So i hear step parents are mad because they have to be.....step parents

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I would not date a single parent, unless she gives me the space to be a real father.

Not a father of conveniece.

Not a "dont do this/dont say that/be like this with the child type shit.
 
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bignorm73;3983931 said:
Moms get 1000% more thanks than dads. Dont start that bs.

Oh for real? And who is thanking me exactly? Maybe I'm not listening.

I'm not even expecting a thank you though..that will come when she gets older. Plus her sweet moments make all of it worth it.
 
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My moms ex was like this in a way, he said he wished my sister and I were dead. We always fuck everything up, he was a control monster.

Although I learned some things from him that were positive, he was mostly a negative person. We had our times we got along but everything was our faults and we hated him and he hated us. I told him one day that I was gonna kill him in his sleep, he laughed.

But in the end he was fucked when I told my mom he was cheating and he laid on the floor crying because she was gonna divorce him. (and she did)

When someone doesn't like the kid or feel responsible, they'll blame that kid for all the problems and talk down on them, I experienced it so this chick has gotta go.
 
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kataklysm;3983932 said:
lol..yeah I did, just like you chose to wife up a woman that made the same choice.

When did you become a stepdaddy though? Was there a secret wedding I don't know about?

when did become a stepdaddy?

I'm still a single father shopping for a wife on the IC :(
 
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I'm always confused when dudes get aggy about single mothers

as if it's some law that you must fuck a bitch with a kid

stop thinking with your dick and you'll be alright
 
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VIBE86;3983961 said:
My moms ex was like this in a way, he said he wished my sister and I were dead. We always fuck everything up, he was a control monster.

Although I learned some things from him that were positive, he was mostly a negative person. We had our times we got along but everything was our faults and we hated him and he hated us. I told him one day that I was gonna kill him in his sleep, he laughed.

But in the end he was fucked when I told my mom he was cheating and he laid on the floor crying because she was gonna divorce him. (and she did)

When someone doesn't like the kid or feel responsible, they'll blame that kid for all the problems and talk down on them, I experienced it so this chick has gotta go.

smh @ it taking him cheating for your mom to divorce him. I guess her children being verbally abused wasn't enough for her..no offense.
 
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blakfyahking;3983966 said:
when did become a stepdaddy?

I'm still a single father shopping for a wife on the IC :(

lol..I guess I misread your post.

as a stepparent, it's truly a thankless job................that's why the ones who do troop it deserve the applause
 
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chicitylepio;3983977 said:
Agreed

See below post.....

Tho I wish someone would call me a 'step' parent.

I'm in my childrens life 24/7 so to them, I'm Daddy, not 'step' father/daddy

smmfh.

+5 points

You're nearly off my shit list after this post...aww.
 
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kataklysm;3983949 said:
Oh for real? And who is thanking me exactly? Maybe I'm not listening.

I'm not even expecting a thank you though..that will come when she gets older. Plus her sweet moments make all of it worth it.

Who is thanking the father?

What about the treatment of Mother's Day as compared to Father's day.

What about all this "being a mom is the hardest job in the world" stuff?

As if billions of women throughout history have not successfully handled this job.

Never has a job been done by so many, yet treated as if so few have accomplished it.

I know you cant see this video, but its funny.

[video=youtube;VgJ-vsLKNDA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgJ-vsLKNDA[/video]
 
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kataklysm;3983976 said:
smh @ it taking him cheating for your mom to divorce him. I guess her children being verbally abused wasn't enough for her..no offense.

No offense taken, I agree. He was verbally, physically and mentally abusive to my mom. We watched him choke her out, I'd run up and pull him off and he'd leave but threaten me and my mom.

Really, she said she was gonna divorce him and it took a while, the only reason she went through w it was because she found a "Christian" man who persuaded her to divorce him. That led to the divorce and 4 years of being a meth head w the guy she left her ex for (main reason for the divorce, cheating was just the push)

My mother is a whore, her life is always about men. She was a meth head for 4 years,.

I hate her now, I dispose her bitch add. She ruined everything good about her and showed how weak minded she is. She's a very weak minded person. She's now in Vegas living w another guy, who's Mormon and she thinks she's now Mormon after being Christian since she was a kid.

During the time she was on drugs me and her ex (ex step father) talked shit out, we seen how our actions were stupid and squashed all the hate. Then wr both proceeded to try to fight her meth BF at the time.

She clean now but I hardly talk to her even though she texts me a lot..
 
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sboogie;3984017 said:
lets be fair though...
it aint about thinking with your dick... there are single mothers with shit going for themselves and who are otherwise appealing... if you've never dealt with being a "step parent" you wouldn't know that it was a horrible proposition...
can we really be mad at a man who just wanted to TRY to be a stand up dude? a lot of these kids need "step parents"... but these chicks make it impossible...

lol being a step parent does not make you "stand up" or "good" anything, it just means your willing to be around some kids

sorry but choosing to be a parent isn't something that deserves that much praise, its called a life choice

just like moving in with someone, or proposing, or any other BIG life decision, it's up to you to do some research and do what makes you happy, and live with any consequences from what you didn't know or choose not to take the time to figure out

but that playing the victim shit, because you made a the wrong move and loss is weak to me

just move on and make better decisions, no demonizing the opposite sex is needed
 
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VIBE86;3984044 said:
No offense taken, I agree. He was verbally, physically and mentally abusive to my mom. We watched him choke her out, I'd run up and pull him off and he'd leave but threaten me and my mom.

