How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[9TRAY]

most of yall got step parents and wouldnt be a step parent. smh

Speak for yourself, Broski. I come from a 2 Parent home, never Divorced / Seperated. After my Old Man passed in '99, my O.G. ain't re-marry. She nevcer will

 

[CP203]

so one of my baby moms has another kid I'm supposed to love em like my own and take care of em just because i love my baby mom and thats my child sibling?????????

How can you be in relationship with a woman, procreate with her yet have no relationship with her child??

because that child is not my responsibility

So do you expect your to have a relationship with all your outside children?

nope i always tell women i deal with my kids are none of their concern

 

[Kat]

yea like i said, a kid she has with another is not my responsibility

It's not about it being your responsibility, it's about loving a person so much you accept EVERYTHING that they come with..children, mental baggage, financial baggage, whatever.

I mean what's the worst that could happen? You become a father figure to an innocent child in need?

You sound cold and heartless...but least you honest, I guess.

 

[taeboo]

so one of my baby moms has another kid I'm supposed to love em like my own and take care of em just because i love my baby mom and thats my child sibling?????????

How can you be in relationship with a woman, procreate with her yet have no relationship with her child??

because that child is not my responsibility

So do you expect your to have a relationship with all your outside children?

nope i always tell women i deal with my kids are none of their concern

Interesting...

 

[CP203]

yea like i said, a kid she has with another is not my responsibility

It's not about it being your responsibility, it's about loving a person so much you accept EVERYTHING that they come with..children, mental baggage, financial baggage, whatever.

I mean what's the worst that could happen? You become a father figure to an innocent child in need?

You sound cold and heartless...but least you honest, I guess.

LMAO I'm bout to try that, tell a chick you love me like you say you do then take care of my kids

 

[Kat]

Smh...moving right along.

 

[CP203]

yea you see how stupid it sounds

 

[deadeye]

On a side note, R&B singer Ciara dumb ass fuck for messin' with Future in the first place. She didn't have have no kids, he had multiple kids by multiple women, she got knocked up by him and now just another babymother.

With that said, a lot of women mess with men that they shouldn't of in the first place so that makes me question their lack of common sense. To me, raising somebody elses child is like cleaning up someone's mess. Whether the father is around or not.

To me she's in the same category as Lauren London now.

Bird status.

 

[taeboo]

yea like i said, a kid she has with another is not my responsibility

It's not about it being your responsibility, it's about loving a person so much you accept EVERYTHING that they come with..children, mental baggage, financial baggage, whatever.

I mean what's the worst that could happen? You become a father figure to an innocent child in need?

You sound cold and heartless...but least you honest, I guess.

LMAO I'm bout to try that, tell a chick you love me like you say you do then take care of my kids

She should.

 

[D. Morgan]

Yall been going back and forth with this shit for 3 pages and still haven't gotten each others points.

Just leave the shit alone!

 

[Kat]

yea you see how stupid it I sound

Fixed.

 

[CP203]

yea like i said, a kid she has with another is not my responsibility

It's not about it being your responsibility, it's about loving a person so much you accept EVERYTHING that they come with..children, mental baggage, financial baggage, whatever.

I mean what's the worst that could happen? You become a father figure to an innocent child in need?

You sound cold and heartless...but least you honest, I guess.

LMAO I'm bout to try that, tell a chick you love me like you say you do then take care of my kids

She should.

my point is i would never do that, shit is silly taking responsibility for someone i had no part in creating, only way is my situation where i adopted an orphan and if my ex wife wasn't with it, it wouldn't have happened

 

[Kat]

Yall been going back and forth with this shit for 3 pages and still haven't gotten each others points.

Just leave the shit alone!

For real.

No I don't think you should become some woman's financier sponsoring her children, however, if you love a woman and she has a child or children there is nothing shameful in stepping into a fatherly role for those children. If anything its admirable and YES it takes a special, caring type of man to do so.

*drops mic*

 

[The Recipe]

I have kids my self and not with my bm, so I understand that sometimes relationships dont work, but children are still products of those relationships.

But its a case by case situation Imo. Im not saving every kid that I come across through a relationship. But I would consider having a family with the right woman im in love with if she has children.

 

[CP203]

my kids know who i am and know what i do, so idc

 

[Kat]

Boy

I wouldn't come into the relationship trying to be the care giver but if me and the mother connect and bond I have to take her and her child as a package deal. What's the worst can happen the child see a positive role model? I mean if shorty just a bust down then that's a different story but I'll still wouldn't front on the kid regardless.

GOAT.

 

[AP21]

was smashing a chick that had two daughters

I couldnt allow myself to take it any further once she caught feelings. I had fun with those kids too, but i knew i wasnt shit at the time and it woudlnt have been fair to them

she eventually got married and ended up having two more with her now husband. Im glad everything worked out for her b/c she was a real down ass cool chick

 

[yellowtapesport]

At first I was like FUCK NAW...but under the right circumstances (BAD bitch, kid cool, baby daddy NOWHERE in the pic, kid older than 7 but younger than 14, prob more but you get the point..), I'd be willing to see what it do.

 

[CP203]

lol it takes a special type of man to do that, so then why not have a baby with that special man in the first place?? hmmm

 

[Mr.LV]

Their father better be dead in a coffin buried under six feet of dirt and rocks ,for me to even consider taking over the responsibility of his offspring that he help bring in to this world.