How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[Kat]

I aint even taking care of the mom..fuck I look like taking care of some ugly ass kid

You can't even take care of yourself..foh with all that.

Bitch ur 40...single n miserable... Lol..u don't even take care of ya kid

Ur still on ignore too cunt

Stop lying.

You get so angry cause you know I'm right.

 

[King Erauno]

nowadays chicks i meet bring up their kids within the first 15 mins of convo..and thats appreciated so i can dip out.

I've dated a few chicks that were really great women and they had 1 kid by some lame. I dont take care of the kid tho..id interact with them and play but let mom do all the work

 

[CP203]

thats some sucker shit, and then birds say a real man loves the child regardless like his own FOH

 

[jetlifebih]

thats some sucker shit, and then birds say a real man loves the child regardless like his own FOH

Then be having niggas post online

"a real man would take care of the complete package , woman and child"

"A real man takes care of another mans problem"

"A real man would love my child just as much as he loves me"

Ahaaaaa! Got eee!

 

[Max.]

I aint even taking care of the mom..fuck I look like taking care of some ugly ass kid

You can't even take care of yourself..foh with all that.

Bitch ur 40...single n miserable... Lol..u don't even take care of ya kid

Ur still on ignore too cunt

Stop lying.

You get so angry cause you know I'm right.

Damn ur annoying

 

[CP203]

thats some sucker shit, and then birds say a real man loves the child regardless like his own FOH

Then be having niggas post online

"a real man would take care of the complete package , woman and child"

"A real man takes care of another mans problem"

"A real man would love my child just as much as he loves me"

Ahaaaaa! Got eee!

i had to hit a bitch with the what do you know about being a man and when did you learn it after you got pregnant by a bum

 

[StoneColdMikey]

im about to be 21 years old. fuck i look like trying to take care a kid that aint mine when i don't even have kids of my own? if i was older than yeah , but right now hell no

 

[DNB1]

Wait...don't you got an adopted daughter?

Whats the difference? That aint yo child...

Adoption is ok but taking on a woman with a child is sucker shit?

#TheLogic

I use "real man" in the sense that you not let a woman you love slip away because she has a child....

I WAS NOT SUGGESTING THAT YOU TAKE CARE OF RANDOM NIGGAS KIDS...lol

 

[CP203]

an adopted daughter who both parents died, naaaaaaaaaa nigga the father not gonna be alive and well and I'm a say i love your mom so much you're mine too na fam thats some sucker shit however you spin it

 

[DNB1]

an adopted daughter who both parents died, naaaaaaaaaa nigga the father not gonna be alive and well and I'm a say i love your mom so much you're mine too na fam thats some sucker shit however you spin it

lol...ok fam...

My step daughter is the older sister to my two kids. I'll always do the same for her as I would my own.

 

[CP203]

so one of my baby moms has another kid I'm supposed to love em like my own and take care of em just because i love my baby mom and thats my child sibling?????????

 

[Dupac]

i wouldn't have an issue with it......

one of my best friends is pretty much in jail for ever, and i do my best to include his kids in everything i do with my son....i even just got his daughter her prom dress a few weeks ago, and i'm getting my nephew in wrestling with my son as well.. shit's life, i have no issues with kids

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

A poor decision normally has unfavorable consequences. And sometimes children are the outcome of poor decisions. It's just life. Its not the child's fault tho. But if I had dated a woman with a child and it got more serious, that relationship with the child would advance as the relationship with their mother advances. I guess that's just the type of mentality I have.

I'm not going to knock a man who doesn't want to take on that responsibility. That's their decision. But even as a married man with a son, I'm always looking out for kids that aren't mine, so it wouldn't be an issue.

 

[Inglewood_B]

I don't see a problem with it, but my own situation is in the reverse.

I got custody of my daughter (full black) and my girl (Mexican) love her and treat her just she would her own. And we got one on the way.

 

[nex gin]

A poor decision normally has unfavorable consequences. And sometimes children are the outcome of poor decisions. It's just life. Its not the child's fault tho. But if I had dated a woman with a child and it got more serious, that relationship with the child would advance as the relationship with their mother advances. I guess that's just the type of mentality I have.

I'm not going to knock a man who doesn't want to take on that responsibility. That's their decision. But even as a married man with a son, I'm always looking out for kids that aren't mine, so it wouldn't be an issue.

^^ Basically this. smh @ some of these answers....but to each his own. I've done it and I can't fault another man for taking on that responsibility or not wanting to take on that responsibility. It takes a certain level of maturity & patience to deal w/ a woman who already has children.

 

[Max.]

If a guy has a kid...females say ""awww I don't want no dude with kids n other baby mama drama e" but these hoes expect us to accept there 3 kids lmaoooo foh

 

[Inglewood_B]

Plus when I lived with pops, he always took in kids from the neighborhood when they parents was all fucked up and shit and let us bring our friends to whatever we did (movies/bowling/theme parks/whatever) he was always breakin bread. I'd probably do the same if my daughter had friends in need or somethin

 

[CP203]

Plus when I lived with pops, he always took in kids from the neighborhood when they parents was all fucked up and shit and let us bring our friends to whatever we did (movies/bowling/theme parks/whatever) he was always breakin bread. I'd probably do the same if my daughter had friends in need or somethin

You're dad is a good dude , my mom used to do the same shit, always paid for one of my friends to go wherever with me

 

[CP203]

i wouldn't have an issue with it......

one of my best friends is pretty much in jail for ever, and i do my best to include his kids in everything i do with my son....i even just got his daughter her prom dress a few weeks ago, and i'm getting my nephew in wrestling with my son as well.. shit's life, i have no issues with kids

Goat, I do something similar but because of survivors guilt

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Plus when I lived with pops, he always took in kids from the neighborhood when they parents was all fucked up and shit and let us bring our friends to whatever we did (movies/bowling/theme parks/whatever) he was always breakin bread. I'd probably do the same if my daughter had friends in need or somethin

That's called communal parenting. My parents did the same thing. My grandparents did it. And they ask instilled that in me. We need more parents like that.