MGTOWrama : A FEMINIZM CONSEQUENCE

[2stepz_ahead]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.

shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.

@blakfiya

LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?

lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes

or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:

she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.

you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.

gotta let it go bruh.



an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?



you bitter for nothing

@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...

true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.

the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.

they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.

 

[blackrain]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

One minute its shame on women for fucking around with bums and thugs

Then too many women standards are too high...what are they bringing to the table

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

With young to middle age blk women its even harder

Yes we lost a lot of dating prospects due to racism but that doesnt change the fact blk women outnumber blk men in america

Even if every blk man in america married a blk woman today, one out of 10,12 blk women still wouldn't make it down the aisle if they hoped to marry a blk man

And then when u account for men who are not single or gay or don't date blk women the dating pool shrinks even more for blk women looking to date a blk men. For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller

Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

everything you said...is more reason why women should change their stank attitudes.

and even if every blk woman were to have a more pliable attitude there will still be women left without a man if she wants to date a blk man

i mentioned how if you account for gays, men who don't date blk women the dating pool shrinks... what about the men who are physically/mentally abusive, not monogamy material, not father material, chronically unemployed etc

so would that change of attitude include accepting these men and their faults no matter what

we already see that today...i already see some blk men taking advantage ....women putting up with infidelity, dishonesty and abuse just to have somebody

but yes both men and women need to look in the mirror

you see these women putting up with stuff huh?

you ever think of what that woman did to deserve it or if you hearing the whole story?

i once a long time ago met a couple my wife knew.

the dude was an asshole towards his wife.....i was like dude is an asshole.

but later my wife told me that she quit her $100k plus job to open a flowershop.

she got bored and closed the shop and now aint working. an everything fell onto him.

so after that i can see why hes an asshole towards her.

that and the countless other stories i post here...makes you think. are all these women even quality women?

i know more stand up dudes that legit, honest, no lunch nigga having, build with my husband, no attention from others needed, all for the family type women.

most have an angle or an out and they friends allow the out ...allow the game and dont hold their friends accountable for being fuked up.

all my homies will let me know if im fukkin up. how many women will do that for their friends? how many will encourage a chick to just get his number in case?

another thing i can add to the list of shit women dont like...an thats to see another woman happy.

ur experiences and relationships are limited

ain't shit-ness has no gender

my brothers have dealt with some aint shit women

at the same time a family member's bd, for ex, is not willing to accept that their child is autistic and has not taken the time/effort to build a closer relationship with the boy. backstory, her bd spent some time over seas but now he's back

when i was 8 i witnessed my mother's friend husband storm in the house and hit her in the face closed fist as she was talking with my mom. before that he was a seemingly good provider, worked at GM, and a active father

She probably did something to deserve that punch because no man who is a good father just beats on his woman for no reason. Give the BABY daddy some more time it's hard for some men to accept a retard baby

You going to reach that hard?

How is that a reach??? no one just goes nuts and just beats their girl for no reason, UNLESS he was drunk or high there had to be a real motive. There is probably more to the story that she never knew about.

You said "No man who is a good father"...so maybe this nigga wasn't a good father...and yeah dudes get in their feelings and overreact to shit all the damn time. Especially in situations involving women

 

[blackrain]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.

shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.

@blakfiya

LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?

lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes

or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:

she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.

you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.

gotta let it go bruh.



an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?



you bitter for nothing

@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...

true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.

the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.

they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.

From what I'm reading in here there is no distinction between women who deserve it and women who feel entitled. It's just "women"

 

[2stepz_ahead]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.

shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.

@blakfiya

LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?

lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes

or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:

she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.

you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.

gotta let it go bruh.



an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?



you bitter for nothing

@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...

true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.

the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.

they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.

From what I'm reading in here there is no distinction between women who deserve it and women who feel entitled. It's just "women"

there is a clear distinction.

its just the percentages of women who are feeling entitled are going up at a rate that it shouldnt nor is it sustainable.

im just glad i lucked up.

but still .....the girlfriends an shit....them hoes be tripping.

