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Inglewood_B
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Get full custody. Threat neutralized.
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Elzo69Renaissance
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fam take care of ur child
Elzo69Renaissance;c-10074341 said:fam take care of ur child
I been doing that this chick jst retarded she actually tried to argue with me abt sending her money for my son talkin bout "we don't need your money" (sigh)
Colin$mackabi$h
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TayGettem ;c-10074366 said:Elzo69Renaissance;c-10074341 said:fam take care of ur child
I been doing that this chick jst retarded she actually tried to argue with me abt sending her money for my son talkin bout "we don't need your money" (sigh)
The fuck? who she mean we? I hate that bitch for you
Max.;c-10074462 said:First off we need full story
2nd shes a bird that wants a prison BF
3....get 50/50 custody so u dont have to pay $$$?
Not giving full story cuz it wouldn't fit in o/p and im not abt to let yall roast me into the sunset tellin yall how foul she did me. All imma say is fck dat bitch and stay down for my kids cuz she gonna fall on her face one day but oh well. An i didnt know u didn't have to pay with joint custody good lookin bro
1. Dont give her cash. Check or money order only. If she got a problem with that then save the money. Open an accound just for that and keep record of deposit.
2. If you dont want to pay support the only thing you can do is get physical cusotdy. Thats gone cost and will be an uphill battle. You're going to have to prove shes unfit.
2. If you dont want to pay support the only thing you can do is get physical cusotdy. Thats gone cost and will be an uphill battle. You're going to have to prove shes unfit.
TayGettem ;d-562398 said:Wassup y'all ain't made a thread in a while ain't been on in a while to. Anyway i been dealing with shit in life and well i might as well talk abt it.
Anyway me and my bm are no longer together. We broke up in March and she left me for another dude. But im not going to get into that messy business, this is more so focused on my kid. I'm in his life and want to continue to do so but things have become strained between me and my bm. (While her current bf was locked up me and her started fckin again which ended in disaster but thats for another story)
Any who seeing my kid has become difficult starting as of Saturday. She took my son to her boyfriends house (she had been taking my kid over there without telling me when i didn't even know she had a nigga, she was seein me and him i found out we got into it she left me for him) but anyway i was suppoused to get my son Saturday night cuz she tells me she's coming home that night. So i pull up to her mama crib and told her momma what she said, her momma tell me my bm told her she was coming home sunday......so i hit her line multiple times getting no answer and around 10pm she jst straight up turns her phone off. Now she know i had plans for me and my son sunday this bitch don't turn her phone bck on till 4pm sunday and don't come home till 9pm that night.
She i go to spazzin and she all like "i aint have no way bck blah blah blah"....(why da hell she at his house with no way bck anyway df)
But anyway yesterday i was thinkin bout filing for joint custody which requires a dna test....which means they automatically gonna put me on Child Support maaaaan i aint tryin to pay dis bum ass bitch no 300 or 400 a month when i jst wanna be in my kid life. Ain't child support suppoused to be for dead beat dads not niggas who got a trifflin bm. Im jst wondering have any of yall had this experience, know somebody who going through this, and if theres a way i can get joint custody of my son without getting put on child support cuz she don't got a job so im the one getting my kid his shit anyway.
Bruh, go ahead and get that DNA test.
If it turns out you're not the father, that might be your ticket to avoiding child support.
mryounggun
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Max.;c-10074462 said:First off we need full story
2nd shes a bird that wants a prison BF
3....get 50/50 custody so u dont have to pay $$$?
^^^^I'm thinking pretty similar shit. But I'll leave that shit alone. Got one serious question, though.
Have you actually tried talking to her and working out joint 50/50 custody with her?
Overtime this kind of shit is brought up on the IC, it seems like when the breakup happens, it's automatically assumed without any discussion that the kid is going to be with mom and dad will have weekends or visitation or whatever the fuck. And I never really understand why that's the default.
Me and my son's mom literally never had a conversation at all about custody when we broke up. She already knew it was gonna be 50/50 and so did I. Only thing we had to talk about was the actual logistics. I feel like ANYTIME two people break up, 50/50 should be the default. Ideally, that removes the need for any sort of support from either side.
So have you tried to arrange that with her? If so, what was the outcome?
Hevalisk;c-10074535 said:I thought you didn't have to pay cs if you get joint custody
*google*
wtf, this shit is confusing.
Naw 50/50 doesn't automatically equal no support. You still gotta factor in income and the actual amount of overnights spent with each parent.Thats where the money comes in at. Then there's medical expenses, child care etc.
MoneyPowerRespect
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Well...as a mom, if I'm tryna lay up, I'm tryna be kid free too. Don't know why chics like playing house with a nigga that's not the daddy but to answer your question...
In TN, child support and visitation are two separate things. Ask the clerk in your city.
-keep receipts. Anything bought can be classified as a 'gift'.
-log how much you do/don't see your child.
In TN, child support and visitation are two separate things. Ask the clerk in your city.
-keep receipts. Anything bought can be classified as a 'gift'.
-log how much you do/don't see your child.
ineedpussy
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my uncle got boxes of child support shit if youre really on that shit. he could help you. he aint paid federal taxes in fifteen years cause he got the judge on camera saying he dont have to pay support cause he got it on camera/rcording. if you serious i can hip you to my unc and he can help you. no jokes or troll if youre serious.
DoubleShotHelix
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Get full custody
babelipsss
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If the child is indeed yours then I don't know how you can avoid child support. The kid is alive and can't support himself. Fact.
Stop having sex with your ex. Never again. It's over physically. Co-parent from here on out. If you do have sex then she will have the upper hand. I don't know what else to tell you.
Stop having sex with your ex. Never again. It's over physically. Co-parent from here on out. If you do have sex then she will have the upper hand. I don't know what else to tell you.
blakfyahking
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babelipsss;c-10074674 said:If the child is indeed yours then I don't know how you can avoid child support. The kid is alive and can't support himself. Fact.
Stop having sex with your ex. Never again. It's over physically. Co-parent from here on out. If you do have sex then she will have the upper hand. I don't know what else to tell you.
the bolded is a lie
it's actually to ur benefit to still smash ur ex..........it actually gives u the upper hand unless u just a weak hearted simp type dude
Serious Juice Mayne
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Eat her booty
