How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[jetlifebih]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

Damn Russell.

Dude's from my hometown too.

Richmond definitely takes a loss for this.

Better than the caccette he was married to

IDK bruh.

Definitely better if Ciara didn't get knocked up by a bum ass dude, but I think this is worse.

Not just because Ciara has a kid, but because of what someone else posted earlier.

That her judgment is so fucked up that she even decided to have a kid with a dude who already has multiple children by different women..... but Russell thinks it's a good idea to wife a chick with that mentality???

To each is own I suppose.

Couldn't be me though.

Hell, if Future poured his heart out to her and dropped down on his knees and proposed....she'd probably be dumb enough to take him back.

Then again, Russell's a polite dude.....so he might be trying to figure out a way to get out of it without hurting her feelings or something.

I don't think it's a judgement call, but she may be emotionally retarded

 

[Max.]

so one of my baby moms has another kid I'm supposed to love em like my own and take care of em just because i love my baby mom and thats my child sibling?????????

How can you be in relationship with a woman, procreate with her yet have no relationship with her child??

Let's not forget he got like 8 baby mamas all over the world..his say on this topic is far from ordinary.

I mean in the next thread over he's saying bitches are only good for fucking so it's obvious he's not connecting on the same levels as the average person.

AWWWW STFU!

U JUST MAD THAT HE AINT TAKE CARE OF YOU AND LIL KAT!

BACK TO SECTION 8 YOU GO!

Dead lol...bitch was writing on his wall n bossboos she looking for a comeup lmaooo...

Shit is so sad

 

[Kat]

"Im a Mommy first! And if a man can't expect my kids he can't have me"

Biiiiitch....can't stand bitter bitches

Accept*

Lol you the biggest bitter bitch in this bitch.

 

[jetlifebih]

The ones I've dealt didn't get far enough where I got close to the kid(s).

Don't gotta get close, how do you think the lil jit feels? Or thinks after meeting or just seeing or hearing about 3+ different guys?

Nobody talking about bitches that try to make every dude that says a few nice words a daddy to their kids.

We're talking an actual connection with a woman (or MAN) that has kids from a previous relationship.

But I guess that's too difficult to comprehend.

No it's not "too difficult to understand"

So the next nig nog after tar tar won't meet your daughter?? If he does that will be 3 men your daught has known/looked at as an in home authoritative figure that's a male....what are you teaching her Katherine @Kat ....

In 18 years it's possible to have 4-5 "actual connection" relationships...that's confusing to a child who doesn't already know what or about relationships

But back on the subject....

Cover your ass....we all do dumb shit...just make sure it doesn't surface

There won't be another man in my child's life.

Que gif

"Adonbelievit "

 

[Kat]

Believe what you like.

 

[Ajackson17]

Plus when I lived with pops, he always took in kids from the neighborhood when they parents was all fucked up and shit and let us bring our friends to whatever we did (movies/bowling/theme parks/whatever) he was always breakin bread. I'd probably do the same if my daughter had friends in need or somethin

You're dad is a good dude , my mom used to do the same shit, always paid for one of my friends to go wherever with me

Yeah my dad is the same way. He hates kids being mistreated.

 

[Max.]

"Im a Mommy first! And if a man can't expect my kids he can't have me"

Biiiiitch....can't stand bitter bitches

Accept*

Lol you the biggest bitter bitch in this bitch.

Typo..

I'm happy..I should have a job n a few weeks... Ur 40 taking chest pics for attentiom ..,u got 39 dms in ur inbox get one them old fat dudes to save u lol...life comes at u fast...u went from getm wal mart rings to spending weekends alone

Sad

 

[Kat]

Translation please.

 

[jetlifebih]

White excellence

 

[Carthaginian]

It would be very difficult for me to do it, for reasons that have been posted already, and discussed here ad nauseam.

For me, any child I raise has to be a part of my lineage. Seeing another man's kid on a daily basis will be a constant reminder, fair or not, that the woman I'm with loved another man enough to bring his "rugrat" (to steal a term) into the world.

I will say that the decision will largely be based on the quality of woman.

 

[Max.]

Translation please.

Ur a 40 year old white bitch w/ no friends that rides a bus..

 

[desertrain10]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

 

[jetlifebih]

It would be very difficult for me to do it, for reasons that have been posted already, and discussed here ad nauseam.

For me, any child I raise has to be a part of my lineage. Seeing another man's kid on a daily basis will be a constant reminder, fair or not, that the woman I'm with loved another man enough to bring his "rugrat" (to steal a term) into the world.

I will say that the decision will largely be based on the quality of woman.

For every woman with a child there is a quality woman with out one...don't be desperate or trust a big butt and a smile...

 

[jetlifebih]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

 

[D. Morgan]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

SEE

 

[jetlifebih]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

SEE

That nigga ain't went platinum since boy fuck you mean....he been getting boo'd out of arenas and accused of having a stunt double...and most of his fans have 16 yo daughters

 

[MsSouthern]

Just like parenting isnt for everybody

Step parenting isn't either

My man has 2 kids and I have 1. We each know the boundaries

I would never try to replace their mom ...and he would never try to replace my sons dad

But we both treat each other's kids as our own. Nothing wrong that.

If it's not for you then... Don't date folks with kids . But acting like they have the plague or something is childish.

Especially since I'm sure a nice amount of posters either came up in a single parent home or are not married to their child's other parent

*!Basing my last paragraph off of many posts I've read here *

 

[D. Morgan]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

SEE

That nigga ain't went platinum since boy fuck you mean....he been getting boo'd out of arenas and accused of having a stunt double...and most of his fans have 16 yo daughters

And R. Kelly is fans of those 16 yr old daughters!!

LLS

 

[CapitalB]

*raises hand*

raised by a man that wasnt my father...

raising a boy that isnt my son..

the only males that are not men in this equation is the absent fathers.. whether u choose to deal wit a women with or without child is a matter of preference..

to be honest.. majority of niggas cant take care of their goddamn selves so good for the child..

jus dont let ur eyes loose sight of reality.. the same niggas sayin single mothers aint shit probably aint shit niggas themselves... give it a couple years.. single mothers is gonna be all ur able to pull. lol

 

[desertrain10]

Lol

Not every parent who is no longer with their child's mother/father is looking for someone to take on the role of coparent because they had a child with a deadbeat

I'm not a parent, but i assume for most they just want someone who'll at least try to establish a friendship with the child ...especially if the relationship progresses

Can't see any good parent would want to date someone who wants nothing to do with their child

I've never dated anyone with a child but im not against, especially if i find myself single after 30...i know finding a man with no kids at that point is going to be difficult...plus i love kids

I don't see no black woman wanting to be with a nigga who wanted to be "friends" with children...you know that pedo shit is shunned in our community

Lol

Bruh...

I said a friendship at the very least

And by friendship i meant a relationship of mutual affection between two ppl

Doesn't mean they have to be the best of friends, share the same bed, share secrets, etc

I would just want my child to feel comfortable sharing a household with the guy; comfortable asking him for advice; if we go on a family outting i don't want it to awkward