Is A Woman Who Dont Want Kids A Deal Breaker?

[zzombie]

The older I get, the more I start to think that's just some shit they tell you you're supposed to do as women. Have a family...have some kids.

I really think my sole purpose is to be rich, and that's it.

what happens when you already have lots of money??? then what ??? you start thinking about what is going to happen to that money after you are gone

Speak for yourself! I do not think about what's gonna happen to anything after I'm gone. I'll be gone and it won't be any of my business.

okay miss barren belly i really don't understand your mentality but whatever it's your life..... but i caution you that you should be careful that after a long life of trying to be rich you still die poor and leave nothing to show you ever existed. If you become a lonely old cat lady I FEEL that would be a tragedy

So the only way to show you ever existed is thru kids???

No but it's the primary way most of us will at least for a while live on.

Unless you are a great artist or general/leader your life will mean nothing to anyone when you die. However if you have children at least your name and memory will live on for a few more generations; now if you actually accomplish something while you are alive and you have children then your name and legacy may live on for much much longer because the name itself attains a life of it's own. For me personally the bold is one of my overall major goal in this life

You talking like people without kids still don't have families. Like they're without brothers sisters cousins aunts uncles etc who will remeber them. You saying unless some one has kids nobody else in their family will remember them or their life won't mean anything to their family?

brother and sisters don't revere you or follow in your footsteps the same way your children are far more likely to do the thing about children is that you are literally MAKING THEM PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY but you don't make your brothers mind.

 

[farris2k1]

I dont know why people on here get mad about this. It dont really happen in real life. Everybody aint going to do the same thing. Everybody isnt going to have kids. Everybody doesnt want too. Its always been like that. Its not feasible for everybody to have kids. It dont hurt you so whats the problem? There is none. I have no idea where the feelings about the next person thinking it through. Its all preference and individual situations. Its all good from my perspective.

Just cause you think a certain way and want certain things dont mean you have to get all emotional and start calling people who feel differently names like a child. Shts pitiful. There are people who dont wanna be like you. Do you have a nice day mind your own and all that.

nah fuck that live and let live pussy way of thinking. i believe it is the correct thing to pressure people into your way of thinking and if they cannot be pressured then the next best thing to do is to make them look like suckers/defective in the minds of others..... this is how ideas spread and how people and ideologies have a subtle and unconscious influence on society.

Nigga it aint that deep, if ppl dont want kids then theres not a damn thing wrong with that, nor does it say anything about how they really are or watever, they just dont want no fuckin kids

 

[blackrain]

I dont know why people on here get mad about this. It dont really happen in real life. Everybody aint going to do the same thing. Everybody isnt going to have kids. Everybody doesnt want too. Its always been like that. Its not feasible for everybody to have kids. It dont hurt you so whats the problem? There is none. I have no idea where the feelings about the next person thinking it through. Its all preference and individual situations. Its all good from my perspective.

Just cause you think a certain way and want certain things dont mean you have to get all emotional and start calling people who feel differently names like a child. Shts pitiful. There are people who dont wanna be like you. Do you have a nice day mind your own and all that.

nah fuck that live and let live pussy way of thinking. i believe it is the correct thing to pressure people into your way of thinking and if they cannot be pressured then the next best thing to do is to make them look like suckers/defective in the minds of others..... this is how ideas spread and how people and ideologies have a subtle and unconscious influence on society.

Forcing somebody to think like you do has adverse affects. There's actual studies done on that

 

[zzombie]

Most people don't even know the names of their great grandparents. "Legacy" means nothing. Nobody aside from the very best and worst will ever be remembered. Plus in 500 million years the sun is going to burn out and nobody will be remembered anyways.

I do.

the reason why most people don't know their ancestors is because most peoples forefathers never understood this concept of "legacy" and so never passed it down to their children. REVERENCE for your ancestry is not an ideal in modern society anymore at lest not among poor and regular people.... which is believe is why they are poor and regular but the more money i get and the more rich people i meet the more i realize that for most of them family/bloodline/legacy mean something it's the way they continue and grow their power.

 

[zzombie]

I dont know why people on here get mad about this. It dont really happen in real life. Everybody aint going to do the same thing. Everybody isnt going to have kids. Everybody doesnt want too. Its always been like that. Its not feasible for everybody to have kids. It dont hurt you so whats the problem? There is none. I have no idea where the feelings about the next person thinking it through. Its all preference and individual situations. Its all good from my perspective.

