How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[deadeye]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

Damn Russell.

smh

Dude's from my hometown too.

Richmond definitely takes a loss for this.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

There's really no future in this...

 

[BEAM]

How bout yall just not get into relationships with bitches/niggas that have kids?!?

And for yall that got kids stop gettin mad cause people don't wanna accept your fucking rugrats.

@Kat , why is it GOAT that someone else is willing to take up another nigga's responsibility? Co-parenting a child that isn't yours is light-years beyond most anything even the best of friends could "help" someone with..

People are trying to attribute such willingness to being "real" or "good," but I'm inclined to believe that we need a more.. accurate adjective here. Putting up with bullshyt ( not saying the kid is bullshyt, but having to help take care of them is ), even out of love, can't fairly be categorized as "real" or "good," imho..

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

There's really no future in this...

 

[jetlifebih]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

Damn Russell.

Dude's from my hometown too.

Richmond definitely takes a loss for this.

Better than the caccette he was married to

 

[Kat]

How bout yall just not get into relationships with bitches/niggas that have kids?!?

And for yall that got kids stop gettin mad cause people don't wanna accept your fucking rugrats.

@Kat , why is it GOAT that someone else is willing to take up another nigga's responsibility? Co-parenting a child that isn't yours is light-years beyond most anything even the best of friends could "help" someone with..

People are trying to attribute such willingness to being "real" or "good," but I'm inclined to believe that we need a more.. accurate adjective here. Putting up with bullshyt ( not saying the kid is bullshyt, but having to help take care of them is ), even out of love, can't fairly be categorized as "real" or "good," imho..

I never said it made a man better or realer, I said it took a special kind of man and that's true imo.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

The ones I've dealt didn't get far enough where I got close to the kid(s).

 

[jetlifebih]

Special ed...

 

[jetlifebih]

The ones I've dealt didn't get far enough where I got close to the kid(s).

Don't gotta get close, how do you think the lil jit feels? Or thinks after meeting or just seeing or hearing about 3+ different guys?

 

[deadeye]

Can't do it.

I know some fine single moms too. Be smashing.

But can't take it past that.

Would be walking w the stale face like

Damn Russell.

Dude's from my hometown too.

Richmond definitely takes a loss for this.

Better than the caccette he was married to

IDK bruh.

Definitely better if Ciara didn't get knocked up by a bum ass dude, but I think this is worse.

Not just because Ciara has a kid, but because of what someone else posted earlier.

That her judgment is so fucked up that she even decided to have a kid with a dude who already has multiple children by different women..... but Russell thinks it's a good idea to wife a chick with that mentality???

To each is own I suppose.

Couldn't be me though.

Hell, if Future poured his heart out to her and dropped down on his knees and proposed....she'd probably be dumb enough to take him back.

Then again, Russell's a polite dude.....so he might be trying to figure out a way to get out of it without hurting her feelings or something.

 

[Chi Snow]

I'm glad I don't have any problems taking care of other ppls kids

The more the merrier imo

 

[Kat]

The ones I've dealt didn't get far enough where I got close to the kid(s).

Don't gotta get close, how do you think the lil jit feels? Or thinks after meeting or just seeing or hearing about 3+ different guys?

Nobody talking about bitches that try to make every dude that says a few nice words a daddy to their kids.

We're talking an actual connection with a woman (or MAN) that has kids from a previous relationship.

But I guess that's too difficult to comprehend.

 

[MARIO_DRO]

MY SIDE CHICK HAS A 4 Y/O

HE'S A COOL KID, BUT I COULDNT STAND HIS DADDY IN HIGHSCHOOL..

I WAS THINKING ABOUT TRADING IN MY WIFE FOR HER AND HIM

 

[MARIO_DRO]

so one of my baby moms has another kid I'm supposed to love em like my own and take care of em just because i love my baby mom and thats my child sibling?????????

How can you be in relationship with a woman, procreate with her yet have no relationship with her child??

Let's not forget he got like 8 baby mamas all over the world..his say on this topic is far from ordinary.

I mean in the next thread over he's saying bitches are only good for fucking so it's obvious he's not connecting on the same levels as the average person.

AWWWW STFU!

U JUST MAD THAT HE AINT TAKE CARE OF YOU AND LIL KAT!

BACK TO SECTION 8 YOU GO!

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

@Wuwop

Reason why I never gotten close with them in the 1st place. My main focus was on the mother, and seeing how things would work out.

Never mentioned or pressured the mothers to introduce me to their kid(s). I left that up to them wheneva they felt ready. Lil "Hi" here & there, but that's about it. But never to the point where they got attached. Which is what I would bring up to who I was dealing wit. It's not cool for a mother to bring several differentry guys around a child and letting get attached. Espevilly at a young age.

 

[Kat]

so one of my baby moms has another kid I'm supposed to love em like my own and take care of em just because i love my baby mom and thats my child sibling?????????

How can you be in relationship with a woman, procreate with her yet have no relationship with her child??

Let's not forget he got like 8 baby mamas all over the world..his say on this topic is far from ordinary.

I mean in the next thread over he's saying bitches are only good for fucking so it's obvious he's not connecting on the same levels as the average person.

AWWWW STFU!

U JUST MAD THAT HE AINT TAKE CARE OF YOU AND LIL KAT!

BACK TO SECTION 8 YOU GO!

this isn't donkey..foh.

 

[jetlifebih]

The ones I've dealt didn't get far enough where I got close to the kid(s).

Don't gotta get close, how do you think the lil jit feels? Or thinks after meeting or just seeing or hearing about 3+ different guys?

Nobody talking about bitches that try to make every dude that says a few nice words a daddy to their kids.

We're talking an actual connection with a woman (or MAN) that has kids from a previous relationship.

But I guess that's too difficult to comprehend.

No it's not "too difficult to understand"

So the next nig nog after tar tar won't meet your daughter?? If he does that will be 3 men your daught has known/looked at as an in home authoritative figure that's a male....what are you teaching her Katherine @Kat ....

In 18 years it's possible to have 4-5 "actual connection" relationships...that's confusing to a child who doesn't already know what or about relationships

But back on the subject....

Cover your ass....we all do dumb shit...just make sure it doesn't surface

 

[Kat]

The ones I've dealt didn't get far enough where I got close to the kid(s).

Don't gotta get close, how do you think the lil jit feels? Or thinks after meeting or just seeing or hearing about 3+ different guys?

Nobody talking about bitches that try to make every dude that says a few nice words a daddy to their kids.

We're talking an actual connection with a woman (or MAN) that has kids from a previous relationship.

But I guess that's too difficult to comprehend.

No it's not "too difficult to understand"

So the next nig nog after tar tar won't meet your daughter?? If he does that will be 3 men your daught has known/looked at as an in home authoritative figure that's a male....what are you teaching her Katherine @Kat ....

In 18 years it's possible to have 4-5 "actual connection" relationships...that's confusing to a child who doesn't already know what or about relationships

But back on the subject....

Cover your ass....we all do dumb shit...just make sure it doesn't surface

There won't be another man in my child's life.

 

[Max.]

"Im a Mommy first! And if a man can't expect my kids he can't have me"

Biiiiitch....can't stand bitter bitches

 

[D. Morgan]

in this thread people have been getting FUCKED