How much time pass before you lose interest after giving a dude your number?

[Suck Me Beautiful]

Text the bitch THE FIRST DAY. (Given that you bagged on the right circumstance)

Hell, if you want, the very next second you bag. But the way you bagged is important. Get the number then leave, then text her "here's my number, this is ___" . This move is fool proof for the type of niggas who be coppin fake numbers. I usually wait till after the event I met her at/ later in the day.... to keep me fresh in her mind. Most times they'll hit me back in a small timeframe and start up convo. But the important thing is that it puts the ball in her court immediately.

Now if she doesn't strike up conversation immediately like them type of jawns who reply with "ok" instead of "Ard got it....Wassup?" or "ok thanks....did you have fun tonight?" Then don't go chasing a convo. If she replies to the "here is my number" text with just some type of affirmative, leave it alone. I wait like a day or two to hit her back up.

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[clairvoyance]

Calling>>>>>>Texting
Better indicator of how you two get along before you actually go out.

I usually dont throw compliments out easily but your gorgeous, ive actually considered sending a pic ur way but thats a no no in my book. Im only saying this cause u seem like ur beautiful on the inside as well as on the out which goes a long way. U mind changin ur avi, u keep reminded me of this girl I knew...: (

Besides dat *continue*

 

[BeardedFreak]

Great Thread...my 2 cents

1) Texting on the first communication is a hoe nigga move...straight coward shit...always call...you can be much more dominant, clear and to the point in a phone call...leaves less of a chance of shit being misinterpreted via text..which usually always happens when you dealing with someone who doesn't know your personality yet

3) Call the next day...it shows the chick that you are interested

2) If you and a chick have had 2 or more phone conversations and she's not trying to meet up...HANG UP AND DELETE HER NUMBER...IMMEDIATELY...no need wasting time...shit should be moving forward...never stagnant...having 8 million phone and text conversations before you meet up is unneccesary and a HUGE waste of time...you want to make it a point to get to know her in person...not via phone/text....

3) Your phone calls and texts should only be used to flirt and set shit up...no need to be talking and texting these women for long periods of time....ACT LIKE YOU HAVE A LIFE...EVEN IF YOU DON'T AND YOU JUST HANG OUT ON A MESSAGEBOARD ALL DAY

 

[marie addams]

first communication should be a call. even though I hate the phone. a text start sets the tone for all the wrong shit
if he doesn't cool I'm not waiting for it because I dont even know him.. Depending on the circumstances of how we met I really don't think anything of it until I actually do hear from him.

 

[Gnawledgeable]

You dudes are dumb saying that you wait up to 4 days or whatever. Like you wasn't desperate to get her number.

I get at them the next day but the thing about it is that the females contact first sometimes.

The reason I text first is that they might be busy at the moment so they can read the text then get at me when they call. I have no problems calling.

 

[5th Letter]

when you get the number ask when its a good time to call.

 

[thehonorable]

Ill call either same day or next day and do that convo thing,

If we rock for over 15 minutes...your number aint get deleted.

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

Text the bitch THE FIRST DAY. (Given that you bagged on the right circumstance)

Hell, if you want, the very next second you bag. But the way you bagged is important. Get the number then leave, then text her "here's my number, this is ___" . This move is fool proof for the type of niggas who be coppin fake numbers. I usually wait till after the event I met her at/ later in the day.... to keep me fresh in her mind. Most times they'll hit me back in a small timeframe and start up convo. But the important thing is that it puts the ball in her court immediately.

Now if she doesn't strike up conversation immediately like them type of jawns who reply with "ok" instead of "Ard got it....Wassup?" or "ok thanks....did you have fun tonight?" Then don't go chasing a convo. If she replies to the "here is my number" text with just some type of affirmative, leave it alone. I wait like a day or two to hit her back up.

this is some well played shit ...you really cant go wrong with the good ol hey this is ________ from ______ "lock me in" or "this is my number"

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

first communication should be a call. even though I hate the phone. a text start sets the tone for all the wrong shit
if he doesn't cool I'm not waiting for it because I dont even know him.. Depending on the circumstances of how we met I really don't think anything of it until I actually do hear from him.

I completely agree.

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

I completely agree.

why?? i mean what if a nigga work durin the day and dont want to hit you up for the first time on the late night tip after he get off ... i dont get this anti text shit

 

[JusDre313]

I'd say later on that day or the next day is a good time. This I'm gonna wait atleast 3 days thing is silly. If you like her call her. No games needed.

this^^ nothing left to say

 

[Intellectual_Liberal]

over a week and i move on. but don't call or text me right after you get the number thats kind of a turn off.

I think this is what confuses most of us.

 

[Intellectual_Liberal]

You can't just ask to meet up within 10 seconds of your very first phone convo. Nope that's all wrong.

Just out of curiosity, why not?

 

[Koko888]

Just out of curiosity, why not?

It's just a bit too keen, a bit too....needy. We aren't foolish enough to believe you've been waiting all your life for us so the other option is you might be crazy. But waiting a day or so gives the impression you have a life but you still thought about us and want to see us.

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

wait til whenever the next saturday is

works every time

 

[missjcapri]

Prob like 6 days...

Mostly because I prob wont even remember u lol

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

this shit about waiting and not remembering the dude is total bullshit

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

unless yall were both drunk as fuck when you met and in that case if you aint smangin that night take your L

 

[wackestrapper]

this shit about waiting and not remembering the dude is total bullshit

c/s...how the hell u not gon remember sum1 3 days later...unless yall ratchet..i think yall ratchet

 

[thecomebacklegend]

No convo get straight to the point

agree niggas fuck up when they think these hoes have high standards and wait