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2stepz_ahead;c-9825070 said:in 4 month...the novelty of the relationship didnt wear off yet...
yall both still the rep and not the real.
she got with you 4 months before graduation?
she already with the ex?
yoo...some much is going on here.
i hope you smoke weed bruh....but what do you think you learned from all this?
For the bolded, the most standout thing was to be more honest and forthcoming in the future. I was sitting on this disappointment for awhile. By the time I decided to end it I had not only wasted both of our times, but also misled her by going through the motions and trying to be subtle about things. If I was upfront at the beginning when I started feeling differently this day would have come a couple weeks ago. Everyone would have been better off.
AZTG;c-9825105 said:Yall caring too much over another persons feelings.
Shit happens, life goes on, everyone gets over everything. No need to stress over any of it.
That's not a good excuse to be uncaring. Everybody deserves the baseline of respect and consideration until they do something that shows they don't. I'm just trying to find out what that is.
I just read the rest of this shit. All this over a 4 month relationship? How you fall in and out of love all in 4 months? How she let herself go in 4 months? How her fam hates you so much in 4 months? How yall even dealing with them small issues in 4 months?
I aint a arm chair psycologist but Im pretty sure you never liked her like that in the first place. And idk how old you are, but you gotta stop dating bitches you dont like. Not worth the drama.
I aint a arm chair psycologist but Im pretty sure you never liked her like that in the first place. And idk how old you are, but you gotta stop dating bitches you dont like. Not worth the drama.
LUClEN;c-9825114 said:AZTG;c-9825105 said:Yall caring too much over another persons feelings.
Shit happens, life goes on, everyone gets over everything. No need to stress over any of it.
That's not a good excuse to be uncaring. Everybody deserves the baseline of respect and consideration until they do something that shows they don't. I'm just trying to find out what that is.
If you say so bruh. Im not saying be uncaring, purposefully hurtful, disrespectful and all that. Just saying be fair to yourself. End of the day, yall both equal humans, you really gonna try not to hurt a human and do things you dont too which is hurting you.
I learned to say fuck all that a good while back. I dont lie to chicks no more, keep it honest and upfront, and if they get hurt its their problem.
2stepz_ahead
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LUClEN;c-9825114 said:AZTG;c-9825105 said:Yall caring too much over another persons feelings.
Shit happens, life goes on, everyone gets over everything. No need to stress over any of it.
That's not a good excuse to be uncaring. Everybody deserves the baseline of respect and consideration until they do something that shows they don't. I'm just trying to find out what that is.
applause ....
you are seeking knowledge.
thats the only way to get better
2stepz_ahead
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LUClEN;c-9825081 said:2stepz_ahead;c-9825070 said:in 4 month...the novelty of the relationship didnt wear off yet...
yall both still the rep and not the real.
she got with you 4 months before graduation?
she already with the ex?
yoo...some much is going on here.
i hope you smoke weed bruh....but what do you think you learned from all this?
For the bolded, the most standout thing was to be more honest and forthcoming in the future. I was sitting on this disappointment for awhile. By the time I decided to end it I had not only wasted both of our times, but also misled her by going through the motions and trying to be subtle about things. If I was upfront at the beginning when I started feeling differently this day would have come a couple weeks ago. Everyone would have been better off.
the bolded is very powerful
1000 GOATs
Ajackson17
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Ignore her and don't answer her calls and block her on every social media and even close my social media and make up lies projecting my fucked up shit I did to her that she did to me so to make the transition easier.
Ajackson17;c-9825548 said:Ignore her and don't answer her calls and block her on every social media and even close my social media and make up lies projecting my fucked up shit I did to her that she did to me so to make the transition easier.
That sounds like a post that belongs in the "worst break-ups ever" thread
What did she end up doing?
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Ajackson17
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Rasta.;c-9823641 said:LUClEN;c-9823632 said:Rasta.;c-9823625 said:LUClEN;c-9823604 said:Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
You're an inconsiderate idiot
You're right. I should have just pretended to love her until I died.
Nope, but timing is everything kid. She's worked hard to graduate, let her get her moment in the sun an address the relationship after. Learn from it, cos you'll encounter similar shit in life
@lucien don't listen to this. You done the right thing.
Ajackson17
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LUClEN;c-9825552 said:Ajackson17;c-9825548 said:Ignore her and don't answer her calls and block her on every social media and even close my social media and make up lies projecting my fucked up shit I did to her that she did to me so to make the transition easier.
