Planning for Single Motherhood.. Are fathers really needed?

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motrilla;1890044 said:
this is pure fuckery only men can raise men

You obviously haven't watched my video; I actually say that fathers ARE needed. And not just to raise men; they're also needed to raise daughters as well.
 
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MsVShantrell;1890072 said:
You obviously haven't watched my video; I actually say that fathers ARE needed. And not just to raise men; they're also needed to raise daughters as well.

you're right I should of paid more attention I didn't realize the video was your response.Initially I thought it was a video of women discussing their intentions to raise children by themselves which would have been a waste of time , but I will watch it now
 
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I agree on everything you say and I wish more women thought like this, growing up you need both parents because both bring something different to the table, at certain ages you look for role models and boys look for men just as girls look for women. If boys don't find a role model at home from his dad or his uncles he will look to the guys on the street. The reason why so many black guys especially messed up because of mums like this.

There is no way a woman can raise a man, just like there is no way a man can raise a woman and any women who thinks that is fukked up in the head simple and plain. I respect the post some of ya niggas need to stop hating and actually watch the video. You're hairlines not messed up and yes you do have nice teeth and a beautiful face.
 
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A child, son or daughter, needs both full time parents present and active in their lives.
Single parenting doesn't take away from the importance of a fathers presence in a child's life.
While a single parent does take on the role of two parents, a mother can never play the role of a father and vice versa.
 
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Conscious__Nkechi;1890738 said:
A child, son or daughter, needs both full time parents present and active in their lives.

Single parenting doesn't take away from the importance of a fathers presence in a child's life.

While a single parent does take on the role of two parents, a mother can never play the role of a father and vice versa.

I co-sign this
 
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ayo... only a few weeks in..and i ain't saying yall ABSOLUTELY NEED the fathers.....but i'll put it like this...

u know how u get a ticket and could possibly die in a crash if u don't wear ur seat belt....like u can basically drive without a seat belt... but it's in your best interest to wear one for ur pocket in case you get pulled over, and more importantly ur life if u crash.....

iight so consider the overall importance of a seatbelt while driving...

iight, now take that importance...and multiply it by like 1 billion....a billion times the financial aspect, and the overal preservation of life aspect...

give or take a little....that's how important an active father is...
 
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dusouljah;1890866 said:
ayo... only a few weeks in..and i ain't saying yall ABSOLUTELY NEED the fathers.....but i'll put it like this...

u know how u get a ticket and could possibly die in a crash if u don't wear ur seat belt....like u can basically drive without a seat belt... but it's in your best interest to wear one for ur pocket in case you get pulled over, and more importantly ur life if u crash.....

iight so consider the overall importance of a seatbelt while driving...

iight, now take that importance...and multiply it by like 1 billion....a billion times the fincial aspect, and the overal preservation of life aspect...

give or take a little....that's how important an active father is...

i couldn't have put it better myself, real talk
 
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dusouljah;1890866 said:
ayo... only a few weeks in..and i ain't saying yall ABSOLUTELY NEED the fathers.....but i'll put it like this...

This is the worst mistake made on the behalf of all females who feel this has everything to do with them.

She walks around thinking "I can be my child's mommy and daddy. I don't need him."

No, silly. You cannot. And once again, you not needing him is absolutely irrelevant.
 
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Conscious__Nkechi;1890879 said:
Yall?

This is the worst mistake made on the behalf of all females who feel this has anything to do with them at all.

"yall" is referringl females who feel they don't need a father in their child's life...

if ur personallyt not apart of "yall" then obvisouly i'm not adressing you....
 
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meekins;1890847 said:
the fuck???????? what type of shid is this???? this bitch gon raise a prison rat.

say meeks.. why you gotta go and say that about the this lady?? she may have a few good points here & there.
 
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dusouljah;1890889 said:
"yall" is referringl females who feel they don't need a father in their child's life...

if ur personallyt not apart of "yall" then obvisouly i'm not adressing you....

And I totally understood what you were saying the first time.
I am saying that your introduction was an error in itself. That mentality alone is counter productive.
 
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lets suppose the father is a dope fiend none working stealing from his own momma, so he'll definitely wouldn't hesitate to take from his child, yall mean to tell me the mother isn't better off raising that child alone vs. it being a must the father is in that childs life?

@ Du seltbeats don't save lives, GOD does........see the number of seatbelt related deaths
 
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ES-BEE;1890919 said:
lets suppose the father is a dope fiend none working steal from his own momma, so he'll definitely wouldn't hesitate to take from his child, yall mean to tell me the mother isn't better off raising that child alone vs. it being a must the father is in that childs life?

yeah because this is always the case.....
 
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lets suppose that mother thats wants to raise that child dont know NO boundaries.. lays up with damn near every man that wants it, gets high (weed, hard, etc etc).. has drugs around that child, guns, etc...

BUT because she is clueless and head as thick as concrete, she thinks she knows everything.. she wants to keep "her" baby away from the father.. you saying thats the right idea??
 
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