I see why you women dont approach men...

[Kat]

Lol The fact yall ladies think its so unbelievable for a man to turn a woman down says a lot...

Nah I don't find that unbelievable at all, I just think that particular story is either fabricated or highly embellished.

You know you got ego issues.

 

[Billy_Poncho]

I don't understand this new trend of gettin mad at some shit women do, so in retaliation you act like a woman...

 

[huey]

U fuckin with the wrong type of females my friend

 

[Knock_Twice]

Older women (over 29) usually talk and can ask questions back at least in my world they do...

Since we are on the convo line..hell a chick hit me on the text with some "hi" or "hello", I don't even respond to shit like that lol..bitch you betta ask me how it's going on over here or how was my night or some shit...hit me wit a "hi" or some shit...bitch I aint a new born or a pet

 

[Mr.LV]

Lol The fact yall ladies think its so unbelievable for a man to turn a woman down says a lot...

Egos

 

[Chi Snow]

I don't understand this new trend of gettin mad at some shit women do, so in retaliation you act like a woman...

There's a message here somewhere......

 

[Kat]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Well you are definitely the exception. I don't even see women in bookstores and libraries which I frequent constantly. At least not any "normal" looking women. The women I know don't read, don't keep up with the news and definitely don't frequent libraries, lol..

My mother taught me that if you ever enter someone's house and there are no books, get out of there immediately.

 

[a.mann]

maybe some of you fellas just need to change YOUR standards

considering the heartache,frustration,and anguish many of you have endured

there will be no dishonor nor would anyone hold you at fault

if settled for that "nickel piece" who DOES find you interesting,clever,insightful and engaging.

just a thought :-??

 

[_Goldie_]

Most women have good conversation skills, but the skill to approach and initiate the conversation/ hunt is non existent imo

That goes back to gender roles, which for some reason society is trying to get rid of ..

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

 

[Ree4er Madness]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Well you are definitely the exception. I don't even see women in bookstores and libraries which I frequent constantly. At least not any "normal" looking women. The women I know don't read, don't keep up with the news and definitely don't frequent libraries, lol..

My mother taught me that if you ever enter someone's house and there are no books, get out of there immediately.

My grandmother taught met he same thing...

 

[Ree4er Madness]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

I see what you're saying but imo, its just that common for a woman to just open up and start conversing with you in a public place unless she's interested on some level...She may start a convo with another woman, but generally not a man...

 

[Kat]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

lol..well surely she did SOMETHING blatantly obvious to have him so sure of himself.

No way it could have been friendly dinner banter between two people sitting at a bar alone..impossible.

 

[S2J]

Women who approach (sober) are either thirst buckets, out for the dick, or are fat/ugly. Not much leeway at all...Oh, or old. Yea a old head chick will push up. Thats it.

That is not true. I absolutely resent that comment. I have approached guys to chat in bookstores and cafes mainly, especially if I think they have interesting reading material. I have done so since I was in college. My dream is to meet my husband as we reach for the same bell hooks work in the bookstore.

Lmao. I'm sorry. I meant no harm.....buttt, couldnt the underlined be construed as a lil, lil, lil bit of 'thirst'? i..j..s...

 

[stilldat_dude]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

I'm not gonna argue the validity of this shit but FYI you seem WAYYYYYY to happy that you dissed/carried/rejected the bitch. You come off as a nigga thats been rejected multiple times and you finally got a chance for revenge and thats not RNS homie

 

[S2J]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

lol..well surely she did SOMETHING blatantly obvious to have him so sure of himself.

No way it could have been friendly dinner banter between two people sitting at a bar alone..impossible.

It would have been friendly dinner banter if i did what she expected, which would be immediately start chattin her up.

I didnt, so immediately she was intrigued, at least in my mind (#ego, #shewantedthadick). And that was proven by how she acted when i was leaving. I actually left out 1 more "unbelievable" detail. When i was gettin up to leave she asked me-again- how often i come here. I calmly was like 'im here a lil bit, i might see you again, you can find me'

Thats when she turned n was like 'I-can-find-you!?!?' Yea i'll see you again'. And that was that.

 

[Beezus]

Can't relate

 

[Billy_Poncho]

Just yesterday I was at Ruth Chris' bar dolo gittin in on them happy hour specials. The chick next to me was by herself and i could just feel the tension like she was thinkin 'why hasnt he turned n talked to me yet'.

So when my food came she was like 'oooh, whats that?.... is it good?... You come here a lot?...' Everything was 1 word answers from me. Ffwd she ask me 'what should i get', Im like 'yea, get the spicy lobster'. Her eyes lit up like 'oooh, he aggressive' lol

She said 'if this aint good ima hold it against you'. I said 'well i wont be here by the time you get it haha, but enjoy'. And left. She all turnin to me as i walk away n shyt 'oh, i'll see you again'. Yea aight lol Her soul left the building...sooo, yea women arent built to initiate but more importantly are not built for the rejection that can come with it.

lmao..I'm sure that's exactly what was going through her mind after you suggested spicy lobster.

Really though.

Acccctually i told my girl that exact story, and she thought the whole thing was funny but when i told her i suggested the girl's food she was like 'Oh, so you givin her orders, too. Really?!!' She aint like that Hahaha

So yes, im sure that woman's pannies got moist by the bass and authority of my voice.

which, back to the topic, is why women like a man to apporach. They want a man to tell them 'Bytch, get the spicy lobster'

lol..Its crazy that women are so used to being horndogs that they don't think we'll turn down some punany...I'm the same type of guy, I would entertain her questions and bounce and not give it a second thought. You have to do that sometimes or women will group you in with the rest of the dogs they run across...

Now look here..next time ya'll make a thread whining about how you can't be friendly to a woman without her thinking you're trying to holla, I'm going to point out this post.

Maybe she was just making conversation with someone that was alone at the bar like she was alone at the bar.

I mean was she licking her lips? Pulling a Sharon Stone?

If not, sounds to me as it's just @S2J's ego in overdrive.

Sharon Stone?

omg Kat...omg lol

lol..well surely she did SOMETHING blatantly obvious to have him so sure of himself.

No way it could have been friendly dinner banter between two people sitting at a bar alone..impossible.

It would have been friendly dinner banter if i did what she expected, which would be immediately start chattin her up.

I didnt, so immediately she was intrigued, at least in my mind (#ego, #shewantedthadick). And that was proven by how she acted when i was leaving. I actually left out 1 more "unbelievable" detail. When i was gettin up to leave she asked me-again- how often i come here. I calmly was like 'im here a lil bit, i might see you again, you can find me'

Thats when she turned n was like 'I-can-find-you!?!?' Yea i'll see you again'. And that was that.

This saucy shit here...

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

U fuckin with the wrong type of females my friend

Sounds like they seek out simple bitches with nothing to talk about