Pros / Cons About Marriage

[7figz]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Mm..a judge doesn't consider infidelity from women in divorce proceedings?

Not in a no-fault divorce state.

But even still, I doubt a dude gonna be able to get money from his ex-wife just because she cheated.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Sound like niggas are just afraid of divorce, not necessarily opposed to marriage.

Which is understandable...but not really the point of the thread.

 

[Trillfate]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Damn she fine

 

[7figz]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Sound like niggas are just afraid of divorce, not necessarily opposed to marriage.

Which is understandable...but not really the point of the thread.

Gotta consider both though right ?

I mean how you going to be at peace in a marriage knowing that if shit doesn't work out, it can go really bad.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

ya know..

I got some shit to say. y'all may disagree but fukk it.

a woman looking for an upgrade or out to get you or leave when something better comes along....y'all some low esteem having niggaz.

an don't see the game from another angle.

women are less likely to leave a nigga other chicks want or is waiting for her to leave.

when hold yourself like a man.....chicks pick up on it since it so many fukk fag hat too tight, pants too big niggas an can't take care of themselves.

 

[aneed123]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Mm..a judge doesn't consider infidelity from women in divorce proceedings?

No

 

[atribecalledgabi]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Sound like niggas are just afraid of divorce, not necessarily opposed to marriage.

Which is understandable...but not really the point of the thread.

Gotta consider both though right ?

I mean how you going to be at peace in a marriage knowing that if shit doesn't work out, it can go really bad.

I mean, yea I get that...but marriage is marriage and divorce is divorce. They're their own entities.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

So what were the pros again?

 

[jono]

A lot of niggas selfish and miserable, they can't stand themselves let alone a relationship much less a healthy marriage. What's the male equivalent of a "cat lady?" I can tell a lot of cats are looking forward to being the 47 year old nigga wearing a durag in the club.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

A lot of niggas selfish and miserable, they can't stand themselves let alone a relationship much less a healthy marriage. What's the male equivalent of a "cat lady?" I can tell a lot of cats are looking forward to being the 47 year old nigga wearing a durag in the club.

Do you have to be married to have a healthy relationship? That's what I thought this thread was about, the pros/cons of legitimizing it over just staying together without marriage.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

That's not to say you can't get your stuff taken if not married, I think marriage laws apply to common law but I don't know for sure.

 

[jono]

A lot of niggas selfish and miserable, they can't stand themselves let alone a relationship much less a healthy marriage. What's the male equivalent of a "cat lady?" I can tell a lot of cats are looking forward to being the 47 year old nigga wearing a durag in the club.

Do you have to be married to have a healthy relationship? That's what I thought this thread was about, the pros/cons of legitimizing it over just staying together without marriage.

This thread is mostly about divorce/alimony and child support. The first page is not much different than the 20th or the 50th and so on.

Niggas who don't want to get married will not change their minds and will instead parrot the same shit over and over again.

Niggas who are married are likely happy being married.

 

[LordZuko]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Maybe not, but the way the divorce and child support systems are set up, it damn sure is an option to get you if she feels like it.

Didn't Kat say some shit like 'unless he cheated on me' ?

A man has no such option.

"But judge, she fucked the pool guy."

"... and the leaf-blower guy."

Sound like niggas are just afraid of divorce, not necessarily opposed to marriage.

Which is understandable...but not really the point of the thread.

To answer the point of the thread. There's no upside to marriage, no pro. There is nothing that marriage can offer a man that a noncontractual relationship doesn't.

You want steady in house pussy get a gf

You want female companionship get a gf

You want someone who will cook food go to bed with, get a gf

You want someone who will be loyal and ride or die, get a dog.

Outside of divorce, the cons of marriage are having to see the same person day in day out

Having to take on that person's debt new and old

Paying the bills in a whole house but be relegated to a single room

Having to entertain your bitch

Kids

Parent teacher conferences

In laws

Dinner and functions at in laws

Your wife's boring ass friends

The inevitability of your wife cutting off pussy

Your wife getting old fat and ugly

There are always a fresh batch of 20 yr olds that are off limits to you now.

Trading in your bike or muscle car for a minivan or some other "conventional" family car.

Having money to do whatever with, bitches always wanna do a project that cost money.your money

That's all i got for now.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

A lot of niggas selfish and miserable, they can't stand themselves let alone a relationship much less a healthy marriage. What's the male equivalent of a "cat lady?" I can tell a lot of cats are looking forward to being the 47 year old nigga wearing a durag in the club.

Do you have to be married to have a healthy relationship? That's what I thought this thread was about, the pros/cons of legitimizing it over just staying together without marriage.

This thread is mostly about divorce/alimony and child support. The first page is not much different than the 20th or the 50th and so on.

Niggas who don't want to get married will not change their minds and will instead parrot the same shit over and over again.

Niggas who are married are likely happy being married.

The biggest selling factor so far is you have someone to share your heart, mind, soul and life with. Which I think is most people's desire in life, but not all of course. I personally don't think you need to be married to enjoy that and in fact there is evidence to suggest things were better before a lot of people tied the knot. It sucks marriage/relationships are a gamble like that, people always hope it will last but life comes along and say fuck you. But you can't spend your days with someone always wondering/worrying about that shit and rob yourself of an otherwise enjoyable day/life.

 

[Mr.LV]

Dp

 

[Mr.LV]

I'm more scared of Divorce than commitment.

 

[blakfyahking]

<-- divorced old head posting

I appreciate this thread cuz ya'll at least talking about a G&S topic instead of the usual childish shit


marriage gets more of a bad rap than it should tho..........when it works its a beautiful thing



only and most important pro: building a family and creating wealth

cons: yeah there are multiple, but most are self-inflicted due to selfishness and not sharing the same values


I would consider marriage again, but only to have more children


too many niggaz are worried about the financial cons of marriage when money ain't the most important issue to be worrying about IMO............so if u only worried about divorce then u getting married for the wrong reasons anyway

 

[blakfyahking]

Most niggas think a marriage is going smooth till it ain't. Ya bitch will know months in advance she about to divorce you.

She'll be making preparations seeing lawyers coaching the kids. Letting her friends know. Everybody will know but you.

When will you know? At the job, some random nigga walks up to your desk, "hey you so n so?" you, quizzical than a mothafuck, but cautious ready to throw hands. Yea that's me.

"Nigga you been served"

You look at the papers it say you can't go back to the crib. You call your wife she don't answer. You go to the house anyway there's either a sheriff there already or she changed the locks. Kids at grandma's.

You gotta call the homey see if you can crash on his couch. You go to the store pick up a six pack. You get in line "PAYMENT DECLINED" that bitch either cleaned out y'all joint bank account or got an injunction put on that bitch. Either way you broke.

Y'all think it's a game if you want.

:joy: damn that shit @ the bolded got me in tears........

nah but for real it literally got me in my feelings tho

 

[atribecalledgabi]

I like when @blakfyahking talks about marriage

 

[deadeye]

I can tell a lot of cats are looking forward to being the 47 year old nigga wearing a durag in the club.

I'm 47, but I don't wear a durag.

I prefer POLO USA: