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deadeye;3605335 said:Interesting.
raevanaa;3605365 said:true, it different from woman to woman. upbringing can change this.
but i'm speaking from your avg black woman's perspective. i never knew my father and my male role models sucked so i was forced to find out about relationships and men the practical way.
blackrain;3605270 said:i'm not saying that a good number of women don't smut themselves out at some point in their lives, what i'm saying is saying a woman has to hoe herself out in order to prepare for marriage just sounds, stupid...there's no part of "hoeing yourself out that has anything to do with marriage...saying you need to "practice to get your mouth and pussy game out"...you can do that with the person you're fucking w/o having to shuffle through multiple dicks...that and it's just silly to believe that all women or men got something extra freaky in their past...not everybody agrees with the "wild phase" or dating/fucking multiple people...look at a chick like Kai...she clearly ain't of that mold and I wouldn't even venture to say she's the exception...i'd say it's a good number on both sides of women who got a freaky past, and women who have done little to nothing in their sexual past before they meet the man they want to marry...just be careful who you choose
Iheart~Cali;3605428 said:He knows about my camming'; hell he asked if we could do it together.
Other than that, I share odd things here and there if they pertain to the conversation but he's not interested in every person I ever slept with. Who is.
I don't know if he thinks what I do is hoe-ish. I'm guessing not since he's still with me. But I have no problem being monogamous. For my age, my body count is relatively low. Sex with strangers is not my thing. Haven't done the actual one night stand, but I have slept with someone who I didn't know well at all. And it was mad uncomfortable; I was just self-conscious the whole time. So sex is more enjoyable to me if I've gotten to know the person.
On the other hand, I'm not at all self-conscious about people seeing me naked obviously. I just have a phobia of strange men actually being able to touch me. Don't know what that makes me. A hoe? Ok....it is what it is. I can live with it, my hubby can live with it, it works for us. It's whatever.
Iheart~Cali;3605428 said:He knows about my camming'; hell he asked if we could do it together.
Other than that, I share odd things here and there if they pertain to the conversation but he's not interested in every person I ever slept with. Who is.
I don't know if he thinks what I do is hoe-ish. I'm guessing not since he's still with me. But I have no problem being monogamous. For my age, my body count is relatively low. Sex with strangers is not my thing. Haven't done the actual one night stand, but I have slept with someone who I didn't know well at all. And it was mad uncomfortable; I was just self-conscious the whole time. So sex is more enjoyable to me if I've gotten to know the person.
On the other hand, I'm not at all self-conscious about people seeing me naked obviously. I just have a phobia of strange men actually being able to touch me. Don't know what that makes me. A hoe? Ok....it is what it is. I can live with it, my hubby can live with it, it works for us. It's whatever.
Iheart~Cali;3605450 said:No what I do online makes me a ho, because I don't value my naked body or something to that effect.
deadeye;3605460 said:There's a thread in Donkey about you getting married.
Congratulations.
When was the ceremony?
raevanaa;3605457[B said:]i've never heard of a cam girl carrying on a healthy monogamous relationship[/B], most girls are usually getting pimped out. good for you.
In September, Labor Day weekend. And thank you.deadeye;3605460 said:There's a thread in Donkey about you getting married.
Congratulations.
When was the ceremony?
raevanaa;3605461 said:titties is titties
ass is ass
and pussy is pink
who cares about nudity anymore
raevanaa;3605124 said:the hoe phase is the phase that usually gets a woman ready for marriage. its the period where as a young woman, you enjoy a few penises to figure out what you like and what you don't. it gives a woman the opportunity to become a bit more experienced and worldly. this is the period where a woman gets her mouth and pussy game up to par so that she'd know how to please a man when it does come time for her to settle down with someone long term.
some women's hoe phases are longer than others. some condone this behavior for the long term and carry it well into their adult years. some turn it into lucrative careers.
some women's hoe phases occur earlier or later. a lot of pretty girls get ran through at a young age because of this. ever wonder why that bad bitchl from middle/high school is ran through by the time she's 21? its cuz she started her hoe phase at like 15.
then there are the women who don't discover their inner hoe until they're in relationships or married already. these are the women who cheat on their husbands at age 41. they should have prolonged their hoe phase a bit longer, that way she'd realize niggas really ain't shit and that she should stay with the one's she's with. this is what happens when niggas cuff virgins and inexperienced chicks. sure, her naivete is attractive, but she isn't wife material because eventually that bitch is going to get curious. its human nature.
Iheart~Cali;3605485 said:In September, Labor Day weekend. And thank you.
@VK - I told him the history and what happened cuz he saw Golden all on my FB so there was no way around it.