How much time pass before you lose interest after giving a dude your number?

[Surveyor]

I usually like guys to call me a day or 2 later. No text; I won't answer the text if I just met the guy.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

I usually like guys to call me a day or 2 later. No text; I won't answer the text if I just met the guy.

I despise that.

 

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[-JB-]

I usually like guys to call me a day or 2 later. No text; I won't answer the text if I just met the guy.

surveyor the purveyor you'z a wo-man too, ehhhhhhh?

 

[-JB-]

over a week and i move on. but don't call or text me right after you get the number thats kind of a turn off.

* shaq face*

 

[clairvoyance]

i don't waste time. i usually hit her up the next day

^^^^.....cs

 

[clairvoyance]

And what do you normally talk about?

No convo get straight to the point

Example:

Her: hello

U: ay whatsup its me (name) from (mall,club,whatever)

Her: oh yea whatsup

U: nothing much I was just wondering if we can get together, maybe I could come through and see u

(now if she responds with "where do u live" that means she feels more comfortable seeing u instead rather than going to her house, tell her where u live then invite her over, but if it goes like this....)

Her: what time do u wanna stop by

(the rest is all on u.........)

Buuuuut if she says I got plans dont get frustrated and press her out, be cool about it,hopefully shell give u a another day to come thru without u having to ask if not just make "small" talk and call her back another day....if u call back and it says this number has been disconnected she blocked ur number,if not u in there.....if u are not a conversationist "get to the point" or ull say something stupid like "what high school did u go to?" other than that its simple.

 

[Iheart~Cali]

You can't just ask to meet up within 10 seconds of your very first phone convo. Nope that's all wrong.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

You can't just ask to meet up within 10 seconds of your very first convo. Nope that's all wrong.

Seriously though. And he was talking about him going over to her place? Oh no, not ever.

 

[-JB-]

word. cause im quick to say "mmm...who's this?" after you waiting for 4 days.

charlie im sorry for yo continous roll over L's clipper fan

derrick fisher game winner

*insert gif here*

 

[-JB-]

Seriously though. And he was talking about him going over to her place? Oh no, not ever.

oooohhh's noooo'es i'd never go that route soul controller

i'm oh so chivalrous

 

[-JB-]

wait, wait, so i add in a 718 area code and thats your number marley g?

well i'll be

^^^^^^^^^^^
ugghh ughh ummmmmm

Marley G

 

[clairvoyance]

You can't just ask to meet up within 10 seconds of your very first phone convo. Nope that's all wrong.

Wrong 4 u but it worked for me word 4 word with above average chicks. Ok let me put it like this cali when u at a club does a guy have to conversate with u b4 dancing with u? When we freakin girls at clubs we practically f****** without hardly knowing one another so why not get straight to the point just dont be disrespectful when u call like "im trying to f***". Make it seem as though u just wanna chill and when u get there let it happen naturally cause 9 out of 10 she will make the first move. That small talk can lead to saying something to stupid like " so what high school did u go to?" Girls get annoyed and irritated very easily it doesnt take much to turn them off, better to play your cards right and safe.

 

[rice n gravy]

lol this man said 4 days later

I usually call/text later than night or the next day

 

[clairvoyance]

...........

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

lol this man said 4 days later

I usually call/text later than night or the next day

Reading your name makes me hungry every time.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

that whole "wait ftil 4 days after" rule is dumb azzz hell. like cali said, either later that day or the next. i mean why wait?

 

[Koko888]

If he's interested enough to get my digits, I don't think he should keep me waiting for days just to adhere to an antiquated series of played out 'rules'. It's tricky because contact too soon can be a bit stalkerish, too late and the chance has been missed.

 

[Meet The Sniper]

Text the bitch THE FIRST DAY. (Given that you bagged on the right circumstance)

Hell, if you want, the very next second you bag. But the way you bagged is important. Get the number then leave, then text her "here's my number, this is ___" . This move is fool proof for the type of niggas who be coppin fake numbers. I usually wait till after the event I met her at/ later in the day.... to keep me fresh in her mind. Most times they'll hit me back in a small timeframe and start up convo. But the important thing is that it puts the ball in her court immediately.

Now if she doesn't strike up conversation immediately like them type of jawns who reply with "ok" instead of "Ard got it....Wassup?" or "ok thanks....did you have fun tonight?" Then don't go chasing a convo. If she replies to the "here is my number" text with just some type of affirmative, leave it alone. I wait like a day or two to hit her back up.

 

[face down @$$ up]

Look @ the hump in that fuckin av, GOT DAMN

is you a woman bruh?

No, I'm not a woman. I'm a man who appreciates a nice ass.