How much time pass before you lose interest after giving a dude your number?

[Meet The Sniper]

c/s...how the hell u not gon remember sum1 3 days later...unless yall ratchet..i think yall ratchet

That is some ratchet shit.

I mean given that it's a friday, if the chick can't remember she gave out a number on monday....wtf?

 

[Zone6reppa]

I'd say later on that day or the next day is a good time. This I'm gonna wait atleast 3 days thing is silly. If you like her call her. No games needed.

should've closed thread after this along time ago

 

[WhoisDonG???]

Man I usually wait the next day or sometimes I will with hit them with a Goodnight text or a Good morning text. I'm telling u it has never failed me yet plus women liike a nice thoughtful things like that. But it's crazy most women I talk to prefer to text all the time. But text game is impeccable.

 

[blakfyahking]

That is some ratchet shit.

I mean given that it's a friday, if the chick can't remember she gave out a number on monday....wtf?

bruh, why would you remember somebody you don't even know like that?

I barely can remember a chick I met in a club the day before unless she did something special

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

this shit about waiting and not remembering the dude is total bullshit

Word.
Even my no short term memory, herb using self was going to agree as but maybe some females give their numbers out to any guy they meet *shrugs*

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

The longer he waits, the more I'd believe he isn't going to contact me.
Then if he does, it'd be weird and I probably wouldn't want to talk to him anymore by that point. :/

Makes sense.
As busy as my schedule is, if I were to wait long before calling a man I was interested in, I am just not that interested.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

1 day.....

 

[rice n gravy]

Great Thread...my 2 cents

1) Texting on the first communication is a hoe nigga move...straight coward shit...always call...you can be much more dominant, clear and to the point in a phone call...leaves less of a chance of shit being misinterpreted via text..which usually always happens when you dealing with someone who doesn't know your personality yet

3) Call the next day...it shows the chick that you are interested

2) If you and a chick have had 2 or more phone conversations and she's not trying to meet up...HANG UP AND DELETE HER NUMBER...IMMEDIATELY...no need wasting time...shit should be moving forward...never stagnant...having 8 million phone and text conversations before you meet up is unneccesary and a HUGE waste of time...you want to make it a point to get to know her in person...not via phone/text....

3) Your phone calls and texts should only be used to flirt and set shit up...no need to be talking and texting these women for long periods of time....ACT LIKE YOU HAVE A LIFE...EVEN IF YOU DON'T AND YOU JUST HANG OUT ON A MESSAGEBOARD ALL DAY

lol this cool right here

 

[princetavern]

Call in the middle of the night, that same night and make sure you are drunk. If she answers say something and sounds like you woke her up say "oh did I wake you? this isn't a good time? my fault I thought you worked nights for some reason. call me tomorrow when you're free then." If she is up and ready to talk, just go with the flow. If she brings up why you're calling so late, act like she's weird for questioning it and say you always do this and no one else thinks its weird. This keeps her on her toes. Talk for about 15 minutes and then say you have to go do something.

If she doesnt answer, don't leave a voicemail as soon as it beeps. Wait for about 20-30 seconds while banging things around and coughing. Then go, "hello?...hello? Oh, its ____, I was just calling to see what's up. Call me back when you get the chance." When she calls back, refer to what was said about her picking up in the first place. If she tries to question anything you've said or done, again, make it out like this is normal for you and she is the only one to ever say anything. Make her feel awkward for pressing the subject. If you doesn't mention any of that though, just go with the flow. Again, talk for 15 minutes and then you have to go to the gym/cash a check/drive your grandmother somewhere. From that point on keep things as texts but be normal, sober, and personable.

 

[sonofliberty]

Call in the middle of the night, that same night and make sure you are drunk. If she answers say something and sounds like you woke her up say "oh did I wake you? this isn't a good time? my fault I thought you worked nights for some reason. call me tomorrow when you're free then." If she is up and ready to talk, just go with the flow. If she brings up why you're calling so late, act like she's weird for questioning it and say you always do this and no one else thinks its weird. This keeps her on her toes. Talk for about 15 minutes and then say you have to go do something.

If she doesnt answer, don't leave a voicemail as soon as it beeps. Wait for about 20-30 seconds while banging things around and coughing. Then go, "hello?...hello? Oh, its ____, I was just calling to see what's up. Call me back when you get the chance." When she calls back, refer to what was said about her picking up in the first place. If she tries to question anything you've said or done, again, make it out like this is normal for you and she is the only one to ever say anything. Make her feel awkward for pressing the subject. If you doesn't mention any of that though, just go with the flow. Again, talk for 15 minutes and then you have to go to the gym/cash a check/drive your grandmother somewhere. From that point on keep things as texts but be normal, sober, and personable.

^^^ the fuck??? Niggas got a script and shit...wow

Just give her the number after yall meet and tell her to call you. Win-win situation. If the convo was good she'll usually text you minutes later with her number and tell you to call her and yadda yadda. That way the phone ice is broken early.

