How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[scorpio4lfe]

How many of you fatherless negros were raised by single mothers or had a step father? By the way you are talking either your mother didnt beat ur ass enough or the father that raised you really didnt give a shit about you.

How many of you fuck niggas have children but are not with the mother? Are you the ain't shit niggas that knocked up these birds, you keep referring to? Alot of ya'll are so fraud its sickening!

 

[MsSouthern]

@max is in here talking all this shit

This idiot lives at home with his parents , no college credit let alone a degree , and has no job. Talking about I might have one in 2 weeks . Go sit your loser ass all the way down over there

Lol

You don't even live in the real world ... Yet have an opinion about real life

SO YOU SAYING THAT MAX IS THE ONLY MEXICAN THAT DOESNT HAVE A JOB???

I know your reading comprehension is slow .... But that is not at all what I said

Quit being messy

 

[CP203]

what max do ?

 

[DarcSkies]

I have a step-daughter I raised since she was 1.5. She is now 19. She gets treated the same as my own kids.

It takes a certain amount of real nigga

STOP RIGHT THERE PILGRIM... Dont get preemptively defensive and try to make yourself out to be some kind of "real nigga" as a way to head off the impending "you a sucker ass nigga" posts.

You're not a "real nigga" you're a nigga that made a dumbass decision that happened to get away with it in relatively good order.

Just like gambling. Most people should NOT be gambling their fortune like a fuckin idiot. BUt there's always that ONE guy out of 100 that gambles and hits it big.

That guy isn't smart. He's just an anomaly. YOu wouldn't say, "MAN! U BET YOUR CHILD'S COLLEGE FUND ON A 12TH ROUND KNOCKOUT AND WON A SHIT TON OF MONEY! YOU A REAL NIGGA!"

You'd simply think the guy was a fuckin idiot for risking that much but lucky to have got what he wanted out of it in the end. You was just lucky enough to not get taken advantage of. YOu left your car windows down and your trunk unlocked in the middle of a rough ass neighborhood called "Deez HoesVille," came back to your car over night and your life wasn't on cement blocks. U aint a real nigga. U a LUCKY nigga.

 

[CP203]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

 

[DarcSkies]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

Definition of COGNITIVE DISSONANCE

: psychological conflict resulting from incongruous beliefs and attitudes held simultaneously

***Generally seen in Crackers and Females

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Thread turned out to be hilarious as hell wit some of these responses.

 

[scorpio4lfe]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

 

[CP203]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

and when all of em were pregnant it was always the same thing either way they went with the decisions i was good, I'm good i take care of mine i wish one of them would try to have somebody else come play daddy. and i openly admit I'm not shit i don't care I'm not out here lying to bitches. and in my whole life my mom never brought a man around, i always asked her about it and she always said she was focus on money and doing the best job possible with me and up till the day she died i called her a weirdo for it and the premise of the thread was taken care of kid that wasn't yours, so y'all emotional ass heffas get the fuck out your feelings

 

[scorpio4lfe]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

Definition of COGNITIVE DISSONANCE

: psychological conflict resulting from incongruous beliefs and attitudes held simultaneously

***Generally seen in Crackers and Females

So now you are a damn psychiatrist.

DEFINITION of Cognitive distortions: thoughts that cause individuals to perceive reality incorrectly.

**Generally seen in fuck niggas and their constituents

 

[scorpio4lfe]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

and when all of em were pregnant it was always the same thing either way they went with the decisions i was good, I'm good i take care of mine i wish one of them would try to have somebody else come play daddy. and i openly admit I'm not shit i don't care I'm not out here lying to bitches. and in my whole life my mom never brought a man around, i always asked her about it and she always said she was focus on money and doing the best job possible with me and up till the day she died i called her a weirdo for it and the premise of the thread was taken care of kid that wasn't yours, so y'all emotional ass heffas get the fuck out your feelings

Ummm I don't know you sir but apparently this hit you pretty hard. I agree with your mother as I apply the same principal. Sorry about your loss. I had no idea.

 

[CP203]

so bitches want extra credit for being single moms aka mommy and daddy and at the same saying a real man takes care of someone else's kid smh

That's what's wrong with u niggas. Comprehension is all the way fucked up. I never said a real man takes care of someone elses kid. What I said wwaaaassssss....How are you going to downplay an environment you were raised in? Alot of you were probably raised by a step father yet you wanna act like dating a women with children is so beneath you. What about your mother? Yes it's a choice to date a woman/man with children and you are entitled to it but don't degrade those who make that choice. Especially if u were raised in that environment.

How you going to say if someone is a single mother this must mean she fucked with ain't shit niggas when you have multiple baby mothers running around thus making them single mothers? Are you an ain't shit nigga?? Shit is stupid. Sometimes relationships don't work. That's life. Point.Blank.Period.

and when all of em were pregnant it was always the same thing either way they went with the decisions i was good, I'm good i take care of mine i wish one of them would try to have somebody else come play daddy. and i openly admit I'm not shit i don't care I'm not out here lying to bitches. and in my whole life my mom never brought a man around, i always asked her about it and she always said she was focus on money and doing the best job possible with me and up till the day she died i called her a weirdo for it and the premise of the thread was taken care of kid that wasn't yours, so y'all emotional ass heffas get the fuck out your feelings

Ummm I don't know you sir but apparently this hit you pretty hard. I agree with your mother as I apply the same principal. Sorry about your loss. I had no idea.

because all the attitudes and shit I'm saying in here, i learned from her so everything I'm saying in here that woman taught me

 

[Dupac]

Wow, I don't think it's right to knock either side...

I mean I was fortunate to start my family with my wife, but life deals you rough hands

if I experienced some tragedies that put me in a home with another child that I didn't create, and I was comfortable where I was at and who I was with, I'd make the best of it

I can't knock anybody who chooses to make the best of the situation they're in...

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

I have once....man i used to drive this lil nigga to Gary, IN every fucking week.,.so he could spend the weekend w his father s family...but no complaints u love a woman u love everything bout her...plus lil man needed a male role model at the time

 

[Bussy_Getta]

I have once....man i used to drive this lil nigga to Gary, IN every fucking week.,.so he could spend the weekend w his father s family...but no complaints u love a woman u love everything bout her...plus lil man needed a male role model at the time

Lmfaooooo naaaaaa nigga

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Nan that was before I found the league of shadows

 

[Chi Snow]

Don't worry single mothers of the IC, Chi love the kids

*Disclaimer: they can't be lil cock blockers tho*

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Damn @ niggas willing to submit themselves to 10+ years of their s/o's mistakes because they "love" them at the time.

 

[jetlifebih]

I have once....man i used to drive this lil nigga to Gary, IN every fucking week.,.so he could spend the weekend w his father s family...but no complaints u love a woman u love everything bout her...plus lil man needed a male role model at the time

His role model was his daddy not you.....for all the guys in here put yourself in the shoes of the fathers, what if other niggas was playing daddy to ya son june-ya (bird man voice)or daughter

What if ya baby moms moved in 2 niggas in a 6 year span wit ya lil mans or lil girl

 

[Carthaginian]

Lol @ the emotion in this thread. It seems as though the battlelines drawn here are between people who hate kids, people who want you to raise their kids and people who are allergic to single mothers.

Look, having a preference either way doesn't make anyone a bad person.

Some guys just feel more comfortable raising their own, thats just it. Call it...a different personality if you want. I certainly don't think it makes a guy less of anything.

By the same token, single mothers aren't diseased, parasitic ridden things to be avoided at all costs. Some of them are good women, and deserve good men.

Too much anger in here. Not enough perspective.