The rising counterculture of being an adult without kids.

[7figz]

Some people believe that getting married and / or having kids is what it's all about but I definitely see the value in the alternatives.

Not everybody 'bout that (or want to be about that) marriage / kids life.

 

[Stew]

Yup, I've ran into more than a handful of women who wanted nothing more than having a family just to have a family. Imma need a lil more than that. I aint about that child support life.

 

[blackrain]

No children of my own= alot less things to worry about and spend money on. What I hate is the assumption because I don't have enough kids to play 3 on 3 basketball by now must mean I hate them and never want them at all.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

 

[Stew]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

What? Says who?

 

[Busta Carmichael]

 

[2stepz_ahead]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

What? Says who?

human and animal alike are put her to evolve.

animals learn and adapt but they learn from instinct and being taught. the elders teach them to hunt so they can survive and they they their young to hunt to survive. Humans teach our young to survive.

why have all this knowledge and not spread it to someone you raised?

why let someone else benefit, or why not let your bloodline benefit?

Shit, why not have a bloodline?

i know alot of chicks that wished they had kids...now that they are old an lonely or watching someone elses kids visit them on mothers day an shit.

i know alot of dude that wish they were better father...but none that wish they had kids...lol

 

[NoCompetition]

Especially in this economy. I cant fathom kids to pay for, spend time on, worry about. I chose this single childfree life and am very happy I did. For those that really have it together and have kids, cool. (Not the idiots). I aint judging. Not my thing tho.

 

[blackrain]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

 

[VIBE]

This is unknown to me.

 

[Stew]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

What? Says who?

human and animal alike are put her to evolve.

animals learn and adapt but they learn from instinct and being taught. the elders teach them to hunt so they can survive and they they their young to hunt to survive. Humans teach our young to survive.

why have all this knowledge and not spread it to someone you raised?

why let someone else benefit, or why not let your bloodline benefit?

Shit, why not have a bloodline?

i know alot of chicks that wished they had kids...now that they are old an lonely or watching someone elses kids visit them on mothers day an shit.

i know alot of dude that wish they were better father...but none that wish they had kids...lol

Yea I get the whole evolution thing but Its a fact that every person on this planet wasn't put here to have children.

You're a cot damn dummy if you force a child in todays world without having the necessary means to help them grow up. That's part of Americas problem now. No?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

im not saying force them...and i understand what you mean about not forcing people to grow up.

but maybe thats the problem. some people dont want to grow up. it should be a few people here and there....but this shit is rampant. too many people see the fun in not being a parent and dont understand the long term effects of what they are doing.

most dont want to see because they want to have fun, but they dont understand that you can have a family and have fun. niggas think fun stops at a certain age an they dont wanna fit into that category.

I also know people that dont want to have kids because of what they see other people go thru...without knowing both sides of the story. but yet they still go out to fukk chicks even though they see they homie gettin they tires slashed and shit.

while i dont fault people for not wanting kids....i just say have a good reason. i cant say whats a good reason.

maybe you know you aint shit...ok

but because you dont want to spend your money on someone else, so you can trick at the club...thats a problem.

but thats just me.

 

[SleepwalkingInJapan]

ima go ahead n let @stew speak for me in this thread...

anything i say would be an echo

can u hear me now? (can u hear me now?)

 

[2stepz_ahead]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

What? Says who?

human and animal alike are put her to evolve.

animals learn and adapt but they learn from instinct and being taught. the elders teach them to hunt so they can survive and they they their young to hunt to survive. Humans teach our young to survive.

why have all this knowledge and not spread it to someone you raised?

why let someone else benefit, or why not let your bloodline benefit?

Shit, why not have a bloodline?

i know alot of chicks that wished they had kids...now that they are old an lonely or watching someone elses kids visit them on mothers day an shit.

i know alot of dude that wish they were better father...but none that wish they had kids...lol

Yea I get the whole evolution thing but Its a fact that every person on this planet wasn't put here to have children.

You're a cot damn dummy if you force a child in todays world without having the necessary means to help them grow up. That's part of Americas problem now. No?

i never said force them to have kids....i see where you coming from with that.

i dont honestly think people think about what it is to raise a kid in this economy. they just dont want to dip into they personal money.

its more about wanting to live the life they see on TV.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Too many ppl claim they about that life.

There's nothing more precious and valuable than to have sumbody love you that you love back and both of yall r in love. The only way you could ever reach a higher plateu is to have child(ren).

Either that or you're standing next to tha God itself. But I betchu even God gets lonely and pretty bored

unconditional love it the best....if your raising your kids right.

 

[blackrain]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

im not saying force them...and i understand what you mean about not forcing people to grow up.

but maybe thats the problem. some people dont want to grow up. it should be a few people here and there....but this shit is rampant. too many people see the fun in not being a parent and dont understand the long term effects of what they are doing.

most dont want to see because they want to have fun, but they dont understand that you can have a family and have fun. niggas think fun stops at a certain age an they dont wanna fit into that category.