And yall females in here saying text is impersonal yet yall text the shit outta dudes once a relationship starts. I ran through several smart phone cause my girl text all crazy.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Call in the middle of the night, that same night and make sure you are drunk. If she answers say something and sounds like you woke her up say "oh did I wake you? this isn't a good time? my fault I thought you worked nights for some reason. call me tomorrow when you're free then." If she is up and ready to talk, just go with the flow. If she brings up why you're calling so late, act like she's weird for questioning it and say you always do this and no one else thinks its weird. This keeps her on her toes. Talk for about 15 minutes and then say you have to go do something.

If she doesnt answer, don't leave a voicemail as soon as it beeps. Wait for about 20-30 seconds while banging things around and coughing. Then go, "hello?...hello? Oh, its ____, I was just calling to see what's up. Call me back when you get the chance." When she calls back, refer to what was said about her picking up in the first place. If she tries to question anything you've said or done, again, make it out like this is normal for you and she is the only one to ever say anything. Make her feel awkward for pressing the subject. If you doesn't mention any of that though, just go with the flow. Again, talk for 15 minutes and then you have to go to the gym/cash a check/drive your grandmother somewhere. From that point on keep things as texts but be normal, sober, and personable.

Read no further. Clearly this is a silly post.

 

[bull6599]

Call in the middle of the night, that same night and make sure you are drunk. If she answers say something and sounds like you woke her up say "oh did I wake you? this isn't a good time? my fault I thought you worked nights for some reason. call me tomorrow when you're free then." If she is up and ready to talk, just go with the flow. If she brings up why you're calling so late, act like she's weird for questioning it and say you always do this and no one else thinks its weird. This keeps her on her toes. Talk for about 15 minutes and then say you have to go do something.

If she doesnt answer, don't leave a voicemail as soon as it beeps. Wait for about 20-30 seconds while banging things around and coughing. Then go, "hello?...hello? Oh, its ____, I was just calling to see what's up. Call me back when you get the chance." When she calls back, refer to what was said about her picking up in the first place. If she tries to question anything you've said or done, again, make it out like this is normal for you and she is the only one to ever say anything. Make her feel awkward for pressing the subject. If you doesn't mention any of that though, just go with the flow. Again, talk for 15 minutes and then you have to go to the gym/cash a check/drive your grandmother somewhere. From that point on keep things as texts but be normal, sober, and personable.

The fuck???

 

[mindright]

I usually wait 2 days...

If I call on that second day and we converse...cool

If I call on that second day and leave a message, I usually give her a day to call me back, anytime after that I'm over her and when she finally calls, I tell her I'm over her. But if she's bad and I just HAVE to sample that, I'll give her an extra day..

and we ain't texting until we develop some type of relationship either and even then, I'm real tame with the text, never know who's gonna read those texts or who might end up reading those texts in the future

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

Call in the middle of the night, that same night and make sure you are drunk. If she answers say something and sounds like you woke her up say "oh did I wake you? this isn't a good time? my fault I thought you worked nights for some reason. call me tomorrow when you're free then." If she is up and ready to talk, just go with the flow. If she brings up why you're calling so late, act like she's weird for questioning it and say you always do this and no one else thinks its weird. This keeps her on her toes. Talk for about 15 minutes and then say you have to go do something.

If she doesnt answer, don't leave a voicemail as soon as it beeps. Wait for about 20-30 seconds while banging things around and coughing. Then go, "hello?...hello? Oh, its ____, I was just calling to see what's up. Call me back when you get the chance." When she calls back, refer to what was said about her picking up in the first place. If she tries to question anything you've said or done, again, make it out like this is normal for you and she is the only one to ever say anything. Make her feel awkward for pressing the subject. If you doesn't mention any of that though, just go with the flow. Again, talk for 15 minutes and then you have to go to the gym/cash a check/drive your grandmother somewhere. From that point on keep things as texts but be normal, sober, and personable.

real as it gets

 

[The BAPHOMET]

when I was single to mingle, I would call within hours of getting that number especially in the summer

 

[Exell_doe]

This is simple when you are getting her number tell her a little about your schedule and ask her what her's looks like. Then call her up when she is free.... if she doesent answer DON"T leave a message everyone has caller ID and what message do you have for someone you dont know? Just call back in a couple of days at a different time. When you get her on the phone talk to her like you already know her.. to get info about her dont ask questions just make statements she will make staements to match.

 

[Gnawledgeable]

Great Thread...my 2 cents

1) Texting on the first communication is a hoe nigga move...straight coward shit...always call...you can be much more dominant, clear and to the point in a phone call...leaves less of a chance of shit being misinterpreted via text..which usually always happens when you dealing with someone who doesn't know your personality yet

3) Call the next day...it shows the chick that you are interested

2) If you and a chick have had 2 or more phone conversations and she's not trying to meet up...HANG UP AND DELETE HER NUMBER...IMMEDIATELY...no need wasting time...shit should be moving forward...never stagnant...having 8 million phone and text conversations before you meet up is unneccesary and a HUGE waste of time...you want to make it a point to get to know her in person...not via phone/text....

3) Your phone calls and texts should only be used to flirt and set shit up...no need to be talking and texting these women for long periods of time....ACT LIKE YOU HAVE A LIFE...EVEN IF YOU DON'T AND YOU JUST HANG OUT ON A MESSAGEBOARD ALL DAY

Right, co-sign 100%. They ain't that busy not to meet up.