What to do when your s/o lets themselves go?

[gns]

Thats what happened to my ex...she didnt wanna hit the gym plus she got some wack frohawk nappy kind of haircut had her looking like Baby Huey I was so embarrassed being seen with her with that wackness on her head so plus she wasnt a very good person inside so I kicked her weird ass to the curb and been happy ever since

didnt she cheat on u as well?

I notice you been throwing jabs lately....speak your mind

Lmao wth, bruh u told the ic this story, if I'm wrong I'm wrong but I swore u posted pics of the chick u described and said she was fucking around on u. I got no reason to talk dine(nh) bro.

 

[DarcSkies]

His girl is not depressed. She feel like she has dude on lock, so her real self is beginning to show.

Stick around long enough and you'll knock her up, if she isn't already. You thought that ass was wide now, just you wait.

You'll be the guy sneaking in comments to the slim chicks at the gym, hoping on of them takes the bait.

There is a correlation between obesity and depression though. Stress levels affect the way the body processes food which in turn may cause the body not to process sugar and turn it into energy like it otherwise would if said person was not under a lot of stress.

That said, that's where discipline and self-love come in. She may lack the drive necessary to not let whatever is keeping her down emotionally from affecting the upkeep of her body.

Dark, he said this was a gradual progression, meaning shorty had all the right weaponry in the beginning.

As time went on and he stuck around longer than anyone else, the habits that we keep hidden in the beginning started to surface. The effort she put into getting him began to wane, because, in my opinion, she feels that she has him. She doesn't have to put in that work because, I mean... He's still here after all, right (Hypothetically thinking)?

She gets any when he doesn't initiate sex. Why? Because that's all she reallyhas to offer. He cant talk to her about the issue he's having, can't do the things he likes to do, like going to the gym as a couple, and she is pretty much refusing his help as her man.

She's showing her aintshitness. A few have said it, we really don't know her or the circumstances, however from a very surface level, it seems as if she's a basic individual.

@topoftheworld‌ needs to be banned. Had me out here defending these hoes lookin like a damn understanding tender dick ass nigga. I posted up a fuck ass science lesson about chemical imbalance and how it effects the body's natural processing of foods and everything.

Meanwhile @msjones out here breaking down why this bitch aint shit step by step. And she stay in the gym so she knows a little something about discipline and dedication..

 

[topoftheworld]

If no change or she falls off even more, this may be who she is (that's not to say she won't ever change). Love her or leave her alone. You both will be better off.

Oh, i didnt catch this. @top so after sayin all that, how you add this lil smallprint? lol thats the headline! T/s, Top is politley telling you exactly what i just said. Be prepared for that L.

lol @S2J‌ you have to ease into it. it doesn't discredit the rest of my titangraph, tho lol

Lol Now Top, you know...thats the language of a trap. Even if she loses it now, She cant sustain that. One does not just stop napping and snacking forever. Thats her wheelhouse. That's what she do. She may lose enough to make him happy, then get married, and then its a wrap. She pullin a Dave Chapelle on him, 'gotcha bytch'.

People are who they are; consistent yet dynamic. In addition to subtle physical changes, I've witnessed radical metamorphic changes in people - there are no safe bets. the skinny dude becomes fat af once he starts laying up and eating two plates a night with his thickems. the super big chicks become thin bobbleheads in their 20s or 30s from exercise/diet or surgery.

only the t/s knows if it's worth it to take it or leave it.

 

[topoftheworld]

His girl is not depressed. She feel like she has dude on lock, so her real self is beginning to show.

Stick around long enough and you'll knock her up, if she isn't already. You thought that ass was wide now, just you wait.

You'll be the guy sneaking in comments to the slim chicks at the gym, hoping on of them takes the bait.

There is a correlation between obesity and depression though. Stress levels affect the way the body processes food which in turn may cause the body not to process sugar and turn it into energy like it otherwise would if said person was not under a lot of stress.

That said, that's where discipline and self-love come in. She may lack the drive necessary to not let whatever is keeping her down emotionally from affecting the upkeep of her body.

Dark, he said this was a gradual progression, meaning shorty had all the right weaponry in the beginning.

