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Sandinista
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Breaking up is hard regardless and there's little that can be done to sugar coat the fact that someone is getting rejected. HOWEVER as with all human interactions...it can be done with tact:
1. Never break up via text, phone or any long distance communication technology. It's fucked up...it tells the person they're unimportant.
Face to face shows respect. A lunch or a casual coffeee is the best. No dinner breakups.
2. Never break up on holidays or important days like birthdays. That goes without saying. Breaking up with her in her graduation day was a dick slap homie.
3. Be civil. No matter how angry you might be. It serves no purpose to ether the person if you're already punishing them by taking away your Love.
1. Never break up via text, phone or any long distance communication technology. It's fucked up...it tells the person they're unimportant.
Face to face shows respect. A lunch or a casual coffeee is the best. No dinner breakups.
2. Never break up on holidays or important days like birthdays. That goes without saying. Breaking up with her in her graduation day was a dick slap homie.
3. Be civil. No matter how angry you might be. It serves no purpose to ether the person if you're already punishing them by taking away your Love.
I didnt know if there were rules. If you gotta break up, you just break up.
Real talk though, she not gonna look back on her graduation day and remember that. In a few years, she'll get a man, be in love, and have 0 negative feelings of that day. You'll be a bookmark like man this asshole broke up with me on graduation day, but other then that, she wont be depressed. So its all good.
Real talk though, she not gonna look back on her graduation day and remember that. In a few years, she'll get a man, be in love, and have 0 negative feelings of that day. You'll be a bookmark like man this asshole broke up with me on graduation day, but other then that, she wont be depressed. So its all good.
confucius_says
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Damn, u broke up with her on her graduation day? That's some cold shit to do for some you had feelings for. Could of waited a week. I don't have a problem breaking up over the phone. Depends how much you care for the person. Face to face is best only if you don't have a crazy partner. Dont break up at your house. Dont break up in a populated area. Go to where no body is around.
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1- Gotta fuck the shit out of her one last time. But don't break up with her right after sex dummy. Fuck around and get a rape charge put on yo ass.
2- Don't break up at your crib. You don't know how she would react. She might wanna tear shit up.
3- If you break up in a public setting such as a date etc. , drive there in separate cars that way you can bounce when she start all that crying shit.
P.s. breaking up in a text is such a bitch move. Be a man about it.
2- Don't break up at your crib. You don't know how she would react. She might wanna tear shit up.
3- If you break up in a public setting such as a date etc. , drive there in separate cars that way you can bounce when she start all that crying shit.
P.s. breaking up in a text is such a bitch move. Be a man about it.
Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
2stepz_ahead
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LUClEN;d-558707 said:I recently broke up with a really great girl because of some small things. It had been piling up for awhile, and I didn't want to keep dragging her through a relationship where it was clear she loved me more than I could ever love her. It was on the day of her graduation, which I couldn't attend because of work, and I don't know if I did the right thing. On one hand, it makes sense to get it done as quickly as possible. On the other hand, when she looks back on that day, whether the videos or photos, she will be reminded of that break-up. I talked to some friends about it, and got mixed views. In light of this break-up, I wanna know what your guys rules for break-ups are? Where do you guys stand on breaking up through text, taking someone out for a meal to break up with them, keeping them on social media after a break up, and all that shit?
the bolded is your first mistake....
honestly...time to grow up bruh
we all have our hiccups.
breaking up thru text is bitch nigga shit. if you afraid of the girl....then how was you with her and going to protect her? thats not the man way.
why keep an connection immediately after breaking up?
you want them to see you happy or sad?
take them out to dinner? for what? to say...this aint working...ill have one more drink and you pay for your own shit?
if you had the day to spare.....that should be more important that you spend it with her..but if you broke up on her graduation day....just know...thats a time in her life she will never get back and your negative and selfish ways dimmed her light or tarnished her shine.
and for what.
if you ever get her back and you dont go 110%
just dont be surprised if she looks at you like a lil nigga
LUClEN;c-9823604 said:Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
You're an inconsiderate idiot
Rasta.;c-9823625 said:LUClEN;c-9823604 said:Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
You're an inconsiderate idiot
You're right. I should have just pretended to love her until I died.
LUClEN;c-9823632 said:Rasta.;c-9823625 said:LUClEN;c-9823604 said:Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
You're an inconsiderate idiot
You're right. I should have just pretended to love her until I died.