Just cause you think a certain way and want certain things dont mean you have to get all emotional and start calling people who feel differently names like a child. Shts pitiful. There are people who dont wanna be like you. Do you have a nice day mind your own and all that.

nah fuck that live and let live pussy way of thinking. i believe it is the correct thing to pressure people into your way of thinking and if they cannot be pressured then the next best thing to do is to make them look like suckers/defective in the minds of others..... this is how ideas spread and how people and ideologies have a subtle and unconscious influence on society.

Forcing somebody to think like you do has adverse affects. There's actual studies done on that

that's why you do it slowly in a subtle manner so that they don't realize it. You exert just enough influence on your children so that they adopt the best of your traits and hopefully none of your bad. I AM NOT trying to recreate myself i hope to create zombie 2.0 the next evolution

 

[farris2k1]

I dont know why people on here get mad about this. It dont really happen in real life. Everybody aint going to do the same thing. Everybody isnt going to have kids. Everybody doesnt want too. Its always been like that. Its not feasible for everybody to have kids. It dont hurt you so whats the problem? There is none. I have no idea where the feelings about the next person thinking it through. Its all preference and individual situations. Its all good from my perspective.

Just cause you think a certain way and want certain things dont mean you have to get all emotional and start calling people who feel differently names like a child. Shts pitiful. There are people who dont wanna be like you. Do you have a nice day mind your own and all that.

nah fuck that live and let live pussy way of thinking. i believe it is the correct thing to pressure people into your way of thinking and if they cannot be pressured then the next best thing to do is to make them look like suckers/defective in the minds of others..... this is how ideas spread and how people and ideologies have a subtle and unconscious influence on society.

Forcing somebody to think like you do has adverse affects. There's actual studies done on that

One of the main reasons racism is still alive, that bullshit is taught

 

[zzombie]

I dont know why people on here get mad about this. It dont really happen in real life. Everybody aint going to do the same thing. Everybody isnt going to have kids. Everybody doesnt want too. Its always been like that. Its not feasible for everybody to have kids. It dont hurt you so whats the problem? There is none. I have no idea where the feelings about the next person thinking it through. Its all preference and individual situations. Its all good from my perspective.

Just cause you think a certain way and want certain things dont mean you have to get all emotional and start calling people who feel differently names like a child. Shts pitiful. There are people who dont wanna be like you. Do you have a nice day mind your own and all that.

nah fuck that live and let live pussy way of thinking. i believe it is the correct thing to pressure people into your way of thinking and if they cannot be pressured then the next best thing to do is to make them look like suckers/defective in the minds of others..... this is how ideas spread and how people and ideologies have a subtle and unconscious influence on society.

Nigga it aint that deep, if ppl dont want kids then theres not a damn thing wrong with that, nor does it say anything about how they really are or watever, they just dont want no fuckin kids

It says alot about them, listen one of the most important things i've learned in business is how to evaluate someone so that i really know who i am dealing with..... the best way to evaluate someone is to look at what they love and why??? WHEN you tell me you don't want children and why that tells me everything i need to know about you.

and then i can start manipulating you as i see fit.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

The older I get, the more I start to think that's just some shit they tell you you're supposed to do as women. Have a family...have some kids.

I really think my sole purpose is to be rich, and that's it.

You do know once you rich there´s no such thing as love.You can´t trust anybody.

 

[willhustle]

Nope too many ain't shit niggas and bitches having ain't gonna ever be shit kidsas is. Count your blessings and snatch her up ASAP

This is exactly what I'm saying. People be quick as fuck to lay down with somebody just to get a quick nut not thinking about their current situation and thinking about how kids are going to bring life-altering changes. I'm not a kid person and Idk if that will ever change. With the way these "new age" women are/think in society you really have to be able to filter through a lot of bullshit before you plan that next step.

I'm single and my only priorities are a career and making my income go up as of right now.

 

[zzombie]

The older I get, the more I start to think that's just some shit they tell you you're supposed to do as women. Have a family...have some kids.

I really think my sole purpose is to be rich, and that's it.

You do know once you rich there´s no such thing as love.You can´t trust anybody.

That's Not True at all

 

[LordZuko]

If you with a person male or female that doesn't want to have children then you basically have no purpose you're just committed friends with benefits. Yall fuckin and suckin on each other comin home and shit simply because you scared to be alone.

Purpose of families is to establish legacy. Black don't have a concept of legacy, which makes sense because Black people have been cut off from theirs. Niggas be havin kids just to have them or to give them some purpose and validation in life by bringing into the world this human being that's wholly dependent on them.

It's the same with relationships, attach yourself to someone that gives you some sense of purpose and validation in life that you feel you can't give yourself.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I don't EVER want kids. The negatives greatly outweigh the positives IMO. So id gladly wife a chick who didn't want none.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I honestly would find it wildly attractive if a woman didn't want kids. Cause I don't want kids.