As time went on and he stuck around longer than anyone else, the habits that we keep hidden in the beginning started to surface. The effort she put into getting him began to wane, because, in my opinion, she feels that she has him. She doesn't have to put in that work because, I mean... He's still here after all, right (Hypothetically thinking)?

She gets any when he doesn't initiate sex. Why? Because that's all she reallyhas to offer. He cant talk to her about the issue he's having, can't do the things he likes to do, like going to the gym as a couple, and she is pretty much refusing his help as her man.

She's showing her aintshitness. A few have said it, we really don't know her or the circumstances, however from a very surface level, it seems as if she's a basic individual.

@topoftheworld‌ needs to be banned. Had me out here defending these hoes lookin like a damn understanding tender dick ass nigga. I posted up a fuck ass science lesson about chemical imbalance and how it effects the body's natural processing of foods and everything.

Meanwhile @msjones out here breaking down why this bitch aint shit step by step. And she stay in the gym so she knows a little something about discipline and dedication..

@DarcSkies‌ LOL @msjones is def on point... but there are many ways to skin a cat. nh

 

[Meta_Conscious]

some of y'all trying to hide bitterness and scorn with insensitive rationality... but do u...

 

[topoftheworld]

some of y'all trying to hide bitterness and scorn with insensitive rationality... but do u...

names.

nah, forget about that, dougie...you talking about me?

@ThirdEyeFive‌

lol

 

[DarcSkies]

His girl is not depressed. She feel like she has dude on lock, so her real self is beginning to show.

Stick around long enough and you'll knock her up, if she isn't already. You thought that ass was wide now, just you wait.

You'll be the guy sneaking in comments to the slim chicks at the gym, hoping on of them takes the bait.

There is a correlation between obesity and depression though. Stress levels affect the way the body processes food which in turn may cause the body not to process sugar and turn it into energy like it otherwise would if said person was not under a lot of stress.

That said, that's where discipline and self-love come in. She may lack the drive necessary to not let whatever is keeping her down emotionally from affecting the upkeep of her body.

Dark, he said this was a gradual progression, meaning shorty had all the right weaponry in the beginning.

As time went on and he stuck around longer than anyone else, the habits that we keep hidden in the beginning started to surface. The effort she put into getting him began to wane, because, in my opinion, she feels that she has him. She doesn't have to put in that work because, I mean... He's still here after all, right (Hypothetically thinking)?

She gets any when he doesn't initiate sex. Why? Because that's all she reallyhas to offer. He cant talk to her about the issue he's having, can't do the things he likes to do, like going to the gym as a couple, and she is pretty much refusing his help as her man.

She's showing her aintshitness. A few have said it, we really don't know her or the circumstances, however from a very surface level, it seems as if she's a basic individual.

@topoftheworld‌ needs to be banned. Had me out here defending these hoes lookin like a damn understanding tender dick ass nigga. I posted up a fuck ass science lesson about chemical imbalance and how it effects the body's natural processing of foods and everything.

Meanwhile @msjones out here breaking down why this bitch aint shit step by step. And she stay in the gym so she knows a little something about discipline and dedication..

@DarcSkies‌ LOL @msjones is def on point... but there are many ways to skin a cat. nh

True, true.

Spoiler

Off-Topic: Thats a brutal ass way to describe respect of other views now that I think about it. there are different ways to do a lot of shit. What sick fuck settled on cat skinning though?

 

[Darth Sidious]

This is a red flag.

Ignore it to your own doom.

 

[king hassan]

Lol at people thinking honesty is always the best policy.

Depending on how important something is to you sometimes its better to just lie to keep the harmony.

Man, speak the truth. I would tell my girl the truth and she'd swear up and down I'd be lying, shit was frustrating as hell

 

[Ajackson17]

My sedentary partner is coming over, each their own.

 

[FourEfil]

The contract is breached.

 

[Purr]

This is a clear sign of depression. You need to take her to therapy or talk to her about how she feels.

Constantly napping,bad eating habits, poor hygiene, and poor grooming is a sign of depression.

Your girls needs professional help ASAP. The gym, eating healthy isn't going to help her out of depression.

 

[FourEfil]

poor hygiene, and poor grooming is a sign of depression.

T/S your girl stopped following the hygiene way of life?? Breach of contract and sue for emotional distress

 

[deadeye]

You thought that ass was wide now, just you wait.