How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[Kat]

*raises hand*

raised by a man that wasnt my father...

raising a boy that isnt my son..

the only males that are not men in this equation is the absent fathers.. whether u choose to deal wit a women with or without child is a matter of preference..

to be honest.. majority of niggas cant take care of their goddamn selves so good for the child..

jus dont let ur eyes loose sight of reality.. the same niggas sayin single mothers aint shit probably aint shit niggas themselves... give it a couple years.. single mothers is gonna be all ur able to pull. lol

GOAT.

Now gimme my feelings.

 

[MsSouthern]

@max is in here talking all this shit

This idiot lives at home with his parents , no college credit let alone a degree , and has no job. Talking about I might have one in 2 weeks . Go sit your loser ass all the way down over there

Lol

You don't even live in the real world ... Yet have an opinion about real life

 

[Kat]

@max is in here talking all this shit

This idiot lives at home with his parents , no college credit let alone a degree , and has no job. Talking about I might have one in 2 weeks . Go sit your loser ass all the way down over there

Lol

You don't even live in the real world ... Yet have an opinion about real life

Mannnnnnnnnnnnnn.

Lmao.

 

[YC11]

Single moms... if they were hot, bangable, I would get in short term relationship/friends with benefits relationship with them... but starting a LIFE with them? Not my thing.

I want my own kids. I want my own family. Keep it clean... for as long as I can.

If in the future, divorce happens and I have a kid and I date other women who have kid(s) that is a different story.

But single moms as in those who got knocked up and dumped by deadbeats who ran off... HELL NO!!! That's too grimey... everything will be glazed with a tint of sadness... I'm a happy guy. I don't want any Jerry Springer type hood shit in my life, keep it clean.

With that said, what BOSSExcellence said is some pretty real shit.

But still no.

 

[Chi-Town Bully]

My wife did it with the kid I brought into the relationship, If the roles were reversed I would do the same considering how I feel about her

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Maybe i'm just selfish but i couldn't come over and see some nigglet hogging the tv watching the backyardians. I'd become furious.

 

[deadeye]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

Damn Russell.

Dude's from my hometown too.

Richmond definitely takes a loss for this.

Better than the caccette he was married to

IDK bruh.

Definitely better if Ciara didn't get knocked up by a bum ass dude, but I think this is worse.

Not just because Ciara has a kid, but because of what someone else posted earlier.

That her judgment is so fucked up that she even decided to have a kid with a dude who already has multiple children by different women..... but Russell thinks it's a good idea to wife a chick with that mentality???

To each is own I suppose.

Couldn't be me though.

Hell, if Future poured his heart out to her and dropped down on his knees and proposed....she'd probably be dumb enough to take him back.

Then again, Russell's a polite dude.....so he might be trying to figure out a way to get out of it without hurting her feelings or something.

I don't think it's a judgement call, but she may be emotionally retarded

That's just as bad.....if not worse.

 

[jetlifebih]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

Lol

Bruh...

I said a friendship at the very least

And by friendship i meant a relationship of mutual affection between two ppl

Doesn't mean they have to be the best of friends, share the same bed, share secrets, etc

I would just want my child to feel comfortable sharing a household with the guy; comfortable asking him for advice; if we go on a family outting i don't want it to awkward

Understandable, but relationships aren't guarenteed to last, so is it worth the psychological problems that may rise from having 4+ step fathers?

 

[MARIO_DRO]

@max is in here talking all this shit

This idiot lives at home with his parents , no college credit let alone a degree , and has no job. Talking about I might have one in 2 weeks . Go sit your loser ass all the way down over there

Lol

You don't even live in the real world ... Yet have an opinion about real life

SO YOU SAYING THAT MAX IS THE ONLY MEXICAN THAT DOESNT HAVE A JOB???

 

[deadeye]

"Im a Mommy first! And if a man can't expect my kids he can't have me"

Biiiiitch....can't stand bitter bitches

Accept*

Lol you the biggest bitter bitch in this bitch.

get one them old fat dudes to save u lol

@kat .

I'll save you honey.

 

[Kat]

you would though.

 

[riddlerap]

I have a step-daughter I raised since she was 1.5. She is now 19. She gets treated the same as my own kids.

It takes a certain amount of real nigga minerals to be able to commit to that.

Some will never be man enough to take on that responsibility in the name of love...*shrugs

That's cool i guess to invest in another nigga's responsibility but don't declare it takes a real man/nigga to do it.

Or you invest in the woman you love and accept the child she already has as part of the package.

Like I said, it takes a man to be able to do that in the name of love...

your bad for even getting to the point of love with someone who already had a kid. but props on raising them now, i couldnt do it.

 

[riddlerap]

Plus when I lived with pops, he always took in kids from the neighborhood when they parents was all fucked up and shit and let us bring our friends to whatever we did (movies/bowling/theme parks/whatever) he was always breakin bread. I'd probably do the same if my daughter had friends in need or somethin

this scenario is fine, its not the same as if you get with someone who had a kid from another person.

 

[deadeye]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

Actually, I wouldn't be surprised if some of them probably do and don't know it.

Chicks'll be so relieved to find a man who "likes kids" that they'll be oblivious to all the warning signs.

 

[Chi Snow]

@max is in here talking all this shit

This idiot lives at home with his parents , no college credit let alone a degree , and has no job. Talking about I might have one in 2 weeks . Go sit your loser ass all the way down over there

Lol

You don't even live in the real world ... Yet have an opinion about real life

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Smh yall still in here cryin bout these bastard pickney???

 

[deadeye]

you would though.

 

[riddlerap]

@"Melanin_Enriched " @CP203

 

[DNB1]

Smh yall still in here cryin bout these bastard pickney???

Lmao @ the voice I read this in...

Haha

 

[MsSouthern]

Max you should have known better threatening me faggot