Lets keep it 1-thiggity: Chicks with low self esteem are literally the best kind

[YC11]

You two are not getting what I'm getting at. When I say strong women, men like to associate that with those loud-mouthed, egotistical, finger snapping, "I'm a STRONG INDEPENDENT women" ghetto bitches.

No.

Once again, we may differ in arguments, because I don't know what LEVEL of insecurity or low self esteem we are talking about in terms of these women. But I'm just going from experience that I've had with a chick like that.

Everybody is different, so whatever floats your boat, first off. Insecurity does NOT mean the girl will not cheat on you or go off with somebody else. Get it straight. Infidelity has got shit to do whether you are a "strong" or "weak" women, that's whole another issue.

Me personally I don't want an insecure chick because I AM NOT insecure with myself. You want someone that's on your playing field. When it comes to finding a mate, or finding a marriage material chick, it's gotta be someone you see eye to eye with and has the ability to have your back and be your crutch. Now, I am not saying an insecure chick can not do that, of course they can, but for me in terms of image, I want someone that gives off the same aura and vibe that I exude. Insecure chicks tend to act certain way.... again, we are ALL insecure, but from the sounds of it, you are speaking of those oddball chicks, I can't deal with that.

 

[YC11]

Just to add a point... a "strong" women with no insecurity CAN and WILL consider you a centre of universe if you show the worth. Again, this smells like aim low thread to me. Anyhow this is birds of the same feather flock together shit.

 

[_Lefty]

I don't want a bitch that need me, I want a bitch that want me. Plus weak bitches is weak, how we gonna be strong when you weak? Na, i'm cool, weak niggas chase weak bitches. I want a thorobread.

Whats the difference between Wanting you & Needing you. That literally doesnt make any sense. Do u even have a chick now, have u ever even had the type at the center of discussion?

And whats a thorobread? Im lost, help me. Becuz Im 25, im a little too old to be chasing females. Shes either down or shes not. I have no time to base my life around a chick who doesnt have me at the center of her universe

Nigga you 25 talkin like you 15. Like you just learnin about life. If she want you, she can leave you, and retain her self value. If she need you, you'll leave and all of her value goes with you. I got a chick now, been with her for 5+ years. I fucked the type at the center of the discussion, and that's all they was gettin from me. Most chicks like that give it up the first night, because they want to feel loved, that daddy issue bullshit or whatever. If she is that type, then she ain't searchin for you, she searchin for validation. If that's the case, if I can make her feel better than you can, i'd easily fuck ya bitch buddy. A thorobread is a chick that hold it down whenever, however she need to, she don't need a nigga, but she play her role because she understands synergy. The difference between what you want, and what I HAVE is my lady put me at the center because she want me there. You'll tell a bitch how much you love her and buy a pair of jordans and she'll put you there....til the next nigga buy her a car. Get ya shit together nephew or you'll get ya feelings hurt.

 

[nex gin]

Naw....them bishes be having way too many problems playboi. Trust me, chicks w/ low self esteem are not worth the trouble. And don't let the chick be fine too...smh.

Fine chick + low self esteem == Drama ^ 100

Not necessarily. Ive met plenty of down to earth females who had insecurity and esteem issues and they turned out to be the ones i wished i woulda saved in the long run

I've met plenty of down to earth females w/ self esteem issues too. However, they were cool ass chicks w/ a shit load of baggage & emotional instability. I don't care how fine, how intelligent, how talented, etc they were...their perception of themselves/insecurities >>> reality. If you are willing to deal w/ 1 or more of the following...then by all means cuff you a gal w/ lse.

- jealous

- depressed

- catty

- crazy

- paranoid

- self conscious

- mentally weak

- clingy

- suicidal

- substance abusers

- promiscuous

- overly complacent

- needy/attention whore

Not saying all girls w/ lse have ALL of those issues...but I've had enough experiences w/ them to write a novel. I have yet to meet one who was a keeper. I'll pass.

So since NONE of them worked out for u. Dont u think u should take another look in the mirror before u get with the next chick? Issues or not

Don't make assumptions b. The majority of them were good friends, associates or no-strings-attached flings. I have one ex who had self esteem issues, and that's the reason why she's an ex. Only issue I have is that I have a low tolerance for people w/ mental & personal issues. I have even less patience for weak minded people. If that's what you're in to, then more power to you. Do you fammo. All that says to me is that you would rather have a bish you can easily control/manipulate versus having a strong woman/partner on your team.

 

[MoneyLuver]

Yall sound like some bitchmade ass niggas foreal foreal. "Oh im a sucker for love ass niggas" foreal foreal.

A woman with ANY type of value will be her Man's doormat and will lay there with Pride. She should be held in high regard at all times, tho this is found out later on in life thru trial & error

Yall are trying to defend your own insecurities and short comings becuz the lady in your life is raised on a pedastal which is higher than your own. I want my woman to be my queen i want the best for my bird. But my significant other (if that be the case) will not rule over Me, will not ALWAYS have the final say even if she has the final word, and she will not consider herself at anytime better than Me even if she slips up out of her mouth

 

[nex gin]

Yall sound like some bitchmade ass niggas foreal foreal. "Oh im a sucker for love ass niggas" foreal foreal.

