deadeye;c-10087825 said:blackrain;c-10087644 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10087607 said:blackrain;c-10087590 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10087574 said:blackrain;c-10087561 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10087436 said:blakfyahking;c-10087417 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10087390 said:LordZuko;c-10086867 said:deadeye;c-10086860 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10086254 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10086208 said:why do you keep saying this?
change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.
these chicks going to college an shit just want options.
if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan
or
if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan
but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.
nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.
how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.
nah lady...its a fly in your soup.
Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own
For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller
Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk
The bolded is part of the problem
You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.
Don't set yourself up like that. Those are character traits. Numerous studies and dating coaches have revealed that Black women in particular do not consider character or principles when considering a partner. First they consider his fashion, then anatomy then his sexual performance then his finances. But fashion sort of clues them in on fashion. If he spends money on high end clothes for himself it indicates his financial level, but also that he'll do the same for her.
shit this is far from the truth in my case.....wife got all this high priced shit an i wear $40 sneakers.
@blakfiya
LOL SMH but who's fault is that at the bolded, if u really the leader in ur house as a man is allegedly supposed to be?
lemme find out it's really ur wife who makes all the money in ur house......that would make sense that u would be nothing more than just a dependent on her taxes
or are u just admitting to us all that u just a simp of the highest degree? grow some balls and man up my nigga, don't let wifey play u like that :joy:
she secured her position by holding me down. so shoes and shit dont mean nothing to me..its when it mattered that she stood tall next to me that matters. if that whats she asks for ....she deserves it.
you need to man up an give a nigga credit. you still want to try to prove i aint got what i say even tho its been proven for years. you the only nigga focused on that.
gotta let it go bruh.
an what man would not give his wife the world if he could?
you bitter for nothing
@ the bold...look at the name of the group in the thread title...
true but would those women deserve it? its one thing to be entitled and another to deserve and earn the right to ask for whatever.
the women being mentioned in this thread are entitled, self serving and selfish.
they want to take it all without struggle or sacrifice and give nothing back...because thats what a man should do.
From what I'm reading in here there is no distinction between women who deserve it and women who feel entitled. It's just "women"
there is a clear distinction.
its just the percentages of women who are feeling entitled are going up at a rate that it shouldnt nor is it sustainable.
im just glad i lucked up.
but still .....the girlfriends an shit....them hoes be tripping.
People in general feel entitled to shit they shouldn't have. It's a bunch of niggas who don't make progress in shit but MyPlayer on NBA2k talking about what they "deserve" from a woman. Ain't shit people will always exist as they always have. I'm also of the belief that if you constantly coming across people who you deem to be not worth a shit then you need to reevaluate the people you surround yourself with as well.
You can't keep blaming everyone else and not also do some self reflection about why you may end up in the same types of situations over and over again
Ironically, it can be argued that the bolded is exactly what's behind the MGTOW movement.
They see how the game is rigged, so they stop playing the game.
Granted, they do seem to be blaming women.........but they're also blaming themselves for falling for the bullshit as well.
So by........"going their own way"...........they're actually taking responsibility for their past mistakes by embracing a philosophy/mentality that'll help prevent them from making those same mistakes again.
How is the game rigged... When men created the game?
Men can't go their own way without absolving themselves of their leadership responsibilities...aka a piece of their manhood.
Y'all keep maxing out the stats in 2K though...
Women are complaining about equal pay, but y'all are complaining about women making too much money... What does that tell you...