How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[nex gin]

22 pages??? That can only mean one thing..........feelings...feelings....random ether.....more feelings....lulz.

**pulls up chair**

 

[MrMinimalist]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

 

[DNB1]

If her dad isn't in the picture why wouldn't you want her to call you dad?

Just seen this @Kat

She not my child...she should call her father dad, whether he is a good father/dad or not...

I would die if my kids ever called another man dad....

I earnt that right when I planted the seed...and so did her bio father imo

I don't approve of step parents being referred to as "mum", "dad" unless they raised that child from near birth.

 

[DNB1]

Her father comes around from time to time...not as often as I would if I was estranged from my kids....but thats on him...

She old enough to form her own opinion of him now...she chooses not to keep contact...*shrugs

 

[Peace_79]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I will conditionally cosign this. I have only really messed with chicks that have BC. There are like 20 different methods now and Obama made it cost from "cheap" all the way to FREE 99.

By the same token- lots of shit happens. It doesn't necessarily make the person dumb.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

Normally I would say leave IP outta this, but this time...

I would be bringing home the Power Wheels for dem kids

 

[DNB1]

Is that Mel B?

Scary spice?

I like crazy chicks...I'd give it a go

 

[matt2]

yeah

 

[S2J]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

 

[Peace_79]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

Church. A nigga isn't stupid because a girl ends up pregnant. Shit isn't black and white.

 

[nex gin]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

Same shit I was thinking. I know from personal experience that you can't trust when a chick says she's on BC.

#LessonLearned

 

[S2J]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

Same shit I was thinking. I know from personal experience that you can't trust when a chick says she's on BC.

#LessonLearned

Wow . Talk to the people man, share your gift

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

My situation is a bit different. Seeing as my household is comprised of 9 children. His, Mine and Ours.

My current husband and I dated for a year prior to me ever allowing him to even see my children let alone establish a

relationship. And that time frame was forced upon me due to him (my husband) growing insecure. I did not want my children/daughter under the impression that it was cool to have men in and out of the home.

I also, allowed their father to meet my now husband, Prior to him meeting my children out of respect. Having another man in your child's life can be nerve wrecking for a man "especially" when you have daughters.

My hubby's children lived in another state and were being kept from him at the time, so we didn't have the dating w/children issue most speak of.

However, the drama with his BM and children ensued fairly quickly once he and I married and we started demanding his rights to his children as their father.

To this day, we still deal with issues over that way, and we moved to TX to be closer to them. :-(

I have been the sole provider for the household for many years for many reasons. Is it difficult taking care of 11 people? yes... but if he and I were to separate this very day... would I continue to support "his" bio children, My step-children.

I can say yes.... and it may actually happen for a short period of time, but I doubt their mother would allow it. She despises me and only allows for them to stay here because of their father. Even though she lives in a hotel, she tried to fight for them to not come down and live with us.. Just drama.

Well damn. I'm intrigued like a muthafucca about this. Tell us more? How you living in a hotel and denying an established father rights?? lol

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Lmfaooooo Naa nope!!!!!

 

[nex gin]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

Same shit I was thinking. I know from personal experience that you can't trust when a chick says she's on BC.

#LessonLearned

Wow . Talk to the people man, share your gift

Long story short....I had gotten back together w/ an ex girlfriend that I had previously been w/ for a couple of years. We were fucking around and in the midst I asked her if she was on BC. She said yes. I made the mistake of trusting her and I shot up the club. After I did the deed she admitted that she actually wasn't on BC. She got pregnant.....I accused her of trying to trap me w/ a baby ( although I should've never trusted her word ), she ended up having a miscarriage a couple of months later and I dodged a bullet. I'm leaving out a lot of details, but that's basically what happened. I should've never took her word from the jump....even though I did have a past w/ her.

 

[DarcSkies]

Shut up @kat

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

Normally I would say leave IP outta this, but this time...

I would be bringing home the Power Wheels for dem kids

Bruh! Don't be posting bad bitches like Mel B using a sledgehammer in an an fight and shit .

Let's keep this thing fair bruh.

We talking Mortal baby mama's here.

 

[jetlifebih]

Haters gon hate.....

Sucka niggas gon suck....

 

[Reesey]

My situation is a bit different. Seeing as my household is comprised of 9 children. His, Mine and Ours.

My current husband and I dated for a year prior to me ever allowing him to even see my children let alone establish a

relationship. And that time frame was forced upon me due to him (my husband) growing insecure. I did not want my children/daughter under the impression that it was cool to have men in and out of the home.

I also, allowed their father to meet my now husband, Prior to him meeting my children out of respect. Having another man in your child's life can be nerve wrecking for a man "especially" when you have daughters.

My hubby's children lived in another state and were being kept from him at the time, so we didn't have the dating w/children issue most speak of.

However, the drama with his BM and children ensued fairly quickly once he and I married and we started demanding his rights to his children as their father.

To this day, we still deal with issues over that way, and we moved to TX to be closer to them. :-(

I have been the sole provider for the household for many years for many reasons. Is it difficult taking care of 11 people? yes... but if he and I were to separate this very day... would I continue to support "his" bio children, My step-children.

I can say yes.... and it may actually happen for a short period of time, but I doubt their mother would allow it. She despises me and only allows for them to stay here because of their father. Even though she lives in a hotel, she tried to fight for them to not come down and live with us.. Just drama.

Well damn. I'm intrigued like a muthafucca about this. Tell us more? How you living in a hotel and denying an established father rights?? lol

It is very difficult for fathers to gain full custody of their children. The burden of proof is on the father. He has to

prove that she is an unfit parent and living in a hotel does not constitute being unfit.

If that were the case then every mother/father with children living in homeless shelters would have their children taken away.

It just doesn't work that way. So... she took us to court to try and fight for them to stay with her.

We did not win full custody, but we did receive temporary custody until she is on her feet.

 

[T. Sanford]

Like @Pico said I try to avoid chicks that have kids. Too much drama behind it, I've learned my lesson

#NoKidsLife#

 

[yoo]

Single mothers ready to give they life to Christ and fuck the fuck buddies in the motel and shit

This stood out for not making sense in a thread full of not making sense.