A woman with ANY type of value will be her Man's doormat and will lay there with Pride. She should be held in high regard at all times, tho this is found out later on in life thru trial & error

Yall are trying to defend your own insecurities and short comings becuz the lady in your life is raised on a pedastal which is higher than your own. I want my woman to be my queen i want the best for my bird. But my significant other (if that be the case) will not rule over Me, will not ALWAYS have the final say even if she has the final word, and she will not consider herself at anytime better than Me even if she slips up out of her mouth

lmmfao....you are officially trolling now b. Good luck w/ that.

 

[YC11]

Yall are trying to defend your own insecurities and short comings becuz the lady in your life is raised on a pedastal which is higher than your own. I want my woman to be my queen i want the best for my bird. But my significant other (if that be the case) will not rule over Me, will not ALWAYS have the final say even if she has the final word, and she will not consider herself at anytime better than Me even if she slips up out of her mouth

Lmao. Just cause a woman knows her value don't mean she will "rule over" me.

You are not getting the point here. The fact that you think you must have an insecure bitch so she knows her "place" and don't rule over YOU proves the point of this thread, where it stems from. That just means you think they are easy to manipulate and control.

I don't want a woman that's easy to manipulate and control, that DOES NOT MEAN I want a woman that will control me and act like the man of the house, I want a woman that's strong but KNOWS HER PLACE in partnership.

It's called equal partnership, but that don't mean she's out there playing man's role, she can get her own money, she can do her own thing, but she damn well better know how to play her role and be that woman that makes a man feel like man. Woman do not need to be INSECURE to make a man feel like man, especially if that man's got his shit together.

 

[MoneyLuver]

All that says to me is that you would rather have a bish you can easily control/manipulate versus having a strong woman/partner on your team.

Yes thats what i do in fact want. Thats what i crave for, thats what i desire.

I have Ex's who were like that and theyre Ex's do to my own immaturity - for the most part.

These women with Mental & Emotional issues that u speak of I am not aware of. I may have met them but i am not attracted to them for one reason or another. Whether it be looks or attitude

 

[MoneyLuver]

No. They are also jealous-hearted and clingy two of the worst attributes a woman can have.

and they're obsessively self conscious...if you think you can wife that..you aint never been married

So u divorced an insecure woman with low self esteem and insecurities?

Becuz every chick will get in her feelings about something. Every man will too. Have u been bitchmade about something lately?

Nah im married bruh..and with what you have to deal wit on a daily basis..that insecure shit would run thin quick as fuck...ever had a friend and dude lost his girl or something.,.the nigga sad for a minute, but after a while its like damn nigga get over that shit..shits getting on your nerves...just wanna tell that nigga to man up..now you probably round that nigga 1-3 hours every other day..if that ...your going to be round your wife 6-7 hours every fucking day

I dont know of any chick that dwells on shit like that and i never have. It sounds too literal, it sounds like youre trolling

that shit sounds like marriage b..you musta neva been..you wanna talk bout trollin, some shit i did years go is used as her first line for defense when an argument starts

Thats ALL women tho

Lol. Shit aint never gonna change

 

[MoneyLuver]

These "strong women" yall speak of have trouble finding and keeping Men everyday

Do yall even grasp what yall are talking about?

And im definitely not trolling. Im keeping it real. It kinda sounds like yall wanna go back on your words and restrategize your lives. If u wanna keep it all of tha way 100

 

[1CK1S]

Using words like 1-thiggity & talking about wifing low self esteem women ain't a good way to start off your ic career.

 

[redhandedbandit]

i dont think you grasp it a "strong woman" knows her worth and knows how to play her part

if you play chess the queen is the strongest player in protecting the king

 

[redhandedbandit]

what you consider a "strong woman" is actually a weak woman who has to act a fool to validate her supposed strength

 

[a.mann]

 

[Copper]

I like the way you work it/

No thiggity/

 

[deadeye]

CS the thread premise 100% if the chick is fat.

 

[ReppinTime]

The best for easy and reliable pussy yea but you cant do anything other than that with them. they cant be pleased cause they dont like themselves. and they cant be trusted cause they always looking for something to temporarily fill the emptyness inside them and dick is one of they main tools for doing that. type of bitches that cut your dick off one day.

 

[nex gin]

>>>>>>

 

[S2J]

I cant cosign t/s' grammar and excessive use of z's, but i def see where he gettin at.

Not insecure per say, but humble. That is amazing in a woman.

None of that fat bytch with an attitude.

None of that small town dime but anywhere else she a 7. None of that 'Im not cute but my outfit is so im gon show out'.Thats that shyt i dont like.

Thats why i love goin to South Beach. South Beach humbles bytches b/c theres actual dimes and models and it humbles out of town women. Evrytime i go i meet women from OT (good looking women) and we have great conversation and vibe b/c they dont have that usual pretense. Them hoes be humbled.

 

[MoneyLuver]

i dont think you grasp it a "strong woman" knows her worth and knows how to play her part

if you play chess the queen is the strongest player in protecting the king

what you consider a "strong woman" is actually a weak woman who has to act a fool to validate her supposed strength

U obviously have a daughter or an abused Mother or Sister and ur political correctness is understood, but not validated.

U want the best for them, I get that. But your idea of an insecure female or 1 with low-self esteem is simply Beta-Male.

Your idea of a strong woman and a weak woman, as u call them is incredibly vague. Or better yet, stereotypical

Nobody said that the chick with low-self esteem shouldn't have a brain but why would I want to be with somebody or deal with somebody who isn't wrapped around my finger? Why would i want to have that lifelong challenge where I have a 70% chance of getting a divorce and an 80% chance of catching some type of case? That's not healthy for Me and nor is it sane or sustainable.