I can understand the desire to not rush into something, but if a woman shows herself to be trustworthy and perfect for you, I don't see why you wouldn't want to put a ring on her finger.
Marriage isn't something you rush into, and it isn't something to be done on a whim.
It's not like going to Best Buy and deciding to cop that 50" LED screen. Too many people think it IS, and this is why we have a 50 percent divorce rate in the US.
It's a commitment, and if you aren't ready for that from a financial, intellectual, and emotional standpoint, you don't need to get married. There's a lot more to being married than that license.
I can understand the desire to not rush into something, but if a woman shows herself to be trustworthy and perfect for you, I don't see why you wouldn't want to put a ring on her finger.
I can understand the desire to not rush into something, but if a woman shows herself to be trustworthy and perfect for you, I don't see why you wouldn't want to put a ring on her finger.
I'm all for people who are about getting married, but truth be told, the government looks at marriage like a business contract.To marry for "love" is a fairly recent concept. Every time someone gets divorced its literally like they are closing their business. And in closing businesses there are tons of legalities paperwork, etc as we all know. I'd tell anyone if you are considering getting married you'd better be prepared for a long term contract or just not do it. If two people are truly committed, I believe they can be together a live comfortably/peacefully/happily whether they are married or not. I personally know women who could care less about the wedding as long as their partner is committed and they get the ring. Screw the legal ish!
And gain what exactly? To me it makes perfect sense to not put a ring on her finger. That ring can't stop her from sleeping with the next man. Now you out $500 + dollars. But lets say everything goes perfectly. What exactly did you gain? Nothing. What did you lose? At least $500 and counting. Whether you realize it or not you in the red.
