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raevanaa;3605365 said:true, it different from woman to woman. upbringing can change this.
but i'm speaking from your avg black woman's perspective. i never knew my father and my male role models sucked so i was forced to find out about relationships and men the practical way.
No diss to the poster at all...let me be clear
But this is a significant problem...
Most of the time, the lack of their father's presence affects a women relationship with a male friend or spouse....
Remember that when dealing with these women out here
Once you understand that...you will see it affects about 85 percent of women out here
And once you understand that, you will know there are "certain ways" that you must treat a woman...
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blackrain;3605270 said:i'm not saying that a good number of women don't smut themselves out at some point in their lives, what i'm saying is saying a woman has to hoe herself out in order to prepare for marriage just sounds, stupid...there's no part of "hoeing yourself out that has anything to do with marriage...saying you need to "practice to get your mouth and pussy game out"...you can do that with the person you're fucking w/o having to shuffle through multiple dicks...that and it's just silly to believe that all women or men got something extra freaky in their past...not everybody agrees with the "wild phase" or dating/fucking multiple people...look at a chick like Kai...she clearly ain't of that mold and I wouldn't even venture to say she's the exception...i'd say it's a good number on both sides of women who got a freaky past, and women who have done little to nothing in their sexual past before they meet the man they want to marry...just be careful who you choose
I got you...I think Rae just said it for the clearer perception...
Because what girls consider just harmless fun
We would consider as a tease
Or just a woman being open about her sexual activity
We would consider her a hoe
Women think differently
And Raevanna is really dropping the science from a woman's perspective
It makes sense when you read her posts...
How else is the woman going to learn? Being a good girl and practicing with her one and only bf?
She's got too much on her mind, cuz women's minds constantly running
"Will I please him?" "Does he like the way I give him head"
They just think like that yo...they want to please naturally
Big ups to Raevanaa dropping the real science up in this thread
You def got respect from the doc ma...you're seasoned out here...
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Iheart~Cali
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He knows about my camming'; hell he asked if we could do it together.
Other than that, I share odd things here and there if they pertain to the conversation but he's not interested in every person I ever slept with. Who is.
I don't know if he thinks what I do is hoe-ish. I'm guessing not since he's still with me. But I have no problem being monogamous. For my age, my body count is relatively low. Sex with strangers is not my thing. Haven't done the actual one night stand, but I have slept with someone who I didn't know well at all. And it was mad uncomfortable; I was just self-conscious the whole time. So sex is more enjoyable to me if I've gotten to know the person.
On the other hand, I'm not at all self-conscious about people seeing me naked obviously. I just have a phobia of strange men actually being able to touch me. Don't know what that makes me. A hoe? Ok....it is what it is. I can live with it, my hubby can live with it, it works for us. It's whatever.
Other than that, I share odd things here and there if they pertain to the conversation but he's not interested in every person I ever slept with. Who is.
I don't know if he thinks what I do is hoe-ish. I'm guessing not since he's still with me. But I have no problem being monogamous. For my age, my body count is relatively low. Sex with strangers is not my thing. Haven't done the actual one night stand, but I have slept with someone who I didn't know well at all. And it was mad uncomfortable; I was just self-conscious the whole time. So sex is more enjoyable to me if I've gotten to know the person.
On the other hand, I'm not at all self-conscious about people seeing me naked obviously. I just have a phobia of strange men actually being able to touch me. Don't know what that makes me. A hoe? Ok....it is what it is. I can live with it, my hubby can live with it, it works for us. It's whatever.
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Iheart~Cali;3605428 said:He knows about my camming'; hell he asked if we could do it together.
Other than that, I share odd things here and there if they pertain to the conversation but he's not interested in every person I ever slept with. Who is.
I don't know if he thinks what I do is hoe-ish. I'm guessing not since he's still with me. But I have no problem being monogamous. For my age, my body count is relatively low. Sex with strangers is not my thing. Haven't done the actual one night stand, but I have slept with someone who I didn't know well at all. And it was mad uncomfortable; I was just self-conscious the whole time. So sex is more enjoyable to me if I've gotten to know the person.
On the other hand, I'm not at all self-conscious about people seeing me naked obviously. I just have a phobia of strange men actually being able to touch me. Don't know what that makes me. A hoe? Ok....it is what it is. I can live with it, my hubby can live with it, it works for us. It's whatever.
wait a minute, what?
you have a fear of strange men touching you so that makes you a ho?
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Iheart~Cali
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No what I do online makes me a ho, because I don't value my naked body or something to that effect.
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Iheart~Cali;3605428 said:He knows about my camming'; hell he asked if we could do it together.
Other than that, I share odd things here and there if they pertain to the conversation but he's not interested in every person I ever slept with. Who is.