Really, she said she was gonna divorce him and it took a while, the only reason she went through w it was because she found a "Christian" man who persuaded her to divorce him. That led to the divorce and 4 years of being a meth head w the guy she left her ex for (main reason for the divorce, cheating was just the push)

My mother is a whore, her life is always about men. She was a meth head for 4 years,.

I hate her now, I dispose her bitch add. She ruined everything good about her and showed how weak minded she is. She's a very weak minded person. She's now in Vegas living w another guy, who's Mormon and she thinks she's now Mormon after being Christian since she was a kid.

During the time she was on drugs me and her ex (ex step father) talked shit out, we seen how our actions were stupid and squashed all the hate. Then wr both proceeded to try to fight her meth BF at the time.

She clean now but I hardly talk to her even though she texts me a lot..

Wow. And some women on here (Kat) thinks that men need women, not the other way around.

Thats sad man. Props to you for surviving that.
 
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That nigga is automatically at fault for dating a bitch with a kid.

"You lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas."
^^Assuming the dogs have fleas to begin with.

SMH @ A nigga complaining about the fleas making him itch, like that's not what fleas do.

fleas=kids

Ayo fiat post that "single mothers" pic.
 
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bignorm73;3984018 said:
Who is thanking the father?

What about the treatment of Mother's Day as compared to Father's day.

What about all this "being a mom is the hardest job in the world" stuff?

As if billions of women throughout history have not successfully handled this job.

Never has a job been done by so many, yet treated as if so few have accomplished it.

I know you cant see this video, but its funny.

[video=youtube;VgJ-vsLKNDA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgJ-vsLKNDA[/video]

Dang homey! I just made a general comment and you went off! lmao

I can only speak on the role of mother since that's what I am..I was in no way trying to slight fathers across the world with my comment.

That said, a recent study proved that women work way harder than dads on average. :(

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_...harder-than-dads-multitasking-study-says-yes/
 
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kataklysm;3984082 said:
Dang homey! I just made a general comment and you went off! lmao

I can only speak on the role of mother since that's what I am..I was in no way trying to slight fathers across the world with my comment.

That said, a recent study proved that women work way harder than dads on average. :(

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_...harder-than-dads-multitasking-study-says-yes/

Study is bullshit. Men spend less time multitasking because we are more effective at it.

Like this sentence:

The study also showed that working moms find multitasking a lot more unpleasant than working dads do. Maybe that's because of the sorts of tasks working moms take on.

My take on it, men dont find multitasking as something they should not be doing. So we dont complain about it.
 
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fiat_money;3984079 said:
That nigga is automatically at fault for dating a bitch with a kid.

"You lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas."
^^Assuming the dogs have fleas to begin with.

SMH @ A nigga complaining about the fleas making him itch, like that's not what fleas do.

fleas=kids

Ayo fiat post that "single mothers" pic
.
I got you bruh:nh
mSARk.png
 
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VIBE86;3984044 said:
No offense taken, I agree. He was verbally, physically and mentally abusive to my mom. We watched him choke her out, I'd run up and pull him off and he'd leave but threaten me and my mom.

Really, she said she was gonna divorce him and it took a while, the only reason she went through w it was because she found a "Christian" man who persuaded her to divorce him. That led to the divorce and 4 years of being a meth head w the guy she left her ex for (main reason for the divorce, cheating was just the push)

My mother is a whore, her life is always about men. She was a meth head for 4 years,.

I hate her now, I dispose her bitch add. She ruined everything good about her and showed how weak minded she is. She's a very weak minded person. She's now in Vegas living w another guy, who's Mormon and she thinks she's now Mormon after being Christian since she was a kid.

During the time she was on drugs me and her ex (ex step father) talked shit out, we seen how our actions were stupid and squashed all the hate. Then wr both proceeded to try to fight her meth BF at the time.

She clean now but I hardly talk to her even though she texts me a lot..

Jesus...I'm glad you seemed to turn out pretty level-headed despite all that.

bignorm73;3984091 said:
Study is bullshit. Men spend less time multitasking because we are more effective at it.

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. *shaq face*
 
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kataklysm;3983903 said:
Delusional post.

Don't want kids, don't date single parents...the end.

Not delusional, real life...

here's a better one... don't have kids...and if you do, raise them by yourself....

no one told you to have unprotected sex with someone who's not gonna be around...

and if you do happen to find some sap who is willing to raise someone else's mistake, praise them!

Couldn't be me
 
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