Poly-life or nah...

[Lou Cypher]

Gonna be some confused ass kids when they get older.

 

[nawledge_god]

Ol girl fiending for the D out there lmao

Look...youre torn between whats good for you or your baby just says you aint really shit.

Oh I'm definitely not shit.

But we're past that part.

To be fair, he'll still have a dad/male role model.

I'm not fiending...I'm just trying to understand whyyyy I can't have a side nigga. Like..it's just sex, bro.

Lmao @CapitalB you know what to do fam.

Appropriate Theme Music

 

[nex gin]

Native Nashvillian redbone.....

Makes sense now. As you were

 

[playmaker88]

 

[AP21]

Idk what happened to the old MPR but the resurgence is hilarious

Just off GP, do it. Y’all gonna be taken care of and happy. What’s more important than that?

Also, where can I fill out your side nigga application at?

What was the old me like?

Ghetto, lite skint, and moody

Now you ratchet, bossy, and hilarious

You gonna let me shoot my shot or nah?

I'm not ratchet tho.

I'm still just ghetto. And even then...I'm not THAT ghetto.

Ok you whatever you wanna be sweetheart

About this side nigga position tho.....,

IC posters are automatically disqualified.

Sorry not sorry.

what about ablackweb.com posters?

Isn't that where the TJMS gets the money for the hurricane?

I'll pass.

what?

nah

you trippin

 

[D. Morgan]

This thread has some wild shit in it but I'll say this she got something going on if niggas ain't or can't pull out.

Especially if she ain't been pushed down a flight a stairs?

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Gonna be some confused ass kids when they get older.

I don't think so.

That's why communication is important. Why would we have a completely different family dynamic than most of the country and not teach our kids?

My Teacher has 3 wives now.

And I talked to their oldest daughter about it.

Kids are more observant than people give them credit for.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Native Nashvillian redbone.....

Makes sense now. As you were

Nah.

I think that you're giving my city too much credit.

I blame the innanet

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

This thread has some wild shit in it but I'll say this she got something going on if niggas ain't or can't pull out.

Especially if she ain't been pushed down a flight a stairs?

I don't think that.

All 3 situations had different circumstances.

 

[farris2k1]

All I know is the man you are currently with aint making you happy.

Seems like dude dont really care, and even if he does, hes not giving you what you want.

Dont stay with a motherfucker cause hes nice and you care for him etc. The writings on the wall that this relationship isnt gonna work out, the sooner you get serious about that, the better.

I would suggest you sit with him and let him know all this isnt working and how yall envision taking care of your son once you guys split and come to an agreement. Once you and him find a happy medium about how to care for your son, and you can leave him, you can then worry about what to do next.

It could be moving to Detroit and getting into that poly-whatever relarionship or it could be finding a man here and settling down.

The other side of the grass is ALWAYS greener, but once you living it, you'll find yourself running into problems you didnt you would.

For now though, worry about step one, which is how to move on from your current man in a way that is best for your son.

By far the best response in this thread, pretty much everything i was gonna say

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

I can't lie.

I'm surprised by the responses.

 

[Broddie]

I can't lie.

I'm surprised by the responses.

You shouldn't be. We're men and not boys around here. For the most part.

 

[MistyKnight]

Here's the deal.

I just had a baby and his dad and I are cool. He 'loves' me and I think that he's a 'nice guy', but between his health and a lack of sex, I think that we should have an open relationship.

But.....there's more.

The middle son's dad and I have been playing with the idea of being polygynous. (Polygyny is a man having up to 4 wives).

He wants to work full-time while me and the other woman have part-time jobs/go to school. He is her kid's dad, as well. I genuinely care about her, too. Like, I'll go to war over her.

The catch is that he wants us to move to Detroit. And idk if I can do that.

I'm torn by what is good for me vs what's good for the kids.

What yall think?

@MoneyPowerRespect

I would sacrifice a goat and 10 chickens if I could have another chick helping me around the house. Being a stay at home mom with a newborn and a toddler is the hardest shit ever :s

 

[Copper]

Does his disease effect his sex drive at all?

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Does his disease effect his sex drive at all?

I'm not completely sure.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Here's the deal.

I just had a baby and his dad and I are cool. He 'loves' me and I think that he's a 'nice guy', but between his health and a lack of sex, I think that we should have an open relationship.

But.....there's more.

The middle son's dad and I have been playing with the idea of being polygynous. (Polygyny is a man having up to 4 wives).

He wants to work full-time while me and the other woman have part-time jobs/go to school. He is her kid's dad, as well. I genuinely care about her, too. Like, I'll go to war over her.

The catch is that he wants us to move to Detroit. And idk if I can do that.

I'm torn by what is good for me vs what's good for the kids.

What yall think?

@MoneyPowerRespect

I would sacrifice a goat and 10 chickens if I could have another chick helping me around the house. Being a stay at home mom with a newborn and a toddler is the hardest shit ever :s

Yeah.

The beginning of the school year was rough because baby was only 3-4 weeks old.

 

[Copper]

Here's the deal.

I just had a baby and his dad and I are cool. He 'loves' me and I think that he's a 'nice guy', but between his health and a lack of sex, I think that we should have an open relationship.

But.....there's more.

The middle son's dad and I have been playing with the idea of being polygynous. (Polygyny is a man having up to 4 wives).

He wants to work full-time while me and the other woman have part-time jobs/go to school. He is her kid's dad, as well. I genuinely care about her, too. Like, I'll go to war over her.

The catch is that he wants us to move to Detroit. And idk if I can do that.

I'm torn by what is good for me vs what's good for the kids.

What yall think?

Being a stay at home mom with a newborn and a toddler is the hardest shit ever :s

 

[MallyG]

This thot anthem is on MPR's current playlist....

 

[playmaker88]

This thread has some wild shit in it but I'll say this she got something going on if niggas ain't or can't pull out.

Especially if she ain't been pushed down a flight a stairs?

Or niggas gon nig

 

[Copper]

Does his disease effect his sex drive at all?

I'm not completely sure.

I'd imagine if your intestines are fucked up it would interfere with sex drive/interest.

Ask the nigga.