That sounds like a post that belongs in the "worst break-ups ever" thread
What did she end up doing?
If she approaches me in any negative way, I put a restraining order on her @lucien
Elzo69Renaissance
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I treat relationships like a job....gotta make sure u get fired to get unemployment
dnyce215;c-9825764 said:I don't get it, how you brave to ask someone out, but scared to break up with them?
I'm more comfortable wit rejection than with hurting a girl's feelings. I feel like a villain when they cry
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Sion;c-9825587 said:LUClEN;c-9825071 said:Sion;c-9825051 said:LUClEN;c-9823642 said:2stepz_ahead;c-9823615 said:LUClEN;d-558707 said:I recently broke up with a really great girl because of some small things. It had been piling up for awhile, and I didn't want to keep dragging her through a relationship where it was clear she loved me more than I could ever love her. It was on the day of her graduation, which I couldn't attend because of work, and I don't know if I did the right thing. On one hand, it makes sense to get it done as quickly as possible. On the other hand, when she looks back on that day, whether the videos or photos, she will be reminded of that break-up. I talked to some friends about it, and got mixed views. In light of this break-up, I wanna know what your guys rules for break-ups are? Where do you guys stand on breaking up through text, taking someone out for a meal to break up with them, keeping them on social media after a break up, and all that shit?
the bolded is your first mistake....
honestly...time to grow up bruh
we all have our hiccups.
breaking up thru text is bitch nigga shit. if you afraid of the girl....then how was you with her and going to protect her? thats not the man way.
why keep an connection immediately after breaking up?
you want them to see you happy or sad?
take them out to dinner? for what? to say...this aint working...ill have one more drink and you pay for your own shit?
if you had the day to spare.....that should be more important that you spend it with her..but if you broke up on her graduation day....just know...thats a time in her life she will never get back and your negative and selfish ways dimmed her light or tarnished her shine.
and for what.
if you ever get her back and you dont go 110%
just dont be surprised if she looks at you like a lil nigga
That's not a mistake. The little things make up life brah. The fact that she doesn't put as much effort into her appearance anymore, or that she gets way too attached, or that her family is super scrutinizing of my future when her sisters have married guys that don't even have half the education I have, can't be ignored forever.
If being grown is about handling business it would be childish to just trudge along in a relationship because I don't want to let go.
Naaaaaahhhh you're in the wrong here and need to grow up no diss. Super immature and wack. If you had to make this thread to ask the question then you know you fucked up.
Remember God Don't like ugly..... Reading this post tho from her parents perspective sounds like you tryna get your life in order and she's moving up in the world and that made you insecure. You could have had the conversation about her appearance and other things bruh but those things come with maturity.
You're making excuses for her failings. When a coherent, intelligent person goes out in the dating world it is a given that they should look good, not just for themselves but for the sake of others that have to deal with them. It does not matter if it's appearance, an overly controlling family, or outright clinginess, nobody owes anybody any kind of accident forgiveness, especially not after a few short months.
You're dead wrong on that other point too as I make way more money than her. She's 40k in debt and still looking for nursing gigs. I'm making 30k+ a year, no debt, and I'm the strongest and best looking I've ever been. If I'm insecure about anything, it's that the girl I was with didn't match my expectations for the kind of girl I think I'm capable of having now that all the pieces are coming together for me.
No - I'm looking at both sides of the story. You could have gone about things in a much better manner. That's your bad and maturity is about recognising that. If you made this thread then you know you went about it harshly, you're only trying to find affirmation/cosigns for your narrative that it was her and not you. Two wrongs don't make a right you said ? Well three eyes see further than two. You need perspective. It ain't about what you got, it's about respect and consideration - that's all we're saying.
You can't look at both sides by only reading my views. I think I could have hurt her less, but I don't think I should be stuck committed to someone when in the back of my head I'm thinking I can probably upgrade
Just came in here to make sure none of them scumbag niggas trying to give advice
Smh
Trollio ;c-9823691 said:Post her nudes so i can console her with this dick
Smh
Will Munny
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Just don't be a fuckin pussy and do it over text.
LUClEN;c-9825776 said:dnyce215;c-9825764 said:I don't get it, how you brave to ask someone out, but scared to break up with them?
I'm more comfortable wit rejection than with hurting a girl's feelings. I feel like a villain when they cry
I can see what you mean, but being truthful and honest goes a long way.
