Pros / Cons About Marriage

[aneed123]

I mean lets be real for a second, we always hear the negstives and never the positived. Not just about marriage or hoes cheating, but with just about everything.

Its more good people in the world then bad, and its more good stories than bad.

The bad stories always take more of a toll though, its just the human condition. Hard to stay sane over it all, but what happens happens

Naw homie i learned years ago the world evil ... good people with morals aren't the norm

one of my old heads asked

if I was a good person having a bad days

or a bad person having a good days

shit had me thinking.

but it's more vain, ego driven, selfish people out there.

I'm a good person by nature. Shit be frustrating as hell once I realized people don't really care about u. Lil shit like compassion or remembering folk and friends bdays or doing stuff outta kindness not wanting stuff in return but others not having that mentality... folk putting money over everything ... people being users I can go on and on....

 

[blacktux]

On my way to divorce atm, just outgrew the idea of it being necessary just like i outgrew religion.

Funny thing i got married when i was the most religious id ever been.

Basically, if getting married isn't meeting some spiritual/religious fulfillment, you would be stupid as fuck to do it as a MAN.

You see the horror stories, you know the odds against you...and you still going to do the shit?

Its said that its intelligent to learn from your own experiences, but WISE to learn from the experiences of others. Be wise....

gangbangers....don't know they going to get got...but do they avoid the gang?

niggas trynna link up to scrap...do know how it's gonna end...do they avoid the shit talking?

that big ass hoe with 5 kids 7 babydaddies but she cute an all rhem niggas paying support...but you still ebrc ....

cop pulls you over with a trunk full of illegal guns with the serials melted off an all git at least 7 bodies, but you mouthing off at the cop.

but marraige frightens you?

y'all niggas are full of shit

so you calling me a bitch, bruh?

Quote me a pro.

 

[LordZuko]

I wish y'all the best.

Take your scorned ass up the block damn.

Scorned? Nigga. I'm looking at the data. I got uncles who are divorce attorneys. I'm looking at the stats.

52% of marriages end in divorce. 70% are initiated by the woman. When you break it down racially 80% of marriages btw black people end in divorce.

But I'm not the one to argue with a walking lick. Far as I'm concerned you wanna be a stain, be a stain.

Dont get mad at me cause you wasn't hittin it right my nigga.

And since we talking walkin licks, now you speak in my language baby, you remind me of an interaction I had wit one of my homies the other day.

We was Ridin and I wanted a icy white, we was on the south side(I'm from the east) and we pulled up to the corner store that we ain't frequent, bunch of niggas standin outside lookin like it's the first and they short, I grew up thirsty so I know what it look like.

Anyway, my nigga..... we'll call him zuko today, was like, Bruh you pulled up to the flookiest store in the city, don't surprised if they get on some bullshit wit you.

And I said nah nigga, don't be surprised if they get on that bullshit wit YOU nigga. I'm good.

Walked in the store got what we got and banged out.

Basically fam, don't say I'm a walkin lick cause YOU a bitch, that don't got nothin to do with me, take your tears, and fears, poll questions and percentages to a shrink and ask em where it went wrong B.

Lol. Aight. Guess there's a reason the game gotsa be sold not told.

 

[powerman 5000]

All the pros I can think of for marriage are theoretical, not universally accepted, and (or) vary from person to person thus, making marriage itself a con.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

On my way to divorce atm, just outgrew the idea of it being necessary just like i outgrew religion.

Funny thing i got married when i was the most religious id ever been.

Basically, if getting married isn't meeting some spiritual/religious fulfillment, you would be stupid as fuck to do it as a MAN.

You see the horror stories, you know the odds against you...and you still going to do the shit?

Its said that its intelligent to learn from your own experiences, but WISE to learn from the experiences of others. Be wise....

gangbangers....don't know they going to get got...but do they avoid the gang?

niggas trynna link up to scrap...do know how it's gonna end...do they avoid the shit talking?

that big ass hoe with 5 kids 7 babydaddies but she cute an all rhem niggas paying support...but you still ebrc ....

cop pulls you over with a trunk full of illegal guns with the serials melted off an all git at least 7 bodies, but you mouthing off at the cop.

but marraige frightens you?

y'all niggas are full of shit

so you calling me a bitch, bruh?

Quote me a pro.

sooooooo,

you still calling me a bitch?

 

[LordZuko]

Understanding the game and the common nature of the players is key to success.

Females: wanna be girls and women at the same time all the time. They are a a perpetual adolescent. They have grown up thoughts grown up bodies and grown up aspirations, but they feel they can reserve the right to become a little girl when shit get too tough and guilt people into aiding them out of situations that either they created, or had they listened to wisdom would not have occurred. Basic nature.

