How much of your sexual past is your S/O aware of?

[thekillingjoke]

Don't confuse promiscuity with skill. Just because you've been plowed by 100 dicks, doesn't mean you're skilled in anything. A woman can have one man who's open-minded and try all kinds of freaky shit on him. I understand dating and getting to know different types of men to see what appeals to you. But you don't have to fuck them. Unfortunately there is a double standard when it comes to men that fuck all kinds of women and when women do the same. But an old pimp put it to me like this: "If a key opens many locks, then you have a Master Key. If a lock is opened by many keys, then it's a shitty lock".

 

[s0j0urner]

She's dropping it from her perspective...I know plenty chicks who would look at what she wrote and laugh dead in her face for saying a woman gotta have a certain amount of dicks in order to be ready for a long term serious relationship and marriage...that shit is only real science because it confirms niggas worst fears about women and that is that women can be just as sexually promiscuous as men can be...that women can be hoes...that shit is true for some, not all...I mean what exactly is it about a woman fucking multiple men that somehow prepares her better for a long term relationship? there's no logic in that shit

I really liked her perspective and where she was coming from, she clearly stated that she had/has 'daddy issues' as such she turned to physical male contact to re-affirm the missing dad's role.
Ask yourself this: 60%+ of females have daddy issues, how many of us dudes have messed with the 60%+?
The 40% is very elusive, and every one of us is aiming for that elusive, 'virgin' pussy - but how many of us are lucky enough to get one?

 

[blackrain]

I really liked her perspective and where she was coming from, she clearly stated that she had/has 'daddy issues' as such she turned to physical male contact to re-affirm the missing dad's role.
Ask yourself this: 60%+ of females have daddy issues, how many of us dudes have messed with the 60%+?
The 40% is very elusive, and every one of us is aiming for that elusive, 'virgin' pussy - but how many of us are lucky enough to get one?

Ya'll and these stats you magically make up in your head

 

[Copper]

Hands on practice cannot be obtained in a monogamous relationship? A female must have hoe tendencies or cheat at some point down the line to become skilled in her fellatio and sex game? And a woman who has not had several penises in her mouth automatically qualifies as a woman who cannot suck the soul out of her man?

I highly disagree on that one. Practice makes perfect and quality can be achieved without racking up a higher quantity of penises a woman comes in contact with.

this is true.....sucking and fukcin multiple dudes doesnt make u wife material in my book.....

 

[s0j0urner]

so that makes it ok to b hoe?

I don't condone HOE'ism, I hate hoes.

Ya'll and these stats you magically make up in your head

Well, 6 out of 10 girls have daddy issues - fact!

i guess so

more pics of the African [in the avi].

 

[a.mann]

true, same goes for a man fucking a woman. you might know how to fuck, but you still have to learn how to fuck HER to please HER how she wants to be pleased.

but don't act like a little experience can't go a long way. i don't have a penis but i'm sure its harder to convince Rebecca from Sunnybrook Farm to swallow than her "seasoned' friend that's sucked a dick or two.

true talk

and I co-sign majority of the shit you've kicked in this thread.Far closer to reality.

so I wouldn't place to much stock in what a couple of these chicks post as rebuttal if I were you.

as they live in fantasy land with Fred and Wilma.

the niggas?

I've come to the conclusion 99% of them here suffer from "mommy issues"

 

[frostyicy]

the hoe phase is the phase that usually gets a woman ready for marriage. its the period where as a young woman, you enjoy a few penises to figure out what you like and what you don't. it gives a woman the opportunity to become a bit more experienced and worldly. this is the period where a woman gets her mouth and pussy game up to par so that she'd know how to please a man when it does come time for her to settle down with someone long term.

some women's hoe phases are longer than others. some condone this behavior for the long term and carry it well into their adult years. some turn it into lucrative careers.
some women's hoe phases occur earlier or later. a lot of pretty girls get ran through at a young age because of this. ever wonder why that bad bitchl from middle/high school is ran through by the time she's 21? its cuz she started her hoe phase at like 15.

then there are the women who don't discover their inner hoe until they're in relationships or married already. these are the women who cheat on their husbands at age 41. they should have prolonged their hoe phase a bit longer, that way she'd realize niggas really ain't shit and that she should stay with the one's she's with. this is what happens when niggas cuff virgins and inexperienced chicks. sure, her naivete is attractive, but she isn't wife material because eventually that bitch is going to get curious. its human nature.

The chick who wrote this is clearly a reformed hoe and knows her shit. Cheers 2 U lady.

Personally I never thought that deep into it but I don't care too much about a females sexual past, as long as no STDs were involved.

 

[mryounggun]

All of it. A person is either gonna accept you for who you are and what you've done or they won't. That goes for both men and women.

 

[raevanaa]

The chick who wrote this is clearly a reformed hoe and knows her shit. Cheers 2 U lady.

And I have no problem admitting to this. Thank you.

 

[raevanaa]

true talk

and I co-sign majority of the shit you've kicked in this thread.Far closer to reality.

so I wouldn't place to much stock in what a couple of these chicks post as rebuttal if I were you.

as they live in fantasy land with Fred and Wilma.

the niggas?