 

[sunlord]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

One minute its shame on women for fucking around with bums and thugs

Then too many women standards are too high...what are they bringing to the table

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

With young to middle age blk women its even harder

Yes we lost a lot of dating prospects due to racism but that doesnt change the fact blk women outnumber blk men in america

Even if every blk man in america married a blk woman today, one out of 10,12 blk women still wouldn't make it down the aisle if they hoped to marry a blk man

And then when u account for men who are not single or gay or don't date blk women the dating pool shrinks even more for blk women looking to date a blk men. For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller

Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

everything you said...is more reason why women should change their stank attitudes.

and even if every blk woman were to have a more pliable attitude there will still be women left without a man if she wants to date a blk man

i mentioned how if you account for gays, men who don't date blk women the dating pool shrinks... what about the men who are physically/mentally abusive, not monogamy material, not father material, chronically unemployed etc

so would that change of attitude include accepting these men and their faults no matter what

we already see that today...i already see some blk men taking advantage ....women putting up with infidelity, dishonesty and abuse just to have somebody

but yes both men and women need to look in the mirror

you see these women putting up with stuff huh?

you ever think of what that woman did to deserve it or if you hearing the whole story?

i once a long time ago met a couple my wife knew.

the dude was an asshole towards his wife.....i was like dude is an asshole.

but later my wife told me that she quit her $100k plus job to open a flowershop.

she got bored and closed the shop and now aint working. an everything fell onto him.

so after that i can see why hes an asshole towards her.

that and the countless other stories i post here...makes you think. are all these women even quality women?

i know more stand up dudes that legit, honest, no lunch nigga having, build with my husband, no attention from others needed, all for the family type women.

most have an angle or an out and they friends allow the out ...allow the game and dont hold their friends accountable for being fuked up.

all my homies will let me know if im fukkin up. how many women will do that for their friends? how many will encourage a chick to just get his number in case?

another thing i can add to the list of shit women dont like...an thats to see another woman happy.

ur experiences and relationships are limited

ain't shit-ness has no gender

my brothers have dealt with some aint shit women

at the same time a family member's bd, for ex, is not willing to accept that their child is autistic and has not taken the time/effort to build a closer relationship with the boy. backstory, her bd spent some time over seas but now he's back

when i was 8 i witnessed my mother's friend husband storm in the house and hit her in the face closed fist as she was talking with my mom. before that he was a seemingly good provider, worked at GM, and a active father

She probably did something to deserve that punch because no man who is a good father just beats on his woman for no reason. Give the BABY daddy some more time it's hard for some men to accept a retard baby

You going to reach that hard?

How is that a reach??? no one just goes nuts and just beats their girl for no reason, UNLESS he was drunk or high there had to be a real motive. There is probably more to the story that she never knew about.

You said "No man who is a good father"...so maybe this nigga wasn't a good father...and yeah dudes get in their feelings and overreact to shit all the damn time. Especially in situations involving women

She described him generally speaking as being an "active father" who worked and provided for his family and men who are like that don't just beat on their women for no reason therefore it makes sense to believe that his wife give this good man a reason to strike her. I'm not making a moral justification for it but obviously he did not punch her for no reason.

perhaps he came home and saw her sucking some dick.

 

[LPast]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

 

[blackrain]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.

shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.

@blakfiya

LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?

lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes

or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:

she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.

you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.

gotta let it go bruh.



an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?



you bitter for nothing

@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...

true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.

the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.

they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.

From what I'm reading in here there is no distinction between women who deserve it and women who feel entitled. It's just "women"

there is a clear distinction.

its just the percentages of women who are feeling entitled are going up at a rate that it shouldnt nor is it sustainable.

im just glad i lucked up.

but still .....the girlfriends an shit....them hoes be tripping.

People in general feel entitled to shit they shouldn't have. It's a bunch of niggas who don't make progress in shit but MyPlayer on NBA2k talking about what they "deserve" from a woman. Ain't shit people will always exist as they always have. I'm also of the belief that if you constantly coming across people who you deem to be not worth a shit then you need to reevaluate the people you surround yourself with as well. You can't keep blaming everyone else and not also do some self reflection about why you may end up in the same types of situations over and over again

 

[2stepz_ahead]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.

shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.

@blakfiya

LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?

lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes

or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:

she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.

you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.

gotta let it go bruh.



an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?



you bitter for nothing

@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...

true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.

the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.

they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.

