Kwan Dai;8467801 said:
jono;8467779 said:
Kwan Dai;8467749 said:
jono;8467701 said:
You don't let students make rules. She broke rules, there are consequences for that. I don't see how having MULTIPLE adults ask you the same thing is being inflexible, if anything it only shows the stubbornness of the child. If your child is being taught not to follow rules or authority other than yours then keep em at home.
Teachers are already too close to just being high paid babysitters. One kid doesn't get to be obstinate and change the power dynamics of the school. No authority means no rules and at that point everybody might as well do what they want to.
You obviously haven't been following the story. If, you are immediately skipping past vital points in the incident. Such, as, the student pleaded and BEGGED the teacher politely to overlook her phone usage as it was only for a moment. The teacher refused so, fuck him and fuck you for being intolerable jackasses unable to overlook a minor offense that didn't interrupt or distract anyone else in the class room.
Thats all well and good but its still rules. An asshole in the right is an asshole in the right.
More importantly this was easily resolved by giving the student a zero for participation. Confiscating her phone, calling an admin, forcing her to leave the class is ALL excessive. But uncreative, lame, teachers only there for a pay check who are more then likely failures at life tend to make issues bigger then they really are.
Again an asshole in the right is an asshole in the right. She can negotiate but as an adult you shouldn't even be arguing with kids, you give a directive and thats it.
I have two HS children both whom excel academically and they do so, because, my wife and I are their true teachers. During their academic career they have maybe had 3 Great teachers who dedicated to GROWING children. The rest were garbage.
I don't know whether the teacher was any good or not but its not relevant anyway. What is relevant is that the teacher gave a directive and the student should have followed it.
Its simple adult-child relationship. Should the teacher have been cool and let it slide? Maybe but she isn't under any obligation to be cool or chummy with kids.
It's not about being cool or chummy. It's about being fair and compassionate. A negotiation isn't an argument nor is, the a plead for someone to show compassion.
Problem is, the teacher was wrong. Nothing the teacher did in the situation was correct. I repeat a ZERO for participation would have sufficed.
The obligation to be cool isn't there. Im not saying your wrong. But the teacher didnt touch the kid. The teacher gave a directive, the kid refused, the teacher kicked the complaint up the ladder, at that point she surrendered authority to someone else and that continues until this happened.
numbaz...80's baby;8467800 said:
jono;8467779 said:
Kwan Dai;8467749 said:
jono;8467701 said:
You don't let students make rules. She broke rules, there are consequences for that. I don't see how having MULTIPLE adults ask you the same thing is being inflexible, if anything it only shows the stubbornness of the child. If your child is being taught not to follow rules or authority other than yours then keep em at home.
Teachers are already too close to just being high paid babysitters. One kid doesn't get to be obstinate and change the power dynamics of the school. No authority means no rules and at that point everybody might as well do what they want to.
You obviously haven't been following the story. If, you are immediately skipping past vital points in the incident. Such, as, the student pleaded and BEGGED the teacher politely to overlook her phone usage as it was only for a moment. The teacher refused so, fuck him and fuck you for being intolerable jackasses unable to overlook a minor offense that didn't interrupt or distract anyone else in the class room.
Thats all well and good but its still rules. An asshole in the right is an asshole in the right.
More importantly this was easily resolved by giving the student a zero for participation. Confiscating her phone, calling an admin, forcing her to leave the class is ALL excessive. But uncreative, lame, teachers only there for a pay check who are more then likely failures at life tend to make issues bigger then they really are.
Again an asshole in the right is an asshole in the right. She can negotiate but as an adult you shouldn't even be arguing with kids, you give a directive and thats it.
I have two HS children both whom excel academically and they do so, because, my wife and I are their true teachers. During their academic career they have maybe had 3 Great teachers who dedicated to GROWING children. The rest were garbage.
I don't know whether the teacher was any good or not but its not relevant anyway. What is relevant is that the teacher gave a directive and the student should have followed it.
Its simple adult-child relationship. Should the teacher have been cool and let it slide? Maybe but she isn't under any obligation to be cool or chummy with kids.
So what happen to calling the parents, detention, suspension & expulsion? We just skip this process in the classroom now? It's just get out or get your ass kicked & go to jail?
Don't forget we're talking about a phone. No violence, no stealing.....a phone.
The rightness or wrongness of the situation isn't up for debate in my opinion. Im against even parents bullying their kids but a level of authority has to be maintained or this whole shit is void.
What is the purpose of having an adult in the room with no authority?
They certainly could have called the parents and it was really the only recourse they had but at the same time if only the parents can control a child then that child needs to be kept at home.