This is how yall niggas raise your son's

[blackrain]

lol... of course beating kids aint directly correlated with incarceration rates...
so the issue is the video and not the content? I can dig that...
but if ppl think this discipline is too harsh I dont know what a parent is supposed to do...

You have to discipline kids based on what works for them, not what best gets your anger out as the parent...that type of discipline don't work on everybody...I have 2 brothers and there's no way the 3 of us could have been disciplined the same way...our dad had to adjust what he did and how he spoke to us based on which one of us fucked up...you do that to some kids, it works, you treat another kid like what happened in the video and you just make them angry as fuck with no lesson learned

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

You have to discipline kids based on what works for them, not what best gets your anger out as the parent...that type of discipline don't work on everybody...I have 2 brothers and there's no way the 3 of us could have been disciplined the same way...our dad had to adjust what he did and how he spoke to us based on which one of us fucked up...you do that to some kids, it works, you treat another kid like what happened in the video and you just make them angry as fuck with no lesson learned

You hit the nail right on the head. Which is why I don't think punishing your child while you are on the edge is the best idea. The parent needs to really figure out what actually reaches through to the child, not which belt will cause the most amount of pain.

 

[Shuffington]

Wheres that one 5 yr old who took the SUV for a drive and ran over everything and didnt care about nuffin..

hahaha

Here it is

[video=youtube;qcqOgnQyXp4]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcqOgnQyXp4&feature=related[/video]

" I wanted to do Hoodrat stuff with my friend"

LOL

 

[garv]

While I appreciate the way he came to his son and how he sat him down and was actually taking the time to speak to him thoroughly and although I personally wouldn't cut my sons hair as punishment for very valid reasons, my issue with this video is that there was even one made for us and a million others to view and discuss. Keep your business within the home. As great as the opening saying is, that's not really how Western society works.

As for his parenting goes, his approach, and depending on the child, it can either set him straight or severely damage him. To say there is a definite guarantee is ridiculous. And it is also very dependent on the relationship established between the parent and child. Some children are obedient and don't need more than a verbal warning to reevaluate their actions and act accordingly. Some kids won't react to physical punishment and need toys and games taken away from them while others need nothing more than communication.

My friend (mind you she is in her 40's) has 4 kids. Because she never used beatings as punishment, the first time she did was the last. From then on the kids knew what it was.

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[damobb2deep]

smh.... people gone raise they kids the way they wanna....

dude did rite by my book...

yall dont kno what that boy did.... shyt i was burning down houses and freakin on hoes at his age...

 

[phantom0900]

I only find this a problem if this is all Dad is going to do to rectify the problem.

Like if he is on his P's and Q's as a parent then addition to the punishment, he needs to be in communication with the school. Find out what the problem is. Is it a certain crowd he's hanging around in (and im sure it is)? A girl he's trying to impress? Does his behavior shift during a certain class or is it constant all day? Is there a correlation between the boys performance in a class and his behavior (some kids act out in classes they're not performing well in)?

Not to mention re-asses his own parenting. Is he spending enough time with the boy? Should he be studying more with him? Do they need to talk more? Are conditions at the boys grandmothers house (assuming thats who he lives with) adequate enough?

....Because a lotta of Black People seem to only focus on one part of the equation (the punishment) instead of instilling values/skills and solving issues in a constructive, logical manner.

Niggas will spend an hour punishing their kids, but won't spend that hour actually sitting down and studying with them.

this dude right here summed it up. an ass whuppin by itself isnt enough, you have to put in actually work, time, and effort.

 

[BigMeatball]

Ah man! That's fucked up. Funny, but fucked up. He gave his son the worst punishment ever when he put this shit online. I bet this shit wind up on CNN and he have cops at his door soon.

I told y'all them people was gon get him.
http://www.jailbase.com/en/arrested/fl-occ/2011-09-26/devery-michael-broox-11037327
http://cdn.mediatakeout.com/51536/m...r-well-they-arrested-him-for-child-abuse.html

 

[longmeat]

I see nothing wrong with this. When I was coming up my pops told me probably the coldest shit I've ever heard in my life. He said when you were born and the doctor slapped your ass and made you scream, you signed a social contract with society. If you break that contract you're going to be disciplined. When I discipline you, you'll only cry for 10 minutes. But when society disciplines you, you'll be in punished with either the prison or the grave. I'm doing you a damn favor.

Also those stats in the beginning are total bullshit, but I'm not even gonna get into that.

 

[longmeat]

i bet he gonna get his daddy when he's older

daddy gonna be old as fuck

and he gonna throw his ass in a old folks home and make him sit in his own shit

Or when he's 30 with a degree and a nice home vs his old friends who are all deadbeats he'll thank his pops for taking his eyebrows off.

 

[longmeat]

At the bolded OH WORD??????

I not saying that I can do for my son what his father can...biologically, that's impossible. I can be his parent though. I do remember what its like to be A KID. I do understand that he will have moments of fuckedupness. I don't fully understand why he will scratch his balls, and then sniff his fingers, but I can ask him if he feels better. Yes, I'm his momma, and I'm a woman, but that does not stop me from being a good parent.

A good parent can and will have a relationship with that child that is open, and respectful. My baby told me about his wet dream, and how he banged a black and a white chick....I gave him the talk, and let him know what time it is...did I have to be his daddy to do that?

Do you really believe that by doing what his father did will keep him out of the prison system? Do you really want to take this conversation there?

As a man, yes, that's what boys need. Men don't respond to yelling and screaming. Men don't respect idle threats. Sometimes you gotta break a nigga down to his foundation. I remember back in the 90s my oldest brother tried to sag his pants. My pops caught him and told him don't let him see that happen again. 2 weeks later my pops caught him and beat the BREAKS off that nigga. Neither or any of my 3 brothers ever got caught without a belt after that.

There's a reason why the scariest thing you can tell a boy is, wait til your father comes home.

 

[longmeat]

or he'll grow up and hate the government for locking up and taking his dad away from him at such a young age for such a bull shit charge

pops shoulda known that shit was gonna happen. never do dirt in public, too many people running they mouth. niggas need to get together and make a free mr. eyebrows fund. get that man outta jail and get him on the road doing a book tour or some shit

 

[Igot5onit]

That's what his dumb ass gets. Why the fuck you putting you and your child's personal business on the internet for all to see anyway?

 

[beezy f baby]

kids needs their asses beat these days
i got plenty of ass whoopings as a child
i don't agree with all the extra shit he did but a good ass whooping was needed
my brothers and I used to get our asses beat with a belt we called that shit Old Leather...and when we heard that shit coming, my dad would snap that shit walking up the stairs..and we was running but my pops always caught us i'd be hurdling couches and shit lol

 

[BigMeatball]

As a man, yes, that's what boys need. Men don't respond to yelling and screaming. Men don't respect idle threats. Sometimes you gotta break a nigga down to his foundation. I remember back in the 90s my oldest brother tried to sag his pants. My pops caught him and told him don't let him see that happen again. 2 weeks later my pops caught him and beat the BREAKS off that nigga. Neither or any of my 3 brothers ever got caught without a belt after that.

There's a reason why the scariest thing you can tell a boy is, wait til your father comes home.

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[thekillingjoke]

When my kids acted like they didn't wanna pick up behind themselves and put their clothes in the dirty clothes, I made them put their dirty clothes in their bag, then I made them dump it all out and start over. Made em do it for three hours. Now they don't leave their clothes all over their room anymore. Whopping ass don't always work. Better they learn now from you than learn from a judge about to give em 3 to 5