I see why you women dont approach men...

[S2J]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

I'm not gonna argue the validity of this shit but FYI you seem WAYYYYYY to happy that you dissed/carried/rejected the bitch. You come off as a nigga thats been rejected multiple times and you finally got a chance for revenge and thats not RNS homie

Yall really think this is far fetched!? Lmao

@ the rest, duly noted. Thanks.

 

[Chi Snow]

maybe some of you fellas just need to change YOUR standards

considering the heartache,frustration,and anguish many of you have endured

there will be no dishonor nor would anyone hold you at fault

for settling that "nickel piece" who DOES you find interesting,clever,insightful and engaging.

just a thought :-??

Bruh u know got damn well nigga's like to stunt

A nigga would rather pull up in a 2015 Tahoe with an overdue payment and a 1/4 of gas than pull up in a 05 Altima that's paid off and can go 6 days in between fill up

 

[S2J]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

lol..well surely she did SOMETHING blatantly obvious to have him so sure of himself.

No way it could have been friendly dinner banter between two people sitting at a bar alone..impossible.

It would have been friendly dinner banter if i did what she expected, which would be immediately start chattin her up.

I didnt, so immediately she was intrigued, at least in my mind (#ego, #shewantedthadick). And that was proven by how she acted when i was leaving. I actually left out 1 more "unbelievable" detail. When i was gettin up to leave she asked me-again- how often i come here. I calmly was like 'im here a lil bit, i might see you again, you can find me'

Thats when she turned n was like 'I-can-find-you!?!?' Yea i'll see you again'. And that was that.

This saucy shit here...

Lol Idk what that means so Im not sure wheter to be offended or not...

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

lol..well surely she did SOMETHING blatantly obvious to have him so sure of himself.

No way it could have been friendly dinner banter between two people sitting at a bar alone..impossible.

I just thought it was funny that Sharon Stone was your reference point for sexy vixen approaching a man at the bar. Let me stop tellin my age )

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Lmao. I'm sorry. I meant no harm.....buttt, couldnt the underlined be construed as a lil, lil, lil bit of 'thirst'? i..j..s...

Well I'd want to get to know him first. I wouldn't suggest that we leave the bookstore and head to city hall.

 

[a.mann]

maybe some of you fellas just need to change YOUR standards

considering the heartache,frustration,and anguish many of you have endured

there will be no dishonor nor would anyone hold you at fault

for settling that "nickel piece" who DOES you find interesting,clever,insightful and engaging.

just a thought :-??

Bruh u know got damn well nigga's like to stunt

A nigga would rather pull up in a 2015 Tahoe with an overdue payment and a 1/4 of gas than pull up in a 05 Altima that's paid off and can go 6 days in between fill up

 

[Kat]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

lol..well surely she did SOMETHING blatantly obvious to have him so sure of himself.

No way it could have been friendly dinner banter between two people sitting at a bar alone..impossible.

I just thought it was funny that Sharon Stone was your reference point for sexy vixen approaching a man at the bar. Let me stop tellin my age )

And telling mine at the same damn time..yes please do.

lol!

 

[So ILL]

They've told me in the past that they don't like to approach men out of the fear of looking desperate. But at the same time, they want men to chase them around the world and back and put themselves out there like that smh.

Women; You can't live with them, and you can't live without them lol.

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

maybe some of you fellas just need to change YOUR standards

considering the heartache,frustration,and anguish many of you have endured

there will be no dishonor nor would anyone hold you at fault

if settled for that "nickel piece" who DOES find you interesting,clever,insightful and engaging.

just a thought :-??

Stop making sense!

 

[S2J]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Lmao. I'm sorry. I meant no harm.....buttt, couldnt the underlined be construed as a lil, lil, lil bit of 'thirst'? i..j..s...

Well I'd want to get to know him first. I wouldn't suggest that we leave the bookstore and head to city hall.

Well for me i didnt like when women approach b/c usually its too formal for my liking. Like its very stuffy and geared toward, like you mentioned, maybe a long term thing. Whereas when i approach i can dictate how things r gonna go, i can ask off the wall questions, get her out her comfort zone. Thts just me tho.

 

[Bcotton5]

Who gave me feelings though?

it bet not be queefeesha and powder, I know it fucking better not.

I gave you feelings because I thought you gave me feelings but it was just lil bitchass DUB. My bad, but its really DUBs fault.

He always gives me feelings for some reason

 

[blackrain]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Well you are definitely the exception. I don't even see women in bookstores and libraries which I frequent constantly. At least not any "normal" looking women. The women I know don't read, don't keep up with the news and definitely don't frequent libraries, lol..

That says more negative shit about the women you choose to keep around you than them. You need to change the women you're around if the bold is all you know

 

[Knock_Twice]

maybe some of you fellas just need to change YOUR standards

considering the heartache,frustration,and anguish many of you have endured

there will be no dishonor nor would anyone hold you at fault

if settled for that "nickel piece" who DOES find you interesting,clever,insightful and engaging.

just a thought :-??

Man nobody wants nobody that wants them Lol.....especially if she's a 5

 

[High Revolutionary]

Dudes in here really celebrating like The Iceman cause they rejected a chick?

What part of the game is that?

 

[High Revolutionary]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

Oh you fancy, huh?

 

[Bcotton5]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Im reading this right now

 

[_Goldie_]

The amount of feels in this thread is crazy lol

 

[Ree4er Madness]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Well you are definitely the exception. I don't even see women in bookstores and libraries which I frequent constantly. At least not any "normal" looking women. The women I know don't read, don't keep up with the news and definitely don't frequent libraries, lol..

That says more negative shit about the women you choose to keep around you than them. You need to change the women you're around if the bold is all you know

They're just women I know..not women I'm interested in...I'm talking friends, family, little sister cousins, women I've know for years since high school...I've lived in the same city my entire life so I have many of the same friends. I'm not really the type of guy to go looking for women...I'm not even in the place where I want to get serious, I've been there and done that and being single is a lot less hassle...

I also have short patience with women cause I'm into a lot of different things, as far as the world is concerned...Most women I come in contact, just don't care that much about politics, social issues, etc..They just don't...They'd rather watch Real Housewives of Atlanta, like thats real, lol...

 

[topoftheworld]

it's nothing to smile and say "hi" without an agenda.

etiquette, anyone?

but

personal experience has shown me that a good proportion of men see this as "Come hither, daddy".

...and then I have no conversation. lol

 

[LPast]

This thread remind me of Goldylocks and the Three Bears for some reason.