It's more important for a man to like a bitch than to love her. When you like a bitch that means she is conducting herself in a way where she is pleasant. She has learned to edit out the usual female bullshit and she focuses on what makes the man happy.

When a nigga loves a bitch, that's when bullshit occurs. Men take to love like av sense of duty and obligation. Instead of doing things because you want to, you do them because you feel like it's what you're supposed to do. This how niggas end up doing dumb shit for females like paying bills, getting involved in drama, moving a bitch in bc her money funny. Letting a bitch talk shit.

Prt 1

 

[2stepz_ahead]

On my way to divorce atm, just outgrew the idea of it being necessary just like i outgrew religion.

Funny thing i got married when i was the most religious id ever been.

Basically, if getting married isn't meeting some spiritual/religious fulfillment, you would be stupid as fuck to do it as a MAN.

You see the horror stories, you know the odds against you...and you still going to do the shit?

Its said that its intelligent to learn from your own experiences, but WISE to learn from the experiences of others. Be wise....

gangbangers....don't know they going to get got...but do they avoid the gang?

niggas trynna link up to scrap...do know how it's gonna end...do they avoid the shit talking?

that big ass hoe with 5 kids 7 babydaddies but she cute an all rhem niggas paying support...but you still ebrc ....

cop pulls you over with a trunk full of illegal guns with the serials melted off an all git at least 7 bodies, but you mouthing off at the cop.

but marraige frightens you?

y'all niggas are full of shit

so you calling me a bitch, bruh?

Quote me a pro.

so..

can I quote a pro....nah I can't.

but here's the thing tho.

we all have different shit that we like. what's good for me won't be good for you.

being black has pros an cons... some can say more cons than pros... so you want cake soap?

most of the pros are just as selfish as the cons.

just like the pros are beneficial like the cons.

I can't sell you on marraige but I can come at you to not fukk it up if you choose it.

too many negatives hold more weight because you looking for it...just to say I knew it.

other shit is encouraged aswell. how many dudes say work it out? how many women say work it out?

 

[Madame_CJSkywalker]

Lol

A lot of hurt feelings in this thread

Pros

Tax benefits

Cheaper insurance rates

Married men tend to live longer and report to being healthier....with women its a wash

Married men earn more than their unmarried peers. And these income differences among men don’t seem to depend on any of the obvious demographic differences, including age, education, race, etc. However women get hit with a marriage penalty, as married females earn less than unmarried women

Cons

Y'all got it covered

For anyone who is financially well off i can understand why you would be hesitate to marry

But otherwise marriage can be a great thing

 

[LordZuko]

Fuck I'm doing. Game is sold not told. Buy my book.

Or just listen to Patrice O'Neal. Shit will change your life.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Lol

A lot of hurt feelings in this thread

Pros

Tax benefits

Cheaper insurance rates

Married men tend to live longer and report to being healthier....with women its a wash

Married men earn more than their unmarried peers. And these income differences among men don’t seem to depend on any of the obvious demographic differences, including age, education, race, etc. However women get hit with a marriage penalty, as married females earn less than unmarried women

Cons

Y'all got it covered

For anyone who is financially well off i can understand why you would be hesitate to marry

But otherwise marriage can be a great thing

but all monetary benefits.

Same reasons niggas don't want to be married

 

[aneed123]

Fuck I'm doing. Game is sold not told. Buy my book.

Or just listen to Patrice O'Neal. Shit will change your life.

Naw keep talking. Bitter truths are hard to swallow.

 

[LordZuko]

Lol

A lot of hurt feelings in this thread

Pros

Tax benefits

Cheaper insurance rates

Married men tend to live longer and report to being healthier....with women its a wash

Married men earn more than their unmarried peers. And these income differences among men don’t seem to depend on any of the obvious demographic differences, including age, education, race, etc. However women get hit with a marriage penalty, as married females earn less than unmarried women

Cons

Y'all got it covered

For anyone who is financially well off i can understand why you would be hesitate to marry

But otherwise marriage can be a great thing

Married men make more money because they work longer hours.

Here's a simple word problem

Jeffery makes 100k a year, is married to a wife who makes 50k a year. They have three children and live in a four bdrm house in a suburb. They own two car notes and both still have student loans. Jarrod is a single man, early 30s, lives in a two bdrm apt makes 45k a year and owns a 2010 benz. Who has more discretionary income? Who is probably no more than three paychecks away from bankruptcy?

Taxes only become an issue at the 60k bracket.

Health insurance, most men don't go to the doctor so basic coverage is what most will opt for.

As far as living longer, it's better to burn out than to fade away.

 

[MizuryLillith]

Marriage is supposed to be sacred.

Nobody really understands what that means anymore...

Marriage is nothing more than a fools investment now.

 

[Lefty_]

I wish y'all the best.

