How much time pass before you lose interest after giving a dude your number?

[face down @$$ up]

You can't just ask to meet up within 10 seconds of your very first phone convo. Nope that's all wrong.

Would you mind elaborating please? How should the convo go?

 

[Meet The Sniper]

Would you mind elaborating please? How should the convo go?

Anywhere but meeting up on the first convo. Get to know her. Don't even try for a meeting.

 

[Razah Cutz]

i rarely pull the number to talk....if i wanna talk, i just talk right then and there or i will ask her to meet me at starbucks at a given time or some shit...cut all the technology out and force the interaction...if she's interested then she'll show...if not then she won't....

 

[Meet The Sniper]

i rarely pull the number to talk....if i wanna talk, i just talk right then and there or i will ask her to meet me at starbucks at a given time or some shit...cut all the technology out and force the interaction...if she's interested then she'll show...if not then she won't....

Niggas is running on dummy missions in 2010.

 

[bull6599]

I hardly ever contact the same night so the next day is my usual minimum unless she shows she definitely feelin me. I usually just ask when is the best time to call on what days and call w/in a 30 min time framw. If I meet her on Thursday and she says the best time to call on Friday is around 6PM I'll call around 6:25 on that day.

 

[mr. mista xxlusive]

I call the next day.....waiting a few days is whack. I've done the waiting thing and chics be like,"damn why u waited that long to hit me up?" but I see a day or two is the best time to hit up a chic after getting the number. I notice that chics always call the next day when I give them my number.

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Would you mind elaborating please? How should the convo go?

It could go any number of ways, just let it run it's natural course. But trying to pin me down within 30 seconds for a definite time to meet up is not whoa. That's grounds for dismissal. I couldn't imagine someone actually doing that...just seems like they're not altogether there.

 

[mr. mista xxlusive]

It could go any number of ways, just let it run it's natural course. But trying to pin me down within 30 seconds for a definite time to meet up is not whoa. That's grounds for dismissal. I couldn't imagine someone actually doing that...just seems like they're not altogether there.

can't blame a nigga with yo sexy azz

 

[face down @$$ up]

I hardly ever contact the same night so the next day is my usual minimum unless she shows she definitely feelin me. I usually just ask when is the best time to call on what days and call w/in a 30 min time framw. If I meet her on Thursday and she says the best time to call on Friday is around 6PM I'll call around 6:25 on that day.

I usually text if its in the middle of the day. I always run into girls that are at work or in class at that time. But I see what homie was saying about asking what's a good time to call. I've had a few slip away from me recently, before I could even get a good convo in. I realize its because I waited too long, thinking I was doing the right thing and not wanting to look thirsty.

 

[birdcall89]

I hardly ever contact the same night so the next day is my usual minimum unless she shows she definitely feelin me. I usually just ask when is the best time to call on what days and call w/in a 30 min time framw. If I meet her on Thursday and she says the best time to call on Friday is around 6PM I'll call around 6:25 on that day.

co-sizzle.

 

[kAjUn]

i dunno bruh

i don't have a timeline i just call when i fuccin feel like it

 

[clairvoyance]

I hate talking on the phone after I give a dude my number. Talking in person is a better way to see if we click or not.

Evidence^^^.....and thats coming from a girl ^^^.

 

[Meet The Sniper]

Evidence^^^.....and thats coming from a girl ^^^.

Not the best example.

 

[clairvoyance]

Not the best example.

If u say so.........let the t/s find out 4 himself I gave my advice im done with this thread.

 

[Meet The Sniper]

That wasn't necessary at all.

I ain't mean it.

 

[Myayoni is bored]

I like stalkers

 

[betterthenu84]

Depends on the dude...but I seriously hate when the first "contact" is a text so impersonal.

oh yea heeeyy ya'll

 

[-JB-]

calling>>>>>>texting
better indicator of how you two get along before you actually go out.

^^^^ i'm waiting canada

 

[-JB-]

i like stalkers

slave lil foot's , you are the stalker, no restraining order

 

[Suck Me Beautiful]

No convo get straight to the point

Example:

Her: hello

U: ay whatsup its me (name) from (mall,club,whatever)

Her: oh yea whatsup

U: nothing much I was just wondering if we can get together, maybe I could come through and see u

(now if she responds with "where do u live" that means she feels more comfortable seeing u instead rather than going to her house, tell her where u live then invite her over, but if it goes like this....)

Her: what time do u wanna stop by

(the rest is all on u.........)

Buuuuut if she says I got plans dont get frustrated and press her out, be cool about it,hopefully shell give u a another day to come thru without u having to ask if not just make "small" talk and call her back another day....if u call back and it says this number has been disconnected she blocked ur number,if not u in there.....if u are not a conversationist "get to the point" or ull say something stupid like "what high school did u go to?" other than that its simple.

If this actually works for you, you’re dealing with straight bottom of the barrel chickenheads