I don't know if he thinks what I do is hoe-ish. I'm guessing not since he's still with me. But I have no problem being monogamous. For my age, my body count is relatively low. Sex with strangers is not my thing. Haven't done the actual one night stand, but I have slept with someone who I didn't know well at all. And it was mad uncomfortable; I was just self-conscious the whole time. So sex is more enjoyable to me if I've gotten to know the person.
On the other hand, I'm not at all self-conscious about people seeing me naked obviously. I just have a phobia of strange men actually being able to touch me. Don't know what that makes me. A hoe? Ok....it is what it is. I can live with it, my hubby can live with it, it works for us. It's whatever.
i've never heard of a cam girl carrying on a healthy monogamous relationship, most girls are usually getting pimped out. good for you.
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Iheart~Cali;3605450 said:No what I do online makes me a ho, because I don't value my naked body or something to that effect.
titties is titties
ass is ass
and pussy is pink
who cares about nudity anymore
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Valentinez A. Kaiser
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deadeye;3605460 said:There's a thread in Donkey about you getting married.
Congratulations.
When was the ceremony?
^^^^^^^^^ This.... and to add does he know about your pics (you know the ones I mean) floating around the internet too?
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Iheart~Cali
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raevanaa;3605457[B said:]i've never heard of a cam girl carrying on a healthy monogamous relationship[/B], most girls are usually getting pimped out. good for you.
How many camgirls do you know?
Trust me most of them lead extremely boring lives. If they are not married or have a live in bf, they are online 24/7 and don't have time to sleep around. I've never heard of them getting pimped out in prostitution and trust me I've known alot.
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Iheart~Cali
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In September, Labor Day weekend. And thank you.deadeye;3605460 said:There's a thread in Donkey about you getting married.
Congratulations.
When was the ceremony?
@VK - I told him the history and what happened cuz he saw Golden all on my FB so there was no way around it.
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Iheart~Cali
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@Deadye - I see the thread.....too long, didn't read. But I can predict. Goes something like HOE-CAM-LAUCE-HOE-LAUCE-WHORE-SLUT.....ok guy. Just say congrats and keep it movin.
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raevanaa;3605461 said:titties is titties
ass is ass
and pussy is pink
who cares about nudity anymore
it's the part were a chick fuck a nigga
and he places pics of her on the net sucking his cock and he shot his load in her face & mouth
thats brings the valid argument she maybe a tad hoeish
would you,self-respecting put yourself in that situation?
no, you can't control what a person does but you can be held acountable for not have a skimish of forethought
fact: most whores have no forethought
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Knives Amilli
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raevanaa;3605124 said:the hoe phase is the phase that usually gets a woman ready for marriage. its the period where as a young woman, you enjoy a few penises to figure out what you like and what you don't. it gives a woman the opportunity to become a bit more experienced and worldly. this is the period where a woman gets her mouth and pussy game up to par so that she'd know how to please a man when it does come time for her to settle down with someone long term.
some women's hoe phases are longer than others. some condone this behavior for the long term and carry it well into their adult years. some turn it into lucrative careers.
some women's hoe phases occur earlier or later. a lot of pretty girls get ran through at a young age because of this. ever wonder why that bad bitchl from middle/high school is ran through by the time she's 21? its cuz she started her hoe phase at like 15.
then there are the women who don't discover their inner hoe until they're in relationships or married already. these are the women who cheat on their husbands at age 41. they should have prolonged their hoe phase a bit longer, that way she'd realize niggas really ain't shit and that she should stay with the one's she's with. this is what happens when niggas cuff virgins and inexperienced chicks. sure, her naivete is attractive, but she isn't wife material because eventually that bitch is going to get curious. its human nature.
I actually agree with you but you fuck it up by saying that bitches should hoe to be "ready for marriage".
Thats kind of insulting to women and a bit misogynistic.
If you like sex, YOU LIKE SEX. Its ass backwards and counter productive to promote sleeping around just so you can "be ready to settle down for some nigga".
Same goes for niggas who say "im getting it out of my system before I get married."
Sex is awesome in and of itself. We shouldn't have to justify it. Shying away from just admitting to liking sex is why we have such a fucked up attitude about it now.
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Iheart~Cali
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So if this was 20 years ago and there was no net, would that make her any less of a ho? Cuz it happens all the time. Only difference is it would be a polaroid in a shoe box under his bed. Oh well. Two people who liked each other got together and had sex, took pictures. Big fuckin deal. I swear people on here act so prudish and self-righteous like they are Amish puritans or some dumb shit. Get over it.
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Valentinez A. Kaiser
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Iheart~Cali;3605485 said:In September, Labor Day weekend. And thank you.
@VK - I told him the history and what happened cuz he saw Golden all on my FB so there was no way around it.
hmmm.....sounds very reluctant of you. But better to come clean than to get caught out there.
Congrats!
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