I also know people that dont want to have kids because of what they see other people go thru...without knowing both sides of the story. but yet they still go out to fukk chicks even though they see they homie gettin they tires slashed and shit.

while i dont fault people for not wanting kids....i just say have a good reason. i cant say whats a good reason.

maybe you know you aint shit...ok

but because you dont want to spend your money on someone else, so you can trick at the club...thats a problem.

but thats just me.

If somebody told me they don't want kids because they'd rather spend their money tricking at the club I say good, that's the type of person that doesn't need to be responsible for another human life. Why would you want somebody with that mentality responsible for raising a person in this world? Clearly their priorities and values are fucked up and those will just get passed along to their kids most likely creating another ain't shit person in the world. Sometimes being selfish can be a good thing, and in the instance of raising a kid if someone is too selfish to care about anyone other than themselves, they're better off not having a kid and being honest with themselves and everyone else about that being the reason.

 

[Stew]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

What? Says who?

human and animal alike are put her to evolve.

animals learn and adapt but they learn from instinct and being taught. the elders teach them to hunt so they can survive and they they their young to hunt to survive. Humans teach our young to survive.

why have all this knowledge and not spread it to someone you raised?

why let someone else benefit, or why not let your bloodline benefit?

Shit, why not have a bloodline?

i know alot of chicks that wished they had kids...now that they are old an lonely or watching someone elses kids visit them on mothers day an shit.

i know alot of dude that wish they were better father...but none that wish they had kids...lol

Yea I get the whole evolution thing but Its a fact that every person on this planet wasn't put here to have children.

You're a cot damn dummy if you force a child in todays world without having the necessary means to help them grow up. That's part of Americas problem now. No?

i never said force them to have kids....i see where you coming from with that.

i dont honestly think people think about what it is to raise a kid in this economy. they just dont want to dip into they personal money.

its more about wanting to live the life they see on TV.

Exactly. Its one thing to be "in love", both be financially straight and the next move is kids. Its a completely different thing to be lusting over each other and be broke as fuck or even on the come up, barely have lived your own life and thinking "we should have kids cause the rest of my friends are".

Unfortunately that's a real quote from a real human being female that I heard lol

 

[NoCompetition]

I think the economy has a big part to play. It wouldnt just be dippin into my money, it would be requiring money i dont have. But I never really wanted kids even when i was a kid. I realize some people do. Not my place to speak on them. Thats their business. Not my path. Like i see why this is growing because Im one of them.

 

[$ineedmoney$]

Its an abundance of Titagraphs in this bytch. Im out chief.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

if you dont want kids because you have goals, or are too young or not ready is one thing...

but for people who dont want kids because they are just selfish i never understood.

you are put here to pass grow, progress and pass along your knowledge and love so the next in your lineage can progress further.

too may people want to live it up and party without responsibility.

For all it takes to raise a kid, if a person doesn't want that responsibility they really shouldn't have it forced on them. Let that irresponsible person continue to be irresponsible. Nobody can be forced to grow up and mature, it's a choice and a child shouldn't have to suffer while someone is still in the process of making that choice or has already made the choice to continue to be selfish and live irresponsibly in terms of being responsible for the care of another life (their child).

im not saying force them...and i understand what you mean about not forcing people to grow up.

but maybe thats the problem. some people dont want to grow up. it should be a few people here and there....but this shit is rampant. too many people see the fun in not being a parent and dont understand the long term effects of what they are doing.

most dont want to see because they want to have fun, but they dont understand that you can have a family and have fun. niggas think fun stops at a certain age an they dont wanna fit into that category.

I also know people that dont want to have kids because of what they see other people go thru...without knowing both sides of the story. but yet they still go out to fukk chicks even though they see they homie gettin they tires slashed and shit.

while i dont fault people for not wanting kids....i just say have a good reason. i cant say whats a good reason.

maybe you know you aint shit...ok

but because you dont want to spend your money on someone else, so you can trick at the club...thats a problem.

but thats just me.

If somebody told me they don't want kids because they'd rather spend their money tricking at the club I say good, that's the type of person that doesn't need to be responsible for another human life. Why would you want somebody with that mentality responsible for raising a person in this world? Clearly their priorities and values are fucked up and those will just get passed along to their kids most likely creating another ain't shit person in the world. Sometimes being selfish can be a good thing, and in the instance of raising a kid if someone is too selfish to care about anyone other than themselves, they're better off not having a kid and being honest with themselves and everyone else about that being the reason.

i think your missing my point. we agree but i just think niggas need to grow up at some point. no im not saying to have kids...selfish is a good thing at times,its just everyone wants to be selfish now because the selfish niggas make it seem fun.

keep it real...look at reality TV