Marriage: Is Marriage For White People?

[ohhhla]

Marriage is for dumb people.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

from what i have seen growing up,

women in college require a man to have more and to support them while they save and continue college. while the man is off trying to get money to keep said woman. but in the long run the woman gets the degree and nice career and leaves the man behind because he aint shit now. he served his purpose to help feed and clothe her.

now this new career woman wants a man with even more again to support her new level of lifestyle and only has two choices if she doesnt want to bottom feed. either she goes to a interracial relationship or she chases the black man who has what she wants and he treats her like shit because hes not stupid and knows what shes after and the type chick she is.

to sum it up, alot of these women dont know what a wife is because they all used their pussy and looks to get ahead or at least make it easier for them to get to their goal.once their pussy is no longer priority they are stuck, sleeping alone with the accomplishments of their career and no idea how to keep a man.

as for the dudes,..nigga always want to best looking light skinned chick in the room. no matter what nasty stank attitude she displays. she got a phat ass so they wanna go raw. only to find out everyone else went raw and now they catch feelings. then think every other chick is a hoe because of who they choose to chase. they only try to attract chicks using flash. making it rain then wife a stripper who chases money but gets mad when she goes to the next highest bidder.

maybe just maybe too many people are trapped in this type thinking and thats why marraige is dropping off.

i have other examples but fukk it...

 

[blackrain]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

To add on to this; the penalties of marriage outweighs most of positives and custody of kids defers to the mother 90% and thus child support. If you can't pay the child support then you may lose your freedom. So co-habitation in 2014 seems very appealing to most men.

That's not a penalty of marriage that's a consequence of divorce. Big difference. Also if you co habitats long enough common law marriage rules go into effect

 

[_Goldie_]

from what i have seen growing up,

women in college require a man to have more and to support them while they save and continue college. while the man is off trying to get money to keep said woman. but in the long run the woman gets the degree and nice career and leaves the man behind because he aint shit now. he served his purpose to help feed and clothe her.

now this new career woman wants a man with even more again to support her new level of lifestyle and only has two choices if she doesnt want to bottom feed. either she goes to a interracial relationship or she chases the black man who has what she wants and he treats her like shit because hes not stupid and knows what shes after and the type chick she is.

to sum it up, alot of these women dont know what a wife is because they all used their pussy and looks to get ahead or at least make it easier for them to get to their goal.once their pussy is no longer priority they are stuck, sleeping alone with the accomplishments of their career and no idea how to keep a man.

as for the dudes,..nigga always want to best looking light skinned chick in the room. no matter what nasty stank attitude she displays. she got a phat ass so they wanna go raw. only to find out everyone else went raw and now they catch feelings. then think every other chick is a hoe because of who they choose to chase. they only try to attract chicks using flash. making it rain then wife a stripper who chases money but gets mad when she goes to the next highest bidder.

maybe just maybe too many people are trapped in this type thinking and thats why marraige is dropping off.

i have other examples but fukk it...

That's the law of attraction 101. You attract what you put out in the atmosphere. If you're using trinkets,cars, etc as bait, all you're going to attract are superficial females. Same goes for the way you articulate the message you put into the atmosphere while conversing. If you're only speaking on what's wrong with brothas and sistas , that's all you're going to get in return. The only true way to build , is to bring solutions to the table. The women I attract are attracted to the mental jewels I give them rather than materials. Most women don't want to work for someone else until they're 50 or 60, they'll rather be at home spending time with their kids. So if you're a brotha such as myself who went into business for myself early or is even remotely into business, show that sista an exit strategy from cooperate amercia. Even if she's not my queen, I show sistas how to parlay what they're doing now into an entrepreneurship. That's a form of security and guidance that women cherish. But it all goes back to what you attract.

 

[Kwan Dai]

No, marriage isn't for Whites. The issue is, Blacks need to define marriage for ourselves. Once again Blacks have adopted the oppressors version and ideas of marriage.

 

[Dupac]

i like comparisons...sometimes it's a swing and a miss, sometimes it's a home run...

i equate marriage to college...you get in what you put in, and it ain't for everybody..

some people do great, some waste a lotta time and money...

self awareness, and being honest and true enough to oneself to know if this lifestyle is for you.....don't go through with some shit because it seems like the thing to do...or because of appearances for others...do what's right for you....

marriage takes a lot more than a nice wedding, and two people who love each other....cuz if those two people don't know how to work as a unit, and are both willing to put their spouses needs ahead of their own, it's going to be really tough to make a marriage work

people this day and age have a serious problem with submission, and if you're not willing to expose your vulnerabilities to someone, go 100% on trust, honesty, & communication.....

the shit really ain't for you

just my opinion

 

[LUClEN]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

The benefits aren't the same but there still are social benefits

Insurance is cheaper for married people

It makes keeping wealth within the family easier

Couples typically pay less taxes

And many jobs in the private sector will actually see a married man as a more likely candidate for a promotion than an unwed one

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

This needs more attention.