I've come to the conclusion 99% of them here suffer from "mommy issues"

IDK what it is. I'm not saying that a woman absolutely HAS to fuck a number of men to gain the experience necessary for her to carry on a healthy monogamous relationship. But lets just be honest here: it doesn't matter how well two parents prepare their daughter for relationships, there are things she's going to have to learn on her own through getting out there and getting her hands dirty. Its these motherfuckers that think they know it all before they experience it who get their hearts broke out here.

I'm only speaking from ONE perspective and that's from a perspective of a black woman raised in a single parent home. Maybe if my dad was in the picture or if I had some positive male role models I might have not had to figure some things out via trial and error. But I do know that the practical experience that I got out there in the world has made me a better person today. And the last time I checked, for most black women, my perspective is the same as theirs (or similar).

 

[a.mann]

since the time of our Lord Jesus,

the real has always been prosecuted by the fake

 

[thefabmd2dc]

I draw the line at telling girls what I been up to at high school. It just seems irrelevant

 

[mryounggun]

I draw the line at telling girls what I been up to at high school. It just seems irrelevant

Lol. Then she gon' be like 'I draw the line at telling niggas that I fucked a horse before we met. Shit seems irrelevant.'

 

[Louis Cipher]

IDK what it is. I'm not saying that a woman absolutely HAS to fuck a number of men to gain the experience necessary for her to carry on a healthy monogamous relationship. But lets just be honest here: it doesn't matter how well two parents prepare their daughter for relationships, there are things she's going to have to learn on her own through getting out there and getting her hands dirty. Its these motherfuckers that think they know it all before they experience it who get their hearts broke out here.

I'm only speaking from ONE perspective and that's from a perspective of a black woman raised in a single parent home. Maybe if my dad was in the picture or if I had some positive male role models I might have not had to figure some things out via trial and error. But I do know that the practical experience that I got out there in the world has made me a better person today. And the last time I checked, for most black women, my perspective is the same as theirs (or similar).

if anybody had been to college...you can see what shes sayinf for yourself...

a lot of these women, and men too...get out here and lose their damn mind...

i bet you can curl some toes...props to your man........

 

[a.mann]

plain & simple

she cums a mann's way

that pussy gotta be battle tested,combat ready

 

[Dr.Chemix]

let me tell u niggas something...
I've smashed several hoes who wasn't shit in the sack...
fuckin mad dudes don't make a bitch combat ready, it makes her a hoe...

rofl! Combat ready my dude??!! classic yo!!

 

[Rey Negro]

the hoe phase is the phase that usually gets a woman ready for marriage. its the period where as a young woman, you enjoy a few penises to figure out what you like and what you don't. it gives a woman the opportunity to become a bit more experienced and worldly. this is the period where a woman gets her mouth and pussy game up to par so that she'd know how to please a man when it does come time for her to settle down with someone long term.

some women's hoe phases are longer than others. some condone this behavior for the long term and carry it well into their adult years. some turn it into lucrative careers.
some women's hoe phases occur earlier or later. a lot of pretty girls get ran through at a young age because of this. ever wonder why that bad bitchl from middle/high school is ran through by the time she's 21? its cuz she started her hoe phase at like 15.

then there are the women who don't discover their inner hoe until they're in relationships or married already. these are the women who cheat on their husbands at age 41. they should have prolonged their hoe phase a bit longer, that way she'd realize niggas really ain't shit and that she should stay with the one's she's with. this is what happens when niggas cuff virgins and inexperienced chicks. sure, her naivete is attractive, but she isn't wife material because eventually that bitch is going to get curious. its human nature.

I know yall chicks be scared to be real with dudes out of fear that we'll call yall ho....

But if more chicks kept it real like ^^^^ that the world would be a better place....

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I dont think it benefits you (or your S.O.) to let them know your whole sexual past so I avoid going into it.

true. don't ask, don't tell is my motto. n/h

then there are the women who don't discover their inner hoe until they're in relationships or married already. these are the women who cheat on their husbands at age 41. they should have prolonged their hoe phase a bit longer, that way she'd realize niggas really ain't shit and that she should stay with the one's she's with. this is what happens when niggas cuff virgins and inexperienced chicks. sure, her naivete is attractive, but she isn't wife material because eventually that bitch is going to get curious. its human nature.

My homie recently wifed a virgin. And nigga stays complaining about her lack of skills. Broad aint never did nothing sexual before him. I just be like "what the fuck you expect nigga?"I. COULDN'T. DO. IT.

 

[yanniiiee]

So some of ya'll are basically saying if you're not a hoe you'll eventually be one.. lol smh.

 

[Louis Cipher]

true. don't ask, don't tell is my motto. n/h

My homie recently wifed a virgin. And nigga stays complaining about her lack of skills. Broad aint never did nothing sexual before him. I just be like "what the fuck you expect nigga?"I. COULDN'T. DO. IT.

the next man will be thanking him...she will be well trained