aneed123;c-10108647 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10108613 said:aneed123;c-10107775 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10107456 said:sunlord;c-10106531 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10105360 said:sunlord;c-10102940 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10102751 said:sunlord;c-10102465 said:lol silly girl as a general rule men don't date down we fuck down No man really wants an emotionally unstable woman but we will have sex with one.
Younger women generally look better that's why many men prefer them...... also no man wants an old haggard bitch with a 100000 miles on her pussy.
Lol
Boy bye
See it every day
Looks are important yes
But there are a lot of men who like having the advantage when dating -whether it be financial, personality-based, or looks-wise
Rather then date the young girl with looks and drive they go after the young irresponsible girl with looks who needs saving... Who will put up with bullshit when her light bill needs to be paid
I know men who have a lot to offer a woman but prefer not to date 10s because they are "trouble"...aka they are intimidated by her looks... scared they can't keep her attention when they know other niggas are going to be getting at her
Theres the rkellys of the world who like young women not because of their looks but because they are easier to control
Or they prey on the women who are insecure or traditionally unattractive because they are "more grateful" , "less work"
Yall not just these simple creatures yall like to pretend to be
And its not always about control ...men in general like to feel needed
First of all r.kelly really wants girls not legal age women so leave him out of this
Those men you know that are intimidated by 'LOOKS" really just don't want to deal with all the possible personality flaws usually come with 10"S and has nothing to do with them wanting to be with a girl who need saving. if those men can find a young woman that is a 10 and doesn't have those flaws they will 90% of the time prefer her over an older woman that has hit the wall.
The only men who want women who need saving are " captain save a hoes" and other men despise these kinds of men because they are insecure weaklings
You and your girlfriends are probably guilty of doing what you accuse men of doing, you go after these weak insecure niggas of all stripes because you know that NO stable and mentally secure man will put up with your liberated woman feminist bullshit
women are guilty of there own shit
but there are lot of "captain save a hoes" out here
sometimes its just about the circles they run in and proximity...maybe its even just chemistry
but let's not act like the appeals of dating dating down goes beyond looks for a lot of men
my overall point being men, like women, struggle with insecurity, can be manipulative, can be exploitative, are self sabotaging, etc
*shrugs*
MEN don't date down we don't conceive of it that way. YOU are filtering your perspective through a female lens and apply the "up" or "down" hypergamous females instincts to male dating.
WHEN seriously looking for a mate no man looks around and says " let me find the most fucked up woman I can find so that I can control her" Why??? BECAUSE no matter the who is chosen MEN expect to be the heads of their households and leaders. SO my girlfriend could have a million and one degrees or she could be a check cashing girls it would make no difference to how I expect to be treated.
call it what u want
but dating someone who is substantially younger than you, earns less than you, less cultured, less read, etc that's traditionally referred to as dating down ....
the unwritten expectation is that the partner who dates up will adopt the values, tastes, ideologies of the person they are dating (most evident in class discrepancies)
that said, my point still stands. a lot of times ppl "date down" because it is easier to find someone, and also easier to keep them and get them to do what you want opposed to someone you are at least equally yoked
see the mail-order bride industry ....you even have some men flocking to poor countries like brazil looking for a wife...that is no coincidence. what is one of if not their main complaint? women in america don't know how to be submissive and treat a man...
..this isn't a novel idea...and I'm not trying to argue most men are out here seeking the most fucked up woman to take advantage of as some general rule
i don't even think at times its not about wanting to dominate over a person, but a way to cope/mitigate the risks and uncertainty that comes with relationships and life in general. or they could just be in love with how that person makes them feel, which isn't necessarily a bad thing
yes historically for men it was done out of necessity. but let's acknowledge how once women were systematically kept dependent upon a man's labor which justified in the eyes of many a man being head of house hold. and let's also acknowledge today traditionalism is no longer a necessity and less attractive for many women. we can, and have, and are, working like men and supporting ourselves.
no men dont care bout her job cultured etc... we care bout if she look good and is she down to earth and a good person.. the other shit u named is what career women use to choose men... not nan nigga ever said oh she cool cute and nice but i cant date her cuz we not equally yoked.
lol
so you speaking for all men now?
but yes historically a man had the privilege of never having to worry about these things
today that shit will get u burned
this is why men so frustrated honestly
Men are frustrated because they think it's one way but really....