How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[desertrain10]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

My father played a big role in helping to take care of my 2 older brothers

He still lends them money and they are well into their thirties

Their biological dad was in their lives but he had fallen on hard times and struggling with alcohol addiction when my parents first met

He and my mom are now divorced...But i can safely say, he wouldn't trade in the relationship he's built with my brothers for the world

He fell in love with my mom and consequently grew to love her sons

Can't say whether it was the smart or manly thing to do... but my brothers were appreciative and still are grateful to this day...that's all that matters, right?

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

I have once....man i used to drive this lil nigga to Gary, IN every fucking week.,.so he could spend the weekend w his father s family...but no complaints u love a woman u love everything bout her...plus lil man needed a male role model at the time

His role model was his daddy not you.....for all the guys in here put yourself in the shoes of the fathers, what if other niggas was playing daddy to ya son june-ya (bird man voice)or daughter

What if ya baby moms moved in 2 niggas in a 6 year span wit ya lil mans or lil girl

pops was nowhere to be found, ....i wouldn't feel right smashing and being w his moms all the time then the kicking the lil niggas fort down

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Co sign, i don't have a problem with single mothers just the devil spawns/undesirables they created it.

 

[Kat]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

My father played a big role in helping to take care of my 2 older brothers

He still lends them money and they are well into their thirties

Their biological dad was in their lives but he had fallen on hard times and struggling with alcohol addiction when my parents first met

He and my mom are now divorced...But i can safely say, he wouldn't trade in the relationship he's built with my brothers for the world

He fell in love with my mom and consequently grew to love her sons

Can't say whether it was the smart or manly thing to do... but my brothers were appreciative and still are grateful to this day...that's all that matters, right?

"Manly" is to follow your heart regardless of outside opinions or judgment.

 

[jetlifebih]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

My father played a big role in helping to take care of my 2 older brothers

He still lends them money and they are well into their thirties

Their biological dad was in their lives but he had fallen on hard times and struggling with alcohol addiction when my parents first met

He and my mom are now divorced...But i can safely say, he wouldn't trade in the relationship he's built with my brothers for the world

He fell in love with my mom and consequently grew to love her sons

Can't say whether it was the smart or manly thing to do... but my brothers were appreciative and still are grateful to this day...that's all that matters, right?

"Manly" is to follow your heart regardless of outside opinions or judgment.

How you know?

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

My father played a big role in helping to take care of my 2 older brothers

He still lends them money and they are well into their thirties

Their biological dad was in their lives but he had fallen on hard times and struggling with alcohol addiction when my parents first met

He and my mom are now divorced...But i can safely say, he wouldn't trade in the relationship he's built with my brothers for the world

He fell in love with my mom and consequently grew to love her sons

Can't say whether it was the smart or manly thing to do... but my brothers were appreciative and still are grateful to this day...that's all that matters, right?

"Manly" is to follow your heart regardless of outside opinions or judgment.

How you know?

lmao checkmate

 

[CP203]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

My father played a big role in helping to take care of my 2 older brothers

He still lends them money and they are well into their thirties

Their biological dad was in their lives but he had fallen on hard times and struggling with alcohol addiction when my parents first met

He and my mom are now divorced...But i can safely say, he wouldn't trade in the relationship he's built with my brothers for the world

He fell in love with my mom and consequently grew to love her sons

Can't say whether it was the smart or manly thing to do... but my brothers were appreciative and still are grateful to this day...that's all that matters, right?

"Manly" is to follow your heart regardless of outside opinions or judgment.

How you know?

chill bruh apparently women have the manual for what a real man is supposed to be

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Why Mexican Max banned?

 

[Kat]

Cause I said so..would you care to fight?

 

[Carthaginian]

Cause I said so..would you care to fight?

Very much so. I've come to believe a banning is what I need to rid myself of my addiction to this site...

What is it, then...handbags at dawn?

Shall we?

 

[Kat]

Cause I said so..would you care to fight?

Very much so. I've come to believe a banning is what I need to rid myself of my addiction to this site...

What is it, then...handbags at dawn?

Shall we?

You ain't going anywhere.

 

[jetlifebih]

Cause I said so..would you care to fight?

 

[jetlifebih]

U peep I had to fix my belt while talking shit in the first clip, fasten my belt in the second clip , and tell her to pop off on the third clip

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Used to talk to a dude whose sister had depression really bad and her husband was deployed overseas...he took her son/his nephew one summer when the mom was going through it. Spent mad days at the park and rec center. Never watched so many episodes of teen titans in my life

 

[aka_OG]

anyone who comes to the IC for life advice instead of entertainment needs to drink a bleach smoothie

 

[DarcSkies]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

Definition of COGNITIVE DISSONANCE

: psychological conflict resulting from incongruous beliefs and attitudes held simultaneously

***Generally seen in Crackers and Females

So now you are a damn psychiatrist.

DEFINITION of Cognitive distortions: thoughts that cause individuals to perceive reality incorrectly.

**Generally seen in fuck niggas and their constituents

Does it take a psychiatrist to know what Cognitive Dissonance is or does it just take somebody with the necessary vocabulary? And you meant psychologist -as this conversation has little to do with medicine.

BUT...if I were a psychologist I'd tell you that your accusation of Cognitive Distortion was what we in the field term "Projection." As well as ironic.

YOU are taking this conversation as a personal and direct attack. Or are we to pretend it's a coincidence that the people catching the most feelings in here are SINGLE MOTHERS -_-

No need to get mad at me. All I did was say a man taking up another man's responsibilities is GENERALLY a mistake. Cognitive Distortion has prevented YOU from absorbing I also said sometimes people turn out OK with their mistakes. You even birthed one.

 

[Chi Snow]

Shit is getting personal

Good.....

 

[Kat]

Smh darc.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

 

[scorpio4lfe]

My father played a big role in helping to take care of my 2 older brothers

He still lends them money and they are well into their thirties

Their biological dad was in their lives but he had fallen on hard times and struggling with alcohol addiction when my parents first met

He and my mom are now divorced...But i can safely say, he wouldn't trade in the relationship he's built with my brothers for the world

He fell in love with my mom and consequently grew to love her sons

Can't say whether it was the smart or manly thing to do... but my brothers were appreciative and still are grateful to this day...that's all that matters, right?[/quote]

That is all that matters. Your brothers are probably better men because of your father's influence and I bet their father appreciates your dads presence in their lives.