Take your scorned ass up the block damn.

Scorned? Nigga. I'm looking at the data. I got uncles who are divorce attorneys. I'm looking at the stats.

52% of marriages end in divorce. 70% are initiated by the woman. When you break it down racially 80% of marriages btw black people end in divorce.

But I'm not the one to argue with a walking lick. Far as I'm concerned you wanna be a stain, be a stain.

Dont get mad at me cause you wasn't hittin it right my nigga.

And since we talking walkin licks, now you speak in my language baby, you remind me of an interaction I had wit one of my homies the other day.

We was Ridin and I wanted a icy white, we was on the south side(I'm from the east) and we pulled up to the corner store that we ain't frequent, bunch of niggas standin outside lookin like it's the first and they short, I grew up thirsty so I know what it look like.

Anyway, my nigga..... we'll call him zuko today, was like, Bruh you pulled up to the flookiest store in the city, don't surprised if they get on some bullshit wit you.

And I said nah nigga, don't be surprised if they get on that bullshit wit YOU nigga. I'm good.

Walked in the store got what we got and banged out.

Basically fam, don't say I'm a walkin lick cause YOU a bitch, that don't got nothin to do with me, take your tears, and fears, poll questions and percentages to a shrink and ask em where it went wrong B.

Lol. Aight. Guess there's a reason the game gotsa be sold not told.

There's a difference between game and fear mongering, you sound like the Fox News of marriage right now.

 

[AZTG]

I mean lets be real for a second, we always hear the negstives and never the positived. Not just about marriage or hoes cheating, but with just about everything.

Its more good people in the world then bad, and its more good stories than bad.

The bad stories always take more of a toll though, its just the human condition. Hard to stay sane over it all, but what happens happens

Naw homie i learned years ago the world evil ... good people with morals aren't the norm

Definitely more evidence to suggest earth is a place of evil where you're suppose to beat the odds and be good.

Evil is stronger, and evil people high up will influence so much bad shit in society, but, on a personal level when you meet regular people, they're good or inconsequential more often then not.

 

[LordZuko]

I wish y'all the best.

Take your scorned ass up the block damn.

Scorned? Nigga. I'm looking at the data. I got uncles who are divorce attorneys. I'm looking at the stats.

52% of marriages end in divorce. 70% are initiated by the woman. When you break it down racially 80% of marriages btw black people end in divorce.

But I'm not the one to argue with a walking lick. Far as I'm concerned you wanna be a stain, be a stain.

Dont get mad at me cause you wasn't hittin it right my nigga.

And since we talking walkin licks, now you speak in my language baby, you remind me of an interaction I had wit one of my homies the other day.

We was Ridin and I wanted a icy white, we was on the south side(I'm from the east) and we pulled up to the corner store that we ain't frequent, bunch of niggas standin outside lookin like it's the first and they short, I grew up thirsty so I know what it look like.

Anyway, my nigga..... we'll call him zuko today, was like, Bruh you pulled up to the flookiest store in the city, don't surprised if they get on some bullshit wit you.

And I said nah nigga, don't be surprised if they get on that bullshit wit YOU nigga. I'm good.

Walked in the store got what we got and banged out.

Basically fam, don't say I'm a walkin lick cause YOU a bitch, that don't got nothin to do with me, take your tears, and fears, poll questions and percentages to a shrink and ask em where it went wrong B.

Lol. Aight. Guess there's a reason the game gotsa be sold not told.

There's a difference between game and fear mongering, you sound like the Fox News of marriage right now.

Experience is the teacher of fools

 

[5th Letter]

Marriage is a business proposition where both sides benefit in some way. Marrying for love is a relatively new thing.

 

[Lefty_]

I'm cool with the cons of marriage, I know they exist, and I understand that this is just the world we live in. Things can change on a dime.

I'm not cool with subjectivity on and objective subject though.

This is almost classic old head telling the youngin to not go get that money because he couldn't. You lay out the good and the bad and then let people make their own decisions based on their preferences.

Some of you Niggas are so pussy, and got your little bitch ass feelings hurt so much that you don't even realize the pessimism your bringing to a potentially great situation for somebody else.

Somebody is reading this thinking about marriage, and it might be the best thing for them, and you corn balls are making it like they don't have a chance because your bitch has a Nigga driving your car living in the house you paid for. You have to wear that, not someone else.

All I ask is that you list both sides and get out of your feelings. You divorced ass Niggas listing that there are no pros wasn't thinking about the cons when you were exchanging vows, and I'm sure you had an idea of them then.

 

[jetlifebih]

Pros =economic

Cons =economic

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Marriage is supposed to be sacred.

Nobody really understands what that means anymore...

Marriage is nothing more than a fools investment now.

so now you tryinna call me a bitch?