Poly-life or nah...

[LurkdogAchilles]

That inbox gotta be doing numbers!

 

[Anonymous17]

@"MistyKnight " bitch u Issa wack get a life stop trying to sell your story on IC for some sympathy u all washed up now IC is better without u. Married hoe with no life

 

[MistyKnight]

@"MistyKnight " bitch u Issa wack get a life stop trying to sell your story on IC for some sympathy u all washed up now IC is better without u. Married hoe with no life

Ok Dizz, but I still want my money, nigga.

 

[franknitti]

Come on Kai, don’t run off another female yo

She's good.

I respect her opinion about this.

If you happen to change your mind on the side nigga front.....

Don’t Mind ME.

 

[blacktux]

Incredible thread

Ive played with the idea myself. But i dont even like the idea of being responsible for one woman.

Multiple women? Id only do it if the women were attracted to eachother as well.

The father of your second child must be one hell of a man for yall to be alright with that, i commend him.

Best of luck love.

 

[Will Munny]

You shouldn’t have had kids.

 

[Ol Jay's]

@Kai didn't your big head ass say your guy can fuck other females too

 

[KingFreeman]

I don't know what ts is doing. But that middle nigga got y'all trained. Salute.

 

[$ineedmoney$]

why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.

I actually want him to get another woman, but he doesn't think that she'll go for it.

Besides, who gets jealous over a nigga who plays the game all the time???

The fact that he feels that way plays a part in you not finding him attractive anymore subconsciously I'm sure. Now I see why you labeled him a "nice guy". He's at a point in life where he's always afraid to try. Wouldn't be surprised if people pleasing is a priority to him in life and it never should be.

He needs to work on himself cause it sounds like he's got self confidence/self love issues. If he doesn't nip it in the bud that will affect his love life and everything else for the rest of his days. No matter what until that is done every woman he encounters will want to be ghost and as far away from him as possible after a while just like you right now.

I don't believe that some men want to be monogamous.

I'd respect a man more for telling me what he is and isn't built for.

And he's not built for poly-life.

I wouldn't call it 'people-pleasing' but some of our problems stem from the fact that he doesn't want to have an argument. For me, that's an issue.

could it be that you are TOO selfish?

kinda sounds like you creating a situation to have an excuse.

Ok.

I don't understand how a person can be TOO selfish about what they want/need.

you can be too selfish......they is a thing called compromise.

i am sure he is compromising something....you just feeling like you want to have a screaming nut...ok

once thats over...then what?

i think you should think about how you move around him....it has to be a reason.

When a person tells you that they don't want to change or see the need for change....who ends compromising?

...Aye...If you tired of yo' baby daddy...all at the doctors office...getting' diagnosed...refilling prescriptions...low testosterone...Come to Detroit...!!...

 

[a.mann]

You shouldn’t have had kids.

I'm actually against birth control, but this is the only one that I like.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

@moneypowerrespect...do it...some of Muslim uncles got like 5 wives and its all good

 

[englishdude]

If your looking for baby daddy no 4 take the flight to England, won’t even be worried about the situation after I’ve fucked. I’ll send the little one a postcard on birthdays/Xmas if it’s necessary tho.

 

[Broddie]

Lmao this dude basically just said "fly across the pond and give me some".

 

[whatevathehell]

Well, no exposing or running this one off....future and past ic females take note...this how you pose to post..no fucks given

 

[MallyG]

This thot anthem is on MPR's current playlist....

Love Galore >>>>>>>

This song is trash.

Idk why people like it so much.

These trollops like it b/c it's a song about thot'n and trottin'! It speaks to them.

Easy math! lol

 

[playmaker88]

Well, no exposing or running this one off....future and past ic females take note...this how you pose to post..no fucks given

She knows nothing about giving no fucks she is charitable in that regard

 

[atribecalledgabi]

@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side nigga that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?

Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I just picture explaining that shit to the kids before hand then again after if it doesn't work. It's not just you going into the poly life but your kids too.

 

[Ol Jay's]

@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side nigga that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?

Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.

You got to read between the lines, this isn't about her wanting a poly relationship, this is about her being insecure and thinking her guy is cheating, she's venting and soothing herself by mentally manipulating herself into thinking she'd be okay if her guy came clean about his side chick

Or this thread is a therapeutic rant because he came clean about his side chick

 

[Ip man]

why cant you get a dildo an hold the nigga at night?

There's no feeling like a head between your legs.

We don't live together and when I am there, I feel like I'm taking care of 3 kids.

as long as he can take care of the two of you.....an shares time

and when you want some dikk you get your dildo...or you an shorty hit it up....

yall pool your money for the bigger plan and create wealth, share the duties of raising kids and movie night.

i think everything will be cool.

Yeah. I know that some houses up there are reasonably priced but may need some work. That's cool.

She and I aren't going to have sex. I'm not gay.

I truly think that it'll work. I just don't wanna take my baby away from his dad. That distance is a killer.

They make dolls now. You got options