Nope, but timing is everything kid. She's worked hard to graduate, let her get her moment in the sun an address the relationship after. Learn from it, cos you'll encounter similar shit in life
2stepz_ahead;c-9823615 said:LUClEN;d-558707 said:I recently broke up with a really great girl because of some small things. It had been piling up for awhile, and I didn't want to keep dragging her through a relationship where it was clear she loved me more than I could ever love her. It was on the day of her graduation, which I couldn't attend because of work, and I don't know if I did the right thing. On one hand, it makes sense to get it done as quickly as possible. On the other hand, when she looks back on that day, whether the videos or photos, she will be reminded of that break-up. I talked to some friends about it, and got mixed views. In light of this break-up, I wanna know what your guys rules for break-ups are? Where do you guys stand on breaking up through text, taking someone out for a meal to break up with them, keeping them on social media after a break up, and all that shit?
the bolded is your first mistake....
honestly...time to grow up bruh
we all have our hiccups.
breaking up thru text is bitch nigga shit. if you afraid of the girl....then how was you with her and going to protect her? thats not the man way.
why keep an connection immediately after breaking up?
you want them to see you happy or sad?
take them out to dinner? for what? to say...this aint working...ill have one more drink and you pay for your own shit?
if you had the day to spare.....that should be more important that you spend it with her..but if you broke up on her graduation day....just know...thats a time in her life she will never get back and your negative and selfish ways dimmed her light or tarnished her shine.
and for what.
if you ever get her back and you dont go 110%
just dont be surprised if she looks at you like a lil nigga
That's not a mistake. The little things make up life brah. The fact that she doesn't put as much effort into her appearance anymore, or that she gets way too attached, or that her family is super scrutinizing of my future when her sisters have married guys that don't even have half the education I have, can't be ignored forever.
If being grown is about handling business it would be childish to just trudge along in a relationship because I don't want to let go.
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Sandinista
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LUClEN;c-9823632 said:Rasta.;c-9823625 said:LUClEN;c-9823604 said:Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
You're an inconsiderate idiot
You're right. I should have just pretended to love her until I died.
Hahaha come on now son. You could've lied for a few days. We're all men here. We lie to bitches all the fucking time but suddenly waiting a few days to tell the truth is a terrible sacrifice?
BiblicalAtheist
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The rule for any decision is to pick the option that will bring you the least guilt/regret. No matter what the choice is, doing that ensures the right one is made. Unless you're a sociopath and have no such feelings, but then if you were you most likely would not have made the thread.
Rules depend on the relationship and why the break up is happening.
In a situation where the person did nothing wrong in particular then all courtesy is due.
In a situation where that person is fucking up...anything goes.
Preferably do it in person, be honest, be CONCRETE in your statement (none of that backsliding or wishy washy shit), and be courteous.
In a situation where the person did nothing wrong in particular then all courtesy is due.
In a situation where that person is fucking up...anything goes.
Preferably do it in person, be honest, be CONCRETE in your statement (none of that backsliding or wishy washy shit), and be courteous.
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You really could've saved that for a better time. That day was about her, and you made it about you while simultaneously fucking up her moment. Take that as a lesson for the future.
Other than that, no harm, no foul. The biggest favor you can do for a person you're dating is to be 100 percent genuine about your feelings. Yeah it sucks to get dumped, but the fact that you're not trying to waste her time is respectable in the end.
Other than that, no harm, no foul. The biggest favor you can do for a person you're dating is to be 100 percent genuine about your feelings. Yeah it sucks to get dumped, but the fact that you're not trying to waste her time is respectable in the end.
LUClEN;c-9823632 said:Rasta.;c-9823625 said:LUClEN;c-9823604 said:Lefty_;c-9823593 said:Graduation day.......You super foul.
Am I supposed to pretend like everything is all gravy on her graduation, though? Give her an empty "i love you, too" when she says it to me? Smile in the pictures and fake it all for appearances, just to break up with her the next day? Something about being inauthentic like that rubbed me the wrong way, but maybe you're right and I gave too much weight to that shit and not enough to the importance of her graduation.
You're an inconsiderate idiot
You're right. I should have just pretended to love her until I died.
Or you couldve just been there for her cuz it was her day and then let her know after it was all over...Or told her beforehand what it was but u would still be there for support
My only rule is : Do it in person, that over the phone shit is for kids