From what I'm reading in here there is no distinction between women who deserve it and women who feel entitled. It's just "women"

there is a clear distinction.

its just the percentages of women who are feeling entitled are going up at a rate that it shouldnt nor is it sustainable.

im just glad i lucked up.

but still .....the girlfriends an shit....them hoes be tripping.

People in general feel entitled to shit they shouldn't have. It's a bunch of niggas who don't make progress in shit but MyPlayer on NBA2k talking about what they "deserve" from a woman. Ain't shit people will always exist as they always have. I'm also of the belief that if you constantly coming across people who you deem to be not worth a shit then you need to reevaluate the people you surround yourself with as well. You can't keep blaming everyone else and not also do some self reflection about why you may end up in the same types of situations over and over again

you right....you right

you got me there...

but who asked you anyway?

why you always fukkin with me?

 

[gorilla]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Number 2 is deflection at best. You're assuming a small portion of men would not accept sex only after marriage after finding their dream woman. Every man surely wouldn't do it, but the whole idea is mere speculation either way.

Adding to that, waiting until after marriage or not has nothing to do with hoism.

 

[LPast]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Number 2 is deflection at best. You're assuming a small portion of men would not accept sex only after marriage after finding their dream woman. Every man surely wouldn't do it, but the whole idea is mere speculation either way.

Adding to that, waiting until after marriage or not has nothing to do with hoism.

Nah, dudes just don't want to own it. You must think that strip clubs exist because women like pole dancing...

Regardless of how y'all feel, it's a man's world.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Number 2 is deflection at best. You're assuming a small portion of men would not accept sex only after marriage after finding their dream woman. Every man surely wouldn't do it, but the whole idea is mere speculation either way.

Adding to that, waiting until after marriage or not has nothing to do with hoism.

Nah, dudes just don't want to own it. You must think that strip clubs exist because women like pole dancing...

Regardless of how y'all feel, it's a man's world.

i do think men ...our community of males are a problem and should lead these women.

i always say it comes back to the men....but right now we talking about womenz.

maybe we need a black man needs to stand up thread. i bet it wont do numbers cause every nigga thinks hes a stand up dude.

kinda like all niggas got custody of there kid

 

[sunlord]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

That market always existed men have always wanted hoes, WE have not changed we will always want sluts but only for sex not marriage today women expect to act like sluts and still get married.

The equation was simple

female chastity + male sexual urges= Desire for marriage

 

[blackrain]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Number 2 is deflection at best. You're assuming a small portion of men would not accept sex only after marriage after finding their dream woman. Every man surely wouldn't do it, but the whole idea is mere speculation either way.

Adding to that, waiting until after marriage or not has nothing to do with hoism.

Nah, dudes just don't want to own it. You must think that strip clubs exist because women like pole dancing...

Regardless of how y'all feel, it's a man's world.

i do think men ...our community of males are a problem and should lead these women.

i always say it comes back to the men....but right now we talking about womenz.

maybe we need a black man needs to stand up thread. i bet it wont do numbers cause every nigga thinks hes a stand up dude.



kinda like all niggas got custody of there kid

The bold is the funniest part about this whole mgtow shit

 

[gorilla]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.

shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.

@blakfiya

LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?

lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes

or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:

she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.

you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.

gotta let it go bruh.



an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?



you bitter for nothing

@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...

true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.

the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.

they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.

From what I'm reading in here there is no distinction between women who deserve it and women who feel entitled. It's just "women"

there is a clear distinction.

its just the percentages of women who are feeling entitled are going up at a rate that it shouldnt nor is it sustainable.

im just glad i lucked up.

but still .....the girlfriends an shit....them hoes be tripping.

People in general feel entitled to shit they shouldn't have. It's a bunch of niggas who don't make progress in shit but MyPlayer on NBA2k talking about what they "deserve" from a woman. Ain't shit people will always exist as they always have. I'm also of the belief that if you constantly coming across people who you deem to be not worth a shit then you need to reevaluate the people you surround yourself with as well. You can't keep blaming everyone else and not also do some self reflection about why you may end up in the same types of situations over and over again

This is not to be taken lightly! The process this year is a fucking grind my g. Shit is like a second job unless you buy vc and I refuse to.

