BOSSExcellence;6837415 said:
iunno.. im actually thinkin about the kid.. i mean i know everyone's upbringin was different but where im from me and those who grew up around me aint have shit... our parents didnt have shit.. and they parents didnt have shit.. nor theirs.. and the parents before that were slaves...
i mean when does the cycle ends..
is a dad better served at home takin on menial jobs jus to say he watched his kid grow up.. or out providing a better life then he has for his kid??
30k a yr aint go do shit for that kid.. but least he got to hug his dad at night!!? nah..
that kids gonna grow up and hate his father.. and if its a girl she may run into a nigga like me..
somewhere down the line someone is gonna be tired of bein average.. so as a parent wouldnt it be better to make the sacrifices so that ur kid or grandchild doesnt have to??
Why are you acting like it's either 30K or 100K? I was just pointing out that the positions that pay employees 100K+ require OD long hours, tons of traveling etc.
Here's the thing... If you know what you're doing you can work a "regular" job making 60, 70K and come out a millionaire via investments, 401Ks, IRAs etc. in due time AND still be involved in your kid's life. Especially if your wife is on your same status.
... In sum, we all know the father is just as important as the mother is when it comes to raising children. Who else is going to teach the kid how to act like a man or give him advice on how to move in certain situations? Who else is going to teach your daughter, how a man should treat her? If you want to be a multimillionaire, wait to have kids, because once you have kids, they are now or should be your number one priority. If you're not involved in your kid's life, you're not giving him/her a fair chance.