kicked her weird ass to the curb and been happy ever since

Mine too. Was together 8 years. There was plenty of other shit that caused us to breakup as well, but she didn't really give a fuck about even trying to maintain any physical attraction anymore. But was even more unattractive was the fact that she ain't seem to care, even after we talked about it and I was supportive with getting back on track. This shit caused all sorts of other issues. Eventually, it was just like 'Eh, we both need to just go our separate ways.'

 

[blacktux]

Man there are just so many other things you could withhold as a man.

If my dick not getting wet in a relationship, we not in a relationship.

 

[BelovedAfeni]

She has depression big bro

And it probably is job or life related

 

[Meta_Conscious]

if u don't care enough about your s/o to not hurt their feelings/ego, that shit aint gonna last anyway.

 

[gns]

Thats what happened to my ex...she didnt wanna hit the gym plus she got some wack frohawk nappy kind of haircut had her looking like Baby Huey I was so embarrassed being seen with her with that wackness on her head so plus she wasnt a very good person inside so I kicked her weird ass to the curb and been happy ever since

didnt she cheat on u as well?

 

[S2J]

It all makes sense now w/ @Westie‌ Lol No wonder she be givin all this skewed tough talk advice.

She wears the draws in the relaionship....He calls HER bae...he tells her her eyeborws on fleek (@eyeronic1) hahaha smh All makes sense now

 

[Westie]

It all makes sense now w/ @Westie‌ Lol No wonder she be givin all this skewed tough talk advice.

She wears the draws in the relaionship....He calls HER bae...he tells her her eyeborws on fleek (@eyeronic1) hahaha smh All makes sense now

Lol I said he's lightskinned not gay. And YOU talking? Oh ok

 

[Ajackson17]

@topoftheworld are you gonna let yourself go oncenyou get comfortable