 

[sunlord]

Black men will never really be able to lead most black women because the government has more power than we do, government policies are more impactful on their daily lives than we are. The situation is even worse than that because the black community as a whole continues to politically and socially advocate for things that make the government even more powerful AND our family structure even weaker.

Until respect for male authority is reestablished in the wider American/western culture black women will continue to be off code and out of pocket.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Number 2 is deflection at best. You're assuming a small portion of men would not accept sex only after marriage after finding their dream woman. Every man surely wouldn't do it, but the whole idea is mere speculation either way.

Adding to that, waiting until after marriage or not has nothing to do with hoism.

Nah, dudes just don't want to own it. You must think that strip clubs exist because women like pole dancing...

Regardless of how y'all feel, it's a man's world.

i do think men ...our community of males are a problem and should lead these women.

i always say it comes back to the men....but right now we talking about womenz.

maybe we need a black man needs to stand up thread. i bet it wont do numbers cause every nigga thinks hes a stand up dude.

kinda like all niggas got custody of there kid

Imo its not about which genre leads. Its about THE SOCIAL CONTRACT.

In the nowadays social contract men have to sweat and bleed for pussy. And once they think theybhave secured it throughout MARRIAGE, they discover that they got screwed by losing all their shit.

They realize that even when the woman get money, he still have to provide, from courting to the familly. He realize that some of the independent college women will mix her debt into his accounts. He realize that when he tenss to pick women for their beauty / personality they tend to picked them for there resssources.

He realize that women fight for the EASY EQUALITY aka office jobs and not minecoal jobs. He realize that miss independent is reluctant to share the spending, even paying them when she gain way more money.

These men realize that they always have MAN UP no matter how they may suffer and sacrifice.

Hence MGTOW : these men are saying ' IM OUT OF THE GAME. ITS DAMN RIGGED. THE BENEFITS AINT WORTH THE RISKS.

Its not about NBA 2K or else. ITS ABOUT THE SOCIAL CONTRACT BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN.

 

[nex gin]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Number 2 is deflection at best. You're assuming a small portion of men would not accept sex only after marriage after finding their dream woman. Every man surely wouldn't do it, but the whole idea is mere speculation either way.

Adding to that, waiting until after marriage or not has nothing to do with hoism.

Nah, dudes just don't want to own it. You must think that strip clubs exist because women like pole dancing...

Regardless of how y'all feel, it's a man's world.

i do think men ...our community of males are a problem and should lead these women.

i always say it comes back to the men....but right now we talking about womenz.

maybe we need a black man needs to stand up thread. i bet it wont do numbers cause every nigga thinks hes a stand up dude.

kinda like all niggas got custody of there kid

It kinda goes back to what I said in another thread...nobody wants to take accountability for the part they play in fueling a problem. It's always somebody else's fault right. Men create a market for a lot of bullshit them complain when someone supplies the market which they created in the first place. That's really society in general if you think about it. Bullshit....undesireable shit.....certain societal issues/problems/institutions exist because we as humans create it and/or allow it.

 

[jono]

why do you keep saying this?

change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.

these chicks going to college an shit just want options.

if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan

or

if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan

but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.

nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.

how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.

nah lady...its a fly in your soup.

Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own

For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller



Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk

The bolded is part of the problem

You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.

lol

because those things are given ...

while compatibility is most important

why wouldn't an established person want someone who is also equally yoked at the very least? or at least close to it

So after centuries of men being the provider and having to take care of women, women who claim to want an even playing field only want to date a man that make as much or more than them? Basically don't no woman wanna take car of a man. But equality tho right?