Wanting kids is just biology playing a trick on you. Don't be a sucker to biology. Hell, most men don't even really wanna be dads, just look how many absentee fathers there are in society. Once you realize that basically the urge to have kids is a byproduct of evolution, you can fight those urges and realize that kids are actually a huge hindrance to living a self-actualized life.

Damn that was deep. I wasn't expecting that from u no offense lmao

 

[NoCompetition]

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[zzombie]

I hope the same people who don't want kids also don't advocate for Healthcare and other governmental benefits.

 

[zzombie]

I honestly would find it wildly attractive if a woman didn't want kids. Cause I don't want kids.

Wanting kids is just biology playing a trick on you. Don't be a sucker to biology. Hell, most men don't even really wanna be dads, just look how many absentee fathers there are in society. Once you realize that basically the urge to have kids is a byproduct of evolution, you can fight those urges and realize that kids are actually a huge hindrance to living a self-actualized life.

Damn that was deep. I wasn't expecting that from u no offense lmao

He's white the best thing he can do for all of us is not have kids. Let those struggle genes die a slow death

 

[NoCompetition]

I hope the same people who don't want kids also don't advocate for Healthcare and other governmental benefits.

Healthcare for me? Benefits for me? Im worried about my life thats my concern. Thats what im living. What do i care about "legacies" and whatever when Im gone? uh...i'll be gone. The world can be as crazy as it wants to then not my concern.

I'll just name one thing. Babymama(s) I dont gotta worry about court or child support or jail for not paying. Or what she's doing. Or structuring my schedule. Or "dont be havin them men around my kid" (heard that one?) haha. None of that drama. We havent even got into the financial side and all that.

If some think a woman that doesnt want kids is a deal breaker, fine. she aint for you then move along. Whats the extra for? None of that is relevant.

 

[zzombie]

I hope the same people who don't want kids also don't advocate for Healthcare and other governmental benefits.

Healthcare for me? Benefits for me? Im worried about my life thats my concern. Thats what im living. What do i care about "legacies" and whatever when Im gone? uh...i'll be gone. The world can be as crazy as it wants to then not my concern.

I'll just name one thing. Babymama(s) I dont gotta worry about court or child support or jail for not paying. Or what she's doing. Or structuring my schedule. None of that drama. We havent even got into the financial side and all that.

If some think a woman that doesnt want kids is a deal breaker, fine. she aint for you then move along. Whats the extra for? None of that is relevant.

You can want whatever you want but it's future generations that will have to pay for it....I mean seriously who do you think is going to pay all this debt??? It's all relevant just because you can live with no fucks given doesn't mean we all will.

People like you deserve none of the benefits of society because you don't care about it's future you shouldn't even be allowed to vote you are in essence a drain on society

 

[NoCompetition]

I hope the same people who don't want kids also don't advocate for Healthcare and other governmental benefits.

Healthcare for me? Benefits for me? Im worried about my life thats my concern. Thats what im living. What do i care about "legacies" and whatever when Im gone? uh...i'll be gone. The world can be as crazy as it wants to then not my concern.

I'll just name one thing. Babymama(s) I dont gotta worry about court or child support or jail for not paying. Or what she's doing. Or structuring my schedule. None of that drama. We havent even got into the financial side and all that.

If some think a woman that doesnt want kids is a deal breaker, fine. she aint for you then move along. Whats the extra for? None of that is relevant.

You can want whatever you want but it's future generations that will have to pay for it....I mean seriously who do you think is going to pay all this debt??? It's all relevant just because you can live with no fucks given doesn't mean we all will.

People like you deserve none of the benefits of society because you don't care about it's future you shouldn't even be allowed to vote

Dude I noticed the economy does better and there is less debt in Democratic Presidencies. The last balanced budget/ surplus was Clinton. The debt ballooned with Bush. Knowing this, I did my part but the world is a crazy place. And chooses to go in other directions. Often common sense gets thrown out the window. Not my fault. But I also dont trust it or expect any better. The next person chooses things a certain way then finds themselves in a mess. I try to avoid the mess.

I pay taxes, work and all that. But Im realistic and go with what makes sense to me. And I also go with what seems right for me. Long as I pay taxes I have a share in the benefits. I pay for schools too and dont complain because its for the whole community. I dont trust those schools with my unborn kids though.

 

[T. Sanford]

It's not a deal breaker to me. I don't want kids but I had a couple of people say that I'll make a dope father. I know some people that are godfathers/godmothers that doesn't have kids that will probably make good parents if they had one. We still got alot of people that have them that'll leave their kids over their mother's house