So i hear step parents are mad because they have to be.....step parents

[rico_ENS]

This thread proves no matter how old how many kids a xhick have she still gon have that bird mentality smh.....

and ya wack ass old niggas cosignin haute log the fuk off....

Raisin ur own kid shouldnt get u props or a pat on d back cuz thats wat ur SUPPOSE to do but a step parent chooses to step up n perform a job the majority of us wouldnt do n for that alone they should get that credit....

And for ppl sayin dnt date single moms have ya niggas been outside? Find me a bitch over 22 wit no jits u cant....

 

[2stepz_ahead]

im not sure where you guys got she doesnt want him to have input ....thing is he wants the child to be just like him or do what he does...no child is like that. people that have children will tell you that their children aren't exactly like them...so why would he suggest the kid be just like him..especially if he doesnt want the kid around. she she lets him have input but she doesnt want him to go crazy with it

 

[blackrain]

That shit is hard to believe.

I mean I know I'm far from a perfect mother, but it's still hard to believe how callous and selfish women can be to the children they brought into the world.

Like this woman in Indiana that left her three daughters with a ex-con in an trailer park full of child molestors...who the fuck DOES that?? smh.

Women are human, they fuck up too...not every woman wants or deserves to be a mother...it shouldn't be that hard to believe that a woman can be a fucked up person...if you can believe it about a father, you can believe it about a mother...some of ya'll just choose not to and put women on a pedestal above men, in regards to parenthood, and that it just wrong

 

[kataklysm]

I feel bad for that child when they have one of their own.

 

[kataklysm]

Women are human, they fuck up too...not every woman wants or deserves to be a mother...it shouldn't be that hard to believe that a woman can be a fucked up person...if you can believe it about a father, you can believe it about a mother...some of ya'll just choose not to and put women on a pedestal above men, in regards to parenthood, and that it just wrong

It's not that I think women can't fuck up or be evil, it's just you just expect that nurturing motherly instinct to kick in..it's expected from women. People may hurt a child, but you just expect a mother to PROTECT at all costs. I know there are plenty of situations that prove otherwise, but it's just human nature to feel that way about women with children, so when you hear stories like Vibes it still comes as a shock...to me at least.

 

[blackrain]

It's not that I think women can't fuck up or be evil, it's just you just expect that nurturing motherly instinct to kick in..it's expected from women. People may hurt a child, but you just expect a mother to PROTECT at all costs. I know there are plenty of situations that prove otherwise, but it's just human nature to feel that way about women with children, so when you hear stories like Vibes it still comes as a shock...to me at least.

You should expect a parent period, mother or father, to protect at all costs...your wording is showing you think mothers somehow are "more connected" than a father can be...that's why you're shocked that mothers can be fucked up...parenting is a learned thing as much as it is instinctual...and not every mother embraces or wants that "motherly instinct" and rebel against it...

 

[2stepz_ahead]

This thread proves no matter how old how many kids a xhick have she still gon have that bird mentality smh.....

and ya wack ass old niggas cosignin haute log the fuk off....

Raisin ur own kid shouldnt get u props or a pat on d back cuz thats wat ur SUPPOSE to do but a step parent chooses to step up n perform a job the majority of us wouldnt do n for that alone they should get that credit....

And for ppl sayin dnt date single moms have ya niggas been outside? Find me a bitch over 22 wit no jits u cant....

good point.....but they are out there.....they are usually career driven and too damn money hungry or controlling to have kids or they deal with someone that can provide them with the glamourous life they are chasing....they are usually the ladies that realize at 40 that life has passed them by an it all wasnt worth it

 

[blackrain]

This thread proves no matter how old how many kids a xhick have she still gon have that bird mentality smh.....

and ya wack ass old niggas cosignin haute log the fuk off....

Raisin ur own kid shouldnt get u props or a pat on d back cuz thats wat ur SUPPOSE to do but a step parent chooses to step up n perform a job the majority of us wouldnt do n for that alone they should get that credit....

And for ppl sayin dnt date single moms have ya niggas been outside? Find me a bitch over 22 wit no jits u cant....

It's plenty women in their 20's w/o kids...i've yet to date a woman who had a kid or kids and i'm 26...

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Define "going crazy with it."

If that means she doesn't want him to act like he's the kid's father that's kinda fucked up since she's married to dude and her kid...soon to be kids... are living under his roof.

Also, what does your boy think about what people have been saying about his situation?

by crazy i mean...if the kids forgets to shut his door to his room before he goes to school ..he may get a beating. that shit is crazy. everyone tells him his anger is coming from somewhere else an hes using the kid to take it out on for some reason. as a parent or step parent ....all punishments given out should fit the crime....but if you always want to beat the kid for little shit....big shit wont scare him cause hes used to the beatings. beside he will grow to resent the step parent or the parent for allowing the situation. and whats gonna happen when the other kid comes to live with them.

i always said to just leave her alone an dont deal with it...but if he wants to stay then he has to act like he has some sense

 

[2stepz_ahead]

what he said,

also how old was the child when they got together?

the kid was i think 5 when they got together...maybe 4 and this was like 3-4 yrs ago

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I feel bad for that child when they have one of their own.

that when the term"being treated like a step-child" will come into play

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Is the biological father in the picture at all?

dude is a dikkhead....lets just leave it at that

 

[kataklysm]

Ugh..we're going to end up seeing this dude on the news. Another child falling victim to their mother's crazy ass boyfriend/husband.

 

[Gnawledgeable]

Single mothers, that's mostly what it is out here and it's disgusting. Why should I be with someone who was stupid to let a broke, no good, lazy, lame nigga get her knocked up? Well I'm a hypocrite if I still be fuckin' them but that's all it is.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

bump....

nigga broke up with the chick.....lol

and wants to be in the kids life now

 

[AZTG]

bump....

nigga broke up with the chick.....lol

and wants to be in the kids life now

Wtf? I aint read nothing but op and this post. Your boy stupid as fuck.

 

[VIBE]

bump....

nigga broke up with the chick.....lol

and wants to be in the kids life now

 

[mryounggun]

This is a conversation you should have before moving in together. 'How much are you expecting to contribute to the parenting duties for your kid?'.

 

[Mister B.]

Fuck-a stepchild.

All the work, NONE of the thanks (unless you've started raising them when they were infants).

Never, EVER would I cuff a chick with kids. Don't need those problems. Homie should've known that, too.

Your boy fucked up. And if he's reading this: yeah, negro....you fucked up. Deal or get out.

 

[xxCivicxx]

bump....

nigga broke up with the chick.....lol

and wants to be in the kids life now

Foolish. This nigga is gonna end up paying child support watch