But men supposed to wife sluts and 7th babies mommas tho. And dont act like thats not the case with all thus slut shamming bs and excuses for single moms

Date, fuck, marry who u want to...lol

There are women young and old who dont mind marrying and dating down

And the women who insist upon dating and marrying up and subscribe to traditional gender roles may not believe in feminism...that's their prerogative

But more times then not when given the opportunity men and women today marry and date someone of equal or similar yolk ...especially now that women have made big strides in the job force

I'll admit there is a such thing as a "conditional feminist." Women grow up equating a man taking care of them financially with romance and being swept off their feet. And that is what they feel entitled to. Does it make it right? No. It's an inconsistency that needs to be addressed

That said, this idea that for centuries women have just had to sit back and not do shit is bs bruh and just illustrates how womens work is usually devalued. Not to mention for most women, the luxury of being a housewife was never a reality. We had to work too...Yet we were paid less; hired last; fired first; high wage jobs were reserved for men; and denied any positions of authority. Then yes we had to come home where we were expected to be subservient to our husbands, clean, raise the children, care for the old, etc

This has been the story for blk women in america especially. From slavery to the present day. Especially considering blk men have had a harder time finding work or have been historically underemployed and underpaid. Women have had to step up to be the breadwinner. We were really the first women in america to demand equal rights

You know exactly what I meant by that don't even try it. You been in here talking about women marrying down like it's an epidemic when historically men married women who either didn't even have a job or earned less yet it wasn't called "marrying down". See that's what I mean. Women get a little this and that and hop on the tallest horse they can find. You get a degree so you only checking for dudes with PhD's. You make six figures so you only checking for millionaires. The average man out here don't give a fuck about a woman degrees or salary as much as they do her character.

Far as devaluing "womens work" , thank the feminist movement you so passionately align yourself with. It was they who saw raising children as demeaning. It was they who saw taking care of the family home so as to fulfill the role of help mate to a hard working husband as boring and unfulfilling. That's what devalued the contributions of women historically. Women rejecting the very things that were so important to a thriving society. Now look at us. Our children suffer from attention whore mothers who'd rather be half naked on the gram than cook them a good meal and help with homework.

 

[jono]

Y'all saying a lot of ish I agree with, but 3 things...

1. I haven't met all these black feminist that y'all are talking about.

2. Most of what y'all are complaining about is a direct reflection of men.

3. Why does your woman or prospects make more than you?

I can break down #2 until the cows come home.

Example: How many men in here, if they met the woman of his dreams wait on her if she said she was waiting to get married BEFORE she had any kind of sex?

Very few... If you look at that in terms of supply and demand, you have damn near created a market for the acceptance of hoes.

Niggas did ask for it.

Its been a race to the bottom for years now.

Dudes want sex nut barely know the lady.

He sleeps with her but doesn't respect that she gave it up so easily.

But if she made him wait then he's a simp, and feels disrespected.

Niggas wanted hoes that pop pussy for FB and allows herself to be recorded or whatever because it makes her sound "fun" but that's not what he's interested in long term.

So all these "free love" superliberals promoting an oversexed society now have to deal with sagging marriage rates and kids being born out of wedlock.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i honest blame the wanna thug super alpha niggas.

so ready to show the world how much of a man they are when they nothing but overgrown kids.

chicks are tall kids and niggas are overgrown kids.

its all thru this site...no nigga ever lost a fight, everybody rich, everybody got a nice car, everybody fukks dime chicks.

no niggas take loses on here. but none of the chicks hold them accountable until afterwards.

alot of chicks fall the salesman of a nigga an not who the dude truly is.

alot of niggas dont take care of they kids.....they ok with every other weekend cause it wont interfere with they pimpin..and bitch pulling. but when they kid gets honors in high school....these niggas poppin up like ricki bobbys dad like aint shit happen.

niggas aint teaching they lil girls what men are. the father is her first example. but they rather be absentee or barely around an wonder why poppin it at the elementary school is the thing to do...niggas then look at the mom.

nigga wanna have feel good moments when niggas coming home from prison after 10 years...an thats cool.

but a nigga who has he newborn with him....he aint the one thats proven yet. but niggas ok with the jailbird.

why is fukery the rule and making something of yourself the exception?

i understand the whole police thing, bad hood thing, drug epidemic thing. i get all that. but when is it ever ok...to allow a group of niggas to run your hood on fukk nigga rules?

niggas is ass backwards and full of shit an wonder why alot of these chick are fukked up and desire fukked up shit.

everyone is responsible for their own actions.....but there are leaders that stand above them...who rather do fukk shit to lead an have people have fun vs being a real leader.

you either lead your people to the bar or to greatness.

most niggas rather go to the bar and drop $300 on a bitch that aint got no daddy cause she easier to pull with her daddy issues.

man let me stop.

you niggas aint ready for me to go in