MsSouthern
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My son is 19 so I'm completely fine with not having any more kids ...
In fact it would probably be deal breaker for me if he wanted one
In fact it would probably be deal breaker for me if he wanted one
NoCompetition
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For me, no. Thats the preference. Im not trying to have kids so that would be a compatibility.
I have nothing against kids, I just like my life the way it is. And I just don't feel like having a child would add to that in any way
I like my freedom and my free time, not to mention all that disposable income. I can sleep in on weekends and my husband and I can do whatever want on a whim, you can't beat that
Forget the over population problem for a second, often I think other than people like me being selfish, people have kids for very selfish and vain reasons. It's not about just raising a child, you want that child to have your genes and look like you, eff all the kids already out here who need homes.
I mean if you want some kids, and willing to take on all that work, hey more power to you. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with those of us who never had that desire.
I like my freedom and my free time, not to mention all that disposable income. I can sleep in on weekends and my husband and I can do whatever want on a whim, you can't beat that
Forget the over population problem for a second, often I think other than people like me being selfish, people have kids for very selfish and vain reasons. It's not about just raising a child, you want that child to have your genes and look like you, eff all the kids already out here who need homes.
I mean if you want some kids, and willing to take on all that work, hey more power to you. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with those of us who never had that desire.
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Will Munny
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I honestly would find it wildly attractive if a woman didn't want kids. Cause I don't want kids.
Wanting kids is just biology playing a trick on you. Don't be a sucker to biology. Hell, most men don't even really wanna be dads, just look how many absentee fathers there are in society. Once you realize that basically the urge to have kids is a byproduct of evolution, you can fight those urges and realize that kids are actually a huge hindrance to living a self-actualized life.
Wanting kids is just biology playing a trick on you. Don't be a sucker to biology. Hell, most men don't even really wanna be dads, just look how many absentee fathers there are in society. Once you realize that basically the urge to have kids is a byproduct of evolution, you can fight those urges and realize that kids are actually a huge hindrance to living a self-actualized life.
As far as I'm concerned not wanting to have kids when you can is a sign of inferior genetics. One of the purposes of life is to create life how the f*** you telling me you don't want to create life you just want to spend your whole life going after your own vain thrills and pleasures..... nah you can't be my woman with a mindset like that. fucking NO. I need you to be Barefoot and in the kitchen with a swollen belly... at least for a few years.
One of the problems of Western society today is that too many woman want to be out working or in school for 15 fucking years. And then when these b****** Hit almost 40 they want to turn around and start having kids so some of them end up with retard babies. f*** that you need to be home taking care of my fucking kid not worrying about your career.
One of the problems of Western society today is that too many woman want to be out working or in school for 15 fucking years. And then when these b****** Hit almost 40 they want to turn around and start having kids so some of them end up with retard babies. f*** that you need to be home taking care of my fucking kid not worrying about your career.
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soul rattler
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zzombie;9518176 said:
Says who?
manofmorehouse
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It would show me that she actually has plans and goals in front of her other than being a soccer mom. The idea of kids doesn't move me. It's weird to hear women say they'd feel empty without bearing children. Like, it's so much more to life that u can experience outside of having a kid. I'd honestly look at the woman more seriously if she came to me and genuinely did not want children
obnoxiouslyfresh
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The older I get, the more I start to think that's just some shit they tell you you're supposed to do as women. Have a family...have some kids.
I really think my sole purpose is to be rich, and that's it.
I really think my sole purpose is to be rich, and that's it.
Kai;9518164 said:
I don't think everyone should have kids. If you don't want them then you shouldn't be talked down on for that...but the bold...not really getting what you're trying to say. That people should adopt first instead of having their own biological kids unless they've stumbled onto some altruistic reason outside of wanting them for themselves? Of course people want kids for selfish reasons. There's no reason to have a kid that's not selfish in some aspect even if you do adopt there's selfisness in that too. And just as I don't think people should talk down on those who choose to remain childless I think stuff like the bold comes off just as petty and silly...and this is from someone who plans on adopting in the future
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SolemnSauce
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not at all
Side note: Can you be an alpha male and not want kids? Nah. Not that I adhere to that, but y'all talk about that often on here.
I'm going to say this. In this day and age most people that don't want kids live a purposeless life. They see children as people that hold them back, when in essence, children(and wives) are usually a source of motivation.
I think you are more likely to be successful with kids than without them.
I'm going to say this. In this day and age most people that don't want kids live a purposeless life. They see children as people that hold them back, when in essence, children(and wives) are usually a source of motivation.
I think you are more likely to be successful with kids than without them.
