Paternity leave...Let's talk about it.

[Shuffington]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

 

[MsSouthern]

FMLA had been around forever. Are you sure this is new ?

The laws have changed recently

And you sound like Ditka

FMLA has been around since 1993. Last amendment to the act was in 2015 so that same sex couples could both take off for leave when they have a child/adopt

When did this change you are taking about occur ?

Sometimes the answer is in the question..

That's not even the same thing though ...

Check the 2009 Amendment and do better googles

You said recent changes ....that was minimum 8 yrs ago

Lol

So we both agree you were wrong

Cool

You said its been around 'forever' like it existed in the same state... which is has not. And the POTUS has only changed ONCE w/in that 8years, thus making that update 'recent'

So how bout we agree that you sound like Mike Ditka.

8 years ago is not recent.

Its a federal law

FMLA exists in all states

State as in 'state of existence' dumbass

Took a whole damn day and this what you come back with...

FOH

I mean how many times do you want me to prove you are wrong from the jump ?

We are at what 3 now ?

 

[blackrain]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

 

[mryounggun]

I took time off when my son was born and then more time off when he was about 6 months old. Time well-spent.

 

[yellowtapesport]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

 

[grYmes]

Military let’s dudes take 10 days (but y’all gotta be married) I’ve done it twice. It was a lil vacation for me & got to connect with the little ones. In all honesty as long as there isn’t any complications with the birth, that’s all you need.

Have to disagree with you on that one. She gone need help round the house might be days she don't feel like moving and yoy have to wait on her and tend to the newborn. Me personally I wanted to bond as much as I could and take in being a new proud father. Cause if I wasn't there and went back to work it would have been her mother my mom and aunts over now granted they cooked big boy meals that lasted us a week that way I could make sure everybody else I the house was good. But I guess it comes down to how you were raised. Or if you trying to break a certain cycle that you don't won't your kids to go thru. I don't know

Her mom was there for all our kids births too so I was around but she made it a habit to be extra help. Which was cool. My wife never had issues getting back to full strength with our kids. If anything see was telling me I was in the way, lol. Everybody’s different.

 

[Shuffington]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

HAWHAT ? ? ! !

 

[Madame_CJSkywalker]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

HAWHAT ? ? ! !

he's not alone

yet i'm so wrong for pointing out the toxic ideas around masculinity, femininity, and sex

 

[yellowtapesport]

Y'all niggas at home on vacation tryna act like its (necessary) for the child gtfoh

Edit: Unless you got skim milk in them titties lol nh gtfoh

 

[NCswag]

I took 2 weeks off...shit was mad boring

 

[StoneColdMikey]

lol gotta be a troll thread

 

[yellowtapesport]

Niggas at home sleepin late and playin Xbox like

'but I bonded wit my child tho'

 

[blackrain]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

A newborn...yeah that's a time consuming thing you kind of need to devote your attention to.

 

[AP21]

yellowtape...why are you so angry about this? lol

seems like a silly hill to die on man

why you upset ya ic brethren get to chill at home for a few weeks and hang out with their newborn? Even if they do manage to sneak in some xbox...

 

[yellowtapesport]

yellowtape...why are you so angry about this? lol

seems like a silly hill to die on man

why you upset ya ic brethren get to chill at home for a few weeks and hang out with their newborn? Even if they do manage to sneak in some xbox...

I just asked a question my brother and niggas came at me like the super dads n shit..

 

[yellowtapesport]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

A newborn...yeah that's a time consuming thing you kind of need to devote your attention to.

Before I go in @blackrain how long do you consider the baby a 'newborn'?

 

[blackrain]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

A newborn...yeah that's a time consuming thing you kind of need to devote your attention to.

Before I go in @blackrain how long do you consider the baby a 'newborn'?

First few months..and there's nothing to go in on about. You out here trying to shame niggas for wanting to be with their kids when they're first born. Thats some clown shit

 

[jetlifebih]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

HAWHAT ? ? ! !

he's not alone

yet i'm so wrong for pointing out the toxic ideas around masculinity, femininity, and sex

There’s toxicity in blurred ideas of masculinity and femininity and sex towards groups of people who on average show similar behavior....

The fact that more than half of men show more masculinity and more than half of women show more femininity naturally....shows us that these roles are important and blurring the lines would also have a negative effect...do any bad ideas come to your mind when thinking of these ideas??

Honestly...the guy you describe is not the guy you would want....as your father, husband, son or brother....

 

[yellowtapesport]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

A newborn...yeah that's a time consuming thing you kind of need to devote your attention to.

Before I go in @blackrain how long do you consider the baby a 'newborn'?

First few months..and there's nothing to go in on about. You out here trying to shame niggas for wanting to be with their kids when they're first born. Thats some clown shit

All Im askin is why do you need time off work to do this...

Stop tryna make it seem like that 'time off' is a necessary thing.

End of the day niggas can and will do what the fck they want

I just asked a question

 

[mryounggun]

So my question is:

Does this contribute to the constant feminization of our society? Is it just a paid vacation?

WTF? Feminization?

I think the problem is that more men don't get longer paid leave time in general.

No feminization involved in wanting to spend time with your child at any moment in their life.

Niggas call the dumbest shit feminine. Yeah...wanting to actually raise your child and be there is feminine lol

So you need time off work to raise your child now???

You reachin (as usual) my nigga

A newborn...yeah that's a time consuming thing you kind of need to devote your attention to.

Before I go in @blackrain how long do you consider the baby a 'newborn'?

First few months..and there's nothing to go in on about. You out here trying to shame niggas for wanting to be with their kids when they're first born. Thats some clown shit

All Im askin is why do you need time off work to do this...

Stop tryna make it seem like that 'time off' is a necessary thing.

End of the day niggas can and will do what the fck they want

I just asked a question

Because newborns typically suck all the energy out of you. It's great to be able to wake up 3 times at night to feed your newborn - and at least one of those times they refuse to go right back to sleep after eating so you spend an hour on the couch trying to burp the little fucker while watching sportscenter - without having to worry about getting up at 6 am and spending 8 hours at a job where you need to actually pay attention.

Because changing diapers and feeding and washing and making bottles and dealing with family and shit stopping by and still having to make sure ya house is clean and food is cooked and all that other shit shouldn't fall own just mom.

I could go on. But the simple answer is that, men get time off work for a new baby the same reason that women do: Because having a kid - if you're doing it right - is a huge change for both parents and adjusting to those changes while having to also worry about going to work is a kick in the nuts.