 

[MARIO_DRO]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

WOMEN SAY THAT SHYT.. BUT TRUST, ITS A LIE..

THE THING IS...BEING INDEPENDENT IS/WAS A TREND!

NO CHICK WANTS TO HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING FOR THEMSELEVES

THEY DONT WANT TO DATE EVERY WEEK TO FIND THAT "RIGHT GUY"

THEY WANT A DUDE THAT THEY CAN DEPEND ON AND HAVE THEIR BACKS IN TIME OF NEED.

AND IF THEY CHOSE TO CHILL AND FALL BACK FOR A MOMENT, THEY HAVE A MAN THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF THE BOTH OF THEM...

 

[Kwan Dai]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

My marriage is structured like this.

To many Men put themselves in a position to be valued only as an ATM. There has to be more to man then how deep his pockets go. But in this age where we see simps throwing many at broads 24/7 it's to be expected.

 

[blackrain]

i like comparisons...sometimes it's a swing and a miss, sometimes it's a home run...

i equate marriage to college...you get in what you put in, and it ain't for everybody..

some people do great, some waste a lotta time and money...

self awareness, and being honest and true enough to oneself to know if this lifestyle if for you.....don't go through with some shit because it seems like the thing to do...or because of appearances for others...do what's right for you....

marriage takes a lot more than a nice wedding, and two people who love each other....cuz if those two people don't know how to work as a unit, and are both willing to put their spouses needs ahead for their own, it's going to be really tough to make a marriage work

people this day and age have a serious problem with submission, and if you're not willing to expose your vulnerabilities to someone, go 1005 on trust, honesty, & communication.....

the shit really ain't for you

just my opinion

Some people are too selfish to be married. There's nothing wrong with that at all but more people need to be honest with themselves about what their own capabilities are in terms of sustaining a relationship instead of being the person who lashes out at relationships overall because all yours fail. Its funny the way in which people complain about their dating experiences reveal a lot about their own fault in why those things failed

 

[Dupac]

i like comparisons...sometimes it's a swing and a miss, sometimes it's a home run...

i equate marriage to college...you get in what you put in, and it ain't for everybody..

some people do great, some waste a lotta time and money...

self awareness, and being honest and true enough to oneself to know if this lifestyle if for you.....don't go through with some shit because it seems like the thing to do...or because of appearances for others...do what's right for you....

marriage takes a lot more than a nice wedding, and two people who love each other....cuz if those two people don't know how to work as a unit, and are both willing to put their spouses needs ahead for their own, it's going to be really tough to make a marriage work

people this day and age have a serious problem with submission, and if you're not willing to expose your vulnerabilities to someone, go 1005 on trust, honesty, & communication.....

the shit really ain't for you

just my opinion

Some people are too selfish to be married. There's nothing wrong with that at all but more people need to be honest with themselves about what their own capabilities are in terms of sustaining a relationship instead of being the person who lashes out at relationships overall because all yours fail. Its funny the way in which people complain about their dating experiences reveal a lot about their own fault in why those things failed

i feel 100% the same way bruh

 

[count remy]

smh.. are people buying this, bull shit? I don't know where to start on how ridiculous this is. Maybe i'll let the Authors own words fuck over this whole book...

....As particular as this inquiry may seem, it is also universal. Americans of all races are more unmarried now than ever. And as women surpass men educationally, wives increasingly earn more than their husbands.....

uh oh!!!!! there's another gem in there too. You potty mouth princesses got some explaining to do about income equality!!!! Somebody lyin!! The agenda here is more than obvious... people have to be able to see this. You can't really believe that everything wrong with this country is the fault of one group of people...

 

[BEAM]

.. Too many Men put themselves in a position to be valued only as an ATM. There has to be more to man then how deep his pockets go ..

This has always been the case.

Supposedly women don't "rely" on or "need" us anymore; But really all that means is that less women are looking to men for manual labor, financial support, etc, which is actually a good thing.. Men have always been raised / encouraged to be "providers," equating their worth to quite literally what they can do for their woman / family, task-wise.

We're people, not task-laborors, not robots, not ATMs, etc to be "depended on" in such a literal sense, but unfortunately that's what men have always taken pride in.. Being a checklist, or a machine.. Meanwhile emotion, introspection, free spiritedness, creativity, and even free time have been devalued by not only men, but the workforce, because niggas end up less like drones, and more like real people..

Efficiency is great, but at the end of the day "men" are still human beings with an enormous range of potential, personality, emotion, and thus can be enjoyed and not just valued..

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i like comparisons...sometimes it's a swing and a miss, sometimes it's a home run...

i equate marriage to college...you get in what you put in, and it ain't for everybody..

some people do great, some waste a lotta time and money...

self awareness, and being honest and true enough to oneself to know if this lifestyle is for you.....don't go through with some shit because it seems like the thing to do...or because of appearances for others...do what's right for you....

marriage takes a lot more than a nice wedding, and two people who love each other....cuz if those two people don't know how to work as a unit, and are both willing to put their spouses needs ahead of their own, it's going to be really tough to make a marriage work

people this day and age have a serious problem with submission, and if you're not willing to expose your vulnerabilities to someone, go 100% on trust, honesty, & communication.....

the shit really ain't for you

just my opinion

this is all that needed to be said.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

WOMEN SAY THAT SHYT.. BUT TRUST, ITS A LIE..

THE THING IS...BEING INDEPENDENT IS/WAS A TREND!

NO CHICK WANTS TO HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING FOR THEMSELEVES

THEY DONT WANT TO DATE EVERY WEEK TO FIND THAT "RIGHT GUY"

THEY WANT A DUDE THAT THEY CAN DEPEND ON AND HAVE THEIR BACKS IN TIME OF NEED.

AND IF THEY CHOSE TO CHILL AND FALL BACK FOR A MOMENT, THEY HAVE A MAN THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF THE BOTH OF THEM...

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

WOMEN SAY THAT SHYT.. BUT TRUST, ITS A LIE..

THE THING IS...BEING INDEPENDENT IS/WAS A TREND!

NO CHICK WANTS TO HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING FOR THEMSELEVES

THEY DONT WANT TO DATE EVERY WEEK TO FIND THAT "RIGHT GUY"

THEY WANT A DUDE THAT THEY CAN DEPEND ON AND HAVE THEIR BACKS IN TIME OF NEED.

AND IF THEY CHOSE TO CHILL AND FALL BACK FOR A MOMENT, THEY HAVE A MAN THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF THE BOTH OF THEM...

they want the guarantee while being a hoe. and hope the gurantee doesnt find out an leave her ass.

why do you think so many woman like the movie pretty woman?

they want to be able to be a hoe yet looked at like a regular woman and be taken care of an not have their history devalue who they really are

 

[2stepz_ahead]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

My marriage is structured like this.

To many Men put themselves in a position to be valued only as an ATM. There has to be more to man then how deep his pockets go. But in this age where we see simps throwing many at broads 24/7 it's to be expected.

i am some what guilty of this...at least im honest

 

[BEAM]

.. they want to be able to be a hoe yet looked at like a regular woman and be taken care of an not have their history devalue who they really are ..

Fam, let's not start that today.

A person's sexual history / liberation isn't what qualifies "who they really are." If that was the case, many of these niggas that are being expected to take care of femmes are no better than the "hoes" they may or may not end up with..

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

.. Too many Men put themselves in a position to be valued only as an ATM. There has to be more to man then how deep his pockets go ..

This has always been the case.

Supposedly women don't "rely" on or "need" us anymore; But really all that means is that less women are looking to men for manual labor, financial support, etc, which is actually a good thing.. Men have always been raised / encouraged to be "providers," equating their worth to quite literally what they can do for their woman / family, task-wise.

We're people, not task-laborors, not robots, not ATMs, etc to be "depended on" in such a literal sense, but unfortunately that's what men have always taken pride in.. Being a checklist, or a machine.. Meanwhile emotion, introspection, free spiritedness, creativity, and even free time have been devalued by not only men, but the workforce, because niggas end up less like drones, and more like real people..

Efficiency is great, but at the end of the day "men" are still human beings with an enormous range of potential, personality, emotion, and thus can be enjoyed and not just valued..

Ok, this sound like some "we are the world" type shit.

Even if, this is more idealistic than reality.

 

[zombie]

The concept of marrying down is fucking stupid.

marriage numbers are low all across the nation because marriage no longer has as much benefit for men as it used to

their is no social benefit to it. women no longer look up to men or respect manhood the way they used to and it works the other way around also.

they don't rely on us, they don't need us in 2014 some women are quick to say they don't need a man so then why the fuck should men go out of our way to marry you?? and because the laws are anti-male by marrying you we put ourselves at monetary risk. I will get married... have the ceremony and live with a woman as a husband but i won't ever sign any legal documents

The benefits aren't the same but there still are social benefits

Insurance is cheaper for married people

It makes keeping wealth within the family easier

Couples typically pay less taxes

And many jobs in the private sector will actually see a married man as a more likely candidate for a promotion than an unwed one

That's next to nothing ESPECIALLY for a man in my financial situation.

My children, father and brothers will inherit any wealth if i die.

if i need to pay less taxes i can call my lawyer or financial consultant.

i am self employed so i won't be getting promoted by anyone and even if that were not the case i would desire to get promoted on my own